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Broke up, didn't want to be contacted but now he's sending messages again

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Question - (10 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am still broken up with my boyfriend since 3 months ago. It was a very bad break-up, he was very angry with me. I texted him later to say sorry but he said that I should leave him alone. He said that if we keep texting each other, then it will be difficult for us to recover.

So I didn't text him for a month and a half. I was doing ok at first. But after that time I started to text him again like twice a week and he would ignore me. So i stopped doing it. Then later it was him texting me late at nights and i would reply next day.

Now, we seem to be okay but we never talked about our break-up. And we never met since that break-up. I sometimes wonder if he still loves me coz to be honest I still do but i will never dare ask him...i am shy. My question, I thought he said that we should stop communication for us to recover, why doesn't he remind me about it anymore? And he's the one who starts this texting but after 3 replies from me, he would stop replying back.

Now with this encouragement, I feel he still loves me and maybe I can go back to him. Is there hope here or should I just dismiss this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2009):

I think that he is just putting up with you bugging him with the texts.

If he still felt for you he would have made a move to spend time with you so I really think that this is over form him. He sounds like he has moved on with his life, maybe you should too.

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