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Archived questions from: 30 November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Help! How do I let him go...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend, "Chris", broke up with me. I honest to God, truly loved Chris. I wanted to be with him forever, but he didn't see it the way I did. I'm heartbroken now, and I don't know what to do. I've told him before how much I liked him, but he ...

I miss my ex so much, but she wont answer my calls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much. My girl friend and I just broke up after about 3 years. I miss her alot it hurts me not to be around her we have broken up before and we have gotten back togther but this time feels diffrent she usally calls and we ...

I married in haste, and now he has changed for the worse

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I feel kind of weird writing this but I have no one else to talk to and I seriously don't know what else to do. I am 20 years old and just got married Oct. 9th at a courthouse to the guy I was in AIT training all summer with (for the army.) H...

Is this something that happens with military men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up due to his stress level and the upcoming tour in Afganastain. He said that he loves me unconditionally but doens't know if he is coming back, he is scared and that I should live my life and move on. He told me to gog away ...

I know she loves me and this is just mind games she's playing. How do I win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - Never wrote like this before so here goes. I left my wife 3 years ago, I still loved her but the relationship was one sided, I left to see if she cared, as it turned out she did not want me back, leaving her and four kids. So to cut a long story sh...

I want to end it with him but I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my man for around 2 years, and its got to the stage where i've been mulling in my head for months that i want it to end. I truly do, i know this and i know it would make me so much happier if i could. But i can't! He lives near Sou...

I've tried everything too make her fall iin love with me again... help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 9yrs and we have been together for 14yrs. We have a 12yr old son beautiful home. Gave her everything surprises, gifts, parties, vacations. We were head over hills about each other, but we also had financial problems at ...

My boyfriend has to leave the country to look after his parents in 2 months time, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - dear friends, I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months.we had really good time together and it was just understood that we will be together in long run. But now he suddenly said his parents are old and they need him so he has to l...

I want to tell this new younger woman what a jerk this guy is but I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - i've been having an affair with a married man. he is now divorcing his wife and i found out he is seeing a younger woman. i followed him home from work the other night and he ended up going to her place. i want to confront her and tell her what a ...

I so want us to get back together and be exclusive but he doesn't know if he can do this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend and he was crushed. A few months later, we still were talking/rekindling things. I spent Thanksgiving break at his apartment with him, and we realized we are totally not over each other. We had agreed to sleep with other ...

I can't just be his friend... it hurts too much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - I am 15 years old and me and my boyfriend split up about a month ago and i thought things were going to be fine. I started seeing this other lad and things seem good to start with. Then all my feelings for my ex came back and i split up with my ...

Please help, I need to get this idiot out of my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi , Yes iv written before when my then boyfriend was being bad, distant and cold. He kept calling i rejected the calls and avoided the texts. then he turned up at my doorstep a couple of days later begging for anothr chance and I gave him one (de...

What are the chances that we will be able to resolve this problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - My relationship of 4.5 years had developed some problems a few months ago. I think we just got a little too settled and were arguing about some petty things. Then things got much worse, and it turns out that my fiancee had begun talking to an old ...

On and off boyfriends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 ...

I feel there is so much still left unsaid between us, where do we go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be verbally...

I feel like she is using me and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - My ex-girlfriend of one year and I recently broke up about a month ago. She knows I want to fix things and get her back in my life. We still text everyday and there is no resentment towards each other. Over the holiday weekend we met at a bar with ...

He used to talk about taking vacations together, now he doesn't answer my calls. What happened?

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30 November 2009 (F) - Hi I saw this guy that I use to work with about 5years ago. When we worked together he was married, but when I saw him, he told me he was divorced.He asked about taking me on a date. He called me the same night. The nights leading up to our first da...

Will she ever get over her divorce and show that she loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

30 November 2009 (M) - I am not sure what actually should i put here...I am so sad, confused and depressed that it is all mixed up. I am in a relationship with a woman 2 years older to me. I love her a lot. She is divorced and I have never been married. She has this ...

He wanted sex and I said no, so he broke up with me. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Hi friends, I need to talk to you,I would like some advice and but I don't want to go into full detail, but hopefully enough for you to help me. I had been dating this guy for 2 months until tonight. He ended things, because we were not havi...

Why did he break off the proposal? What can I do?

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30 November 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend for about a year and a half. I loved him, and he said he loved me. One day he poposed. I said yes, and everything was just great. Then, about three hours ago, he called, said he didn't want to get married, didn't want to date me at ...

My ex and I are friends, so why does he keep pushing me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up a year ago, but we have remained friends. He keeps telling me that he loves me but that he can't be in a relationship for various reasons. We are not sleeping together, nor have we since we broke up. I'm smart enough n...

Is it too soon to see a lawyer? He left me 2 weeks ago without any money!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - my husband walked out 2 weeks ago. we were just fighting everyday. we have been married 11 years but together 20 years. i love him and want him home but he wont even talk to me. he came by last week to get his stuff and told me he loves me,hugged ...