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writes:My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but we still talked a lot and hung out and she still tells me she loves me. We broke up because we were fighting a lot (which was usually because of me being a ass) but since we have broke up I have been really nice even when she is being a B***H because I want her back. Things seem to be getting better but sometimes she is just mean to me over the phone and stuff. And I told her if she keeps being mean to me then I'm not going to talk to her anymore. But the last 2 times we seen each other we "did stuff." And she told me that she wants to hangout just as friends and not be all over each other. But how should I act around her when we hang out? I want her to want me back.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (18 November 2009):
 well first things first stop doing this "stuff" and really start acting like friends. You want her to fall back in love with the person that you were the first time you met. And if you keep doing this stuff then thats going to confuse things. When you see her act friendly and show her how much you enjoy being in her company, however don't try to come onto her or anything like that. Because maybe she will be put off. If she wants you to hang out as friends then i suggest thats whats you have to do, by doing this it will show to her that you are listening to what she is saying and are trying your best to make her happy.
If she starts acting like a B***H then follow up on your word and don't talk to her for a few days so that she knows that she just can't walk all over you and treat you as badly as she is doing.
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