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Archived questions from: 10 November, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

After a break up, who should initiate a friendship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Okay, after a break up who initiates friendship? The person whose heart has been broken or the person who broke the heart? My exboyfriend and I were great friends before we dated and we did agree to being being friends. I miss having him in my li...

He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship ...

I feel there is still hope for us. Is it really over or am I in denial???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years, we have been through so much together. I have 3 children and he has been involved with them %100.. we are a family.. My childrens' father is not easy and complicates things like decision making when it comes...

Did he text me so we can be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Ok so another small problem. I was seeing this guy for 8 weeks, we had such a laugh together and everything was great. I had met him 4 weeks after I came out of a 4 year relationship and I found him irrestistable. A few years ago, he came out...

What is the easiest way to switch from lovers to friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi there, my gf and I have just split up after just over a year together. we still love each other very much, have retained the openess, honesty and trust we have built up and still get along very well. the only reason for the break up is that she ...

Please help me cope with breaking up with me ex-girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I broke up from my girlfriend 8 days ago, last Monday, after an argument. The thing is, I'm still madly in love with her.. I met my now ex through a friend of ours. She kept telling me how well suited we'd be together, so we were introduced to on...

How can I help my friend stop obsessing about her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My friend broke up with her boyfriend almost a year ago and it was for a good reason, a really understandable reason.. but now, she won't stop thinking about him and wanting him back. I have told her time and time again to stop going after him. ...

What were his reasons for saying all this to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - ok. i am really confused. my ex, who is also the father of my unborn child, has a gf now. it doesnt bother me, his loss right? anyways, a few days ago we were talking and i told him that he was the best i ever had, sexually of course, and he told me ...

Is there any hope he and I will date again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Well, my boyfriend broke up with me three days ago and whenever I look at him my eyes tear up and I just can't be around him. We still talk but I just can't be just friends with him. I still love him so much, I need to know if there is any hope that ...

Things went well...until she blocked me on Facebook! Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Morning all, I'm in a dilemma and I think I did something to blow a potentially good thing. I have been talking with a girl for the last month or so, and everything was going so well -- chatting, chemistry and what not talking on the phone, plus ...

How do I make this long distance relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Hi there, I have recently started a long distance relationship with a girl in America. And me being from the UK. We both love each other very much but we only get to see each other every few months. And we're both finding it hard but I'm willing to ...

My bf is being pressured to date his old gf! Will he give in to that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - i am dating this guy i have liked for ages and he liked me back. i have one problem. He made out with a girl on camp (before he started dating me) but not long before and well I'm worried that he might get pressured into dating her by their mutual ...

Should I be alarmed by the timing of her personal grooming?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - I am a 44 y/o male engaged to a 42 y/o woman...we have been together for 1.5 yrs., our relationship has had it's ups and downs, however, we profess our commitment to each other. She seems to wear her ring with pride. Although, lately we have been in ...

I am struggling to get over my ex-girlfriend; the mother of my child.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Hi there my name is james and I'm 22 years old me and my ex girlfriend were going out for 4 years on and off we also have a son together the most recent break up we have had has lasted 6 months. But we have been gettin on good. So I have been goin ...

Why would my ex add me as a friend on facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (M) - Me and my ex hadn't spoken in over a month. we got into an arguement and told me to just leave her alone so I did. There was no contact between us at all. Well last night she sends me a friend request on facebook. I still like the girl but I'm ...

Trying to break up with him, will this be the clean break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - how do I know that I'm doing the right thing? I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2 years. he loves me so much that he has been fighting to keep us together. I feel bad for not wanting to work at it anymore. I just don't care that much about the ...

I am thinking of rekindling my romance with my ex, how do I tell my family who hate him and end my current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Hi, Right the brief version if this, met guy 19, fall for each other, then he got married, had affair, I broke it off, now I am with someone else, so is he, but his left the girl, wants to be with me, I want him as well, as never loved the guy I ...

Should I ask him if he wants to get back or wait for him to speak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Just to repost this for more replies from our aunts: My boyfriend of 1 year and I broke up 6 months ago. For 4 months, we remained in contact though he expressed twice that he wished for me to stop contacting him. On the 5th month apart, hav...

My ex and I are still friends and have sex, he is not sure he wants to get back together, what should I do

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - my exs and i broke up..we are still friends and he tells me that he misses me alot and thinks about us and we still have sex. but hes not sure if he wants to get back with me. what should i do? ...

Is my boyfriend breaking up with me for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We met in high school, and now we're both in college. We've had trust issues because we both have made mistakes in the past. However, our love for each other is so strong that we are inseparable. He's ...

Six months and no I love you

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - I know that every relationship moves at a different pace and you can't put a time limit on love. But I think it is typical of most relationships that after six months you know someone well enough to know whether you love them or not? It's not ...

My bf's mother said I was good for nothing..that I ruined her son's life.!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - well im 18 years old and i have a huge problem, me and my boyfriend, have been together ever since we were 14 and we moved in together about a year ago. Our relationship with eachother is sometimes great but we have our ups and downs like some ...