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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He's moved on. Why can't I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My fiance of 3 yrs broke up with me in June. He moved on a month later. We were together for eight years and there was cheating on both sides. His cheating resulted in a child. I forgave him, but what hurt me was all the lying. I was blamed for ...

Should I ask my boyfriend for a break (so I can pursue another guy)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I am 21 and have been in a happy, loving relationship for 3 years but recently moved to Spain to study for a year. Before I moved away I realised that the spark in my relationship had started to fade and I felt less attracted to my boyfriend than ...

Should I continue to pursue her and should I send her this letter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Letter to Girlfriend My gf and I have recently split, it was her decision. We never argued, always got on really well, we clicked... But we fell pregnant after 4 months and she decided it was best to terminate, and since the initial pregnancy ...

How do I break up with four ladies I have spent so much time and feelings into without feeling guilty for doing so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend going on 1 year and 5 months. She is a single mother with 3 daughters that I have gotten attached to and love very much. The thing is, I don't really think i'm in love anymore with her. There are many things that led ...

Is being friends with an ex that still loves you cruel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Is being friends with my ex too cruel if she's still in love with me after 5 months broken up?...

He didn't call after we had sex on the 3rd date...should I just forget about him ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I met this guy through a friend. We went out three times, on the third date we went out dancing and had sex. The following day he didn't call. I asked him if I had done something wrong? he said that it wasn't me, that it was him and that he ...

He's my fiancee but I am no longer attracted to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for a little over a year. We have been throught a lot in our short relationship. He has a child from a previous relationship and that caused a great deal of stress in the beginning of our relationship, he was ...

He's a great guy...but not sure of I respect him enough.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi, some ideas please! I am worried cos with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now (not living together yet but planning to) and sometimes feel bored. Basically I feel I need to admire and look up to him (based on previous relationship) and while I think ...

How can I maintain a healthy relationship?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5276 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - So me and my ex girlfriend have been together for 3 years now. We split up recently because our relationship went downhill, mainly because of me. At first, our relationship was perfect, about halfway, I started letting things that happened in my ...

I want to date again but have insecurities because of the past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Ok, this is kinda a two part situation for me that is really hard for me to get over, so no flaming please =P Well i suppose i should start in the beginning and keep it short =P. Me and my ex dated for a year and a half and after her cheating on ...

Best friend angry with me now her brother/my bf won't speak to me. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - ** none of the names are real** All are edited** This is going to seem rather long but i dont know how to make it any shorter. Please bare with me. About 10 months ago, i met Ashley. We didnt get along well and first but eventualy we got to be...

Could this mean she still has feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Me and my ex broke up back in August. However we remained friends. About 2 months later I brought up the idea of hangin out 'just as friends' and she said we could. Well one morning she texts me and says that she didn't want to hang out. Well one ...

High Maintenance...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - i need some advice mainly from men.. but women please can you give your opinions too.. are men really put off with high maintenance girls? and whenever they classify a girl as high maintenance what exactly do they mean? Personally i always like my...

How can I show her she deserves better than some guy who wants to screw other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - My sister is 23 and has been dating a guy for over 7 years. A month ago he told her he was bi and had been cheating on her with a guy. She broke up with him but has since taken him back. They now have an open relationship where he can go and be gay ...

I want him back so badly... why do I feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

12 November 2009 (?) - please help. i was dating this guy for 5 months and we just recently broke up. i was really into him even tho our relationship was horrible. some things he said were almost unforgiveable but i still feel the need to try and get him back. an urgent ...