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Archived questions from: 11 November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Am I just trying to fill a void because my boyfriend and I broke up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

11 November 2009 (?) - I'm 16 and me and my bf (18) just broke up. now im talking to this guy tht i have been on and off with since i was 13 and he was 15. hes now 18. we had sex one time over the summer and we sometimes talk, on and off. lately i have been talking to him ...

We broke up after five years -- is there any hope of getting back together?

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11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with be because she saw a note on msn under the contact list telling a woman that I used to chat with her 5 years go and wanted to talk to her. I used to chat with her befor I met my gf. She thought I was planning ...

My LDR didn't work out, but I can't get him out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm 28 years old and during the past 10 years I've never been single... until now. In August I broke up with my boyfriend, with whom I had gone out for 2 years. I made the decision because I fell for someone else. The thing is, this guy lives v...

Please, help? I love him but its complicated. I just don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5274 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, So, I dated a guy almost year ago after he moved here to start school. I found out after we had been together for a year that he still had a girlfriend back home. We broke up, but remained friends. It has been 11 months, and we ar...

Can geeting completely crushed change you so completly.?..I just don't know how to go on...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up. Cliche, I know. You hear it on this site about 100 times a day, I know that also. And I'm sure you have also heard "it's different". Well it is. I was living with my boyfriend and he left last night. At the time it ...

How did I get here? Why would I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I've made such a horrible mess out of my life. 6 months ago I had a job that I loved, a beautiful home, a fiance and a dog. Now, I reside in my mothers house, broke, single and dogless. Most people would have picked themselves up by now b...

Husband filed for divorce, but I don't think either of us wants one. What are some ideas for putting my marriage back on track?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Okay. My husband has told me he has filed for divorce. We have been separated for 8 months now. The first 4 months he did have interest in us going to marital counseling and working on our marriage. We had been married for 11 months when we ...

Did my ex-boyfriend lead me on or did he change his mind after we saw each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Why does it seem like ex-boyfriends like to give you the idea that they want to get back together, that they miss you, and when you finally meet up and have a great time, they completely disappear? is it something he is doing on purpose? to lead...

My wife cheated and I suggested she give herself space to think. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My wife has been having major stress at work and endinced working closely with a guy on a particular project for several weeks and during this time ive been working away for most of it, She has now told me she theyve slept together and thinks she ...

Lost my girlfriend.... but should I keep her as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - 18 months ago I fell in love. I'm 31 now. The sad thing is, this is my first real relationship. She was the first person who ever saw past my weight, etc, and gave me a chance. This is probably because I got to know her, and she got to know me, for ...

I have betrayed my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - me and my boy friend has been dating for almost 2 years now. we love each other and we are crazy about eachother. recently i have moved to another country to study. in here im so free, i live alone. my parents live in another country and i ha...

After 8 years I have finally decided to end it, but I'm afraid to move on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for 81/2 years. Recently, he so-called proposed (without a ring). He had planned a simple wedding with the Justice of the Peace for January 05, 2010. We have never lived together, in fact, I don't even know where he ...

How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Recently my boyfriend and I broke up and I want him back. We broke up over a week ago and are on speaking terms. I see him at school every day and today he told me that the reason he broke up with me was because he was the one doing most of ...

I had just started to get over her and now she texts me saying she wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - ok so my ex and I were in a long distance relationship. I was in love with her and she told me the same. we met in person after a few months and we had a real good time. soon after we got back home to our own places. she broke it off and didn't give ...

I no longer feel the same way for him, how could I leave without destroying him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. he is 7 year older, our relationship started fast within a month he moved in and after 6 months bought a house. We have been through a lot, his divorce, custody battle (his previous marriage) and him ...

He broke things off and never told me why!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship with this boy for almost a year.He had proposed and wed planned for our future, he couldn't have children, so we decided when the time was right we'd adopt. Well just 3 weeks later, everything changed. He was driving me ...

Why do I still think about my ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend left me six months ago. she never game a reason but 3 weeks ago she she sent me a request to chat on yahoo messenger. she wanted to know if i had deleted her from facebook and if i still go out dancing, because she goes out dancing ...

Should I visit him and see where our love stands?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - i need help to move on. a childhood friend who courted me since i was 15yrs to 18yrs til i left for canada had reconnected jan 2008. i was still married but seriously seeking a divorce because of abuse and mental cruelty. while husband was on a ...

I just don't get him! Why after 11 months is he still so bitter?

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11 November 2009 (F) - i broke up with my ex of 6 yrs its been 11 months and im over it,we have a 5 yr old son and up until lately we didnt have a problem speaking.ive noticed that the last 4 months he has refused to communicate with me at all only talking and texting ...