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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do you get over a guy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I have one slight problem I have a bf and he's just gorgeous and I broke up with him because he was just a player and couldn't be with just one girl so I said that if he's gonna continue treating me like this we have to be over, well it happe...

How much can I get screwed over in court for a divorce after a 1 year marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Seriously, how much can I get screwed over in court for a divorce after a 1 year marriage? The specifics are: I live in NJ, married in Louisiana. My wife (6 years older than me) was just obviously trying to get a free ride with the military. She ...

Why would he lie about her staying the night?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - okay, so I've never resulted to asking a website anything but I'm a little desperate. Me and this guy have been dating since January 17, 2007 and I broke up with him for about 3 weeks and he continuously called and drove by my house, he begged me to ...

Where do I take it from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - Hello all, Man I don't feel very lucky at the moment! I posted a message a while back, perhaps a month or so ago about my ex girlfriend. I won't bother recapping it all, we broke up, I wasn't over her, she seemed confused about how she felt, et...

Quickest way to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old and i really like this boy for couple of months now, and it felt like he liked me bk, every where i go his eye were always on me, he started flirting wiv me but i avoided it n i told a couple of my friends tha i hav a crush on ...

Can I really be with someone that I can't rely on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up after a very happy 2 years together. We split up because I felt I couldn't rely on him and after 2 months of being apart he wants to get back together. Splitting up with him was a very hard thing to do but I felt I had ...

My boyfriend broke up with me to date my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend for 8 years and were inlove,until one day he told me that his going out with other girl and we talk about it and he tell me to understand him and he want a space from me,,then i gave him his space but he refuse to let me go ...

We've broken up and I'm hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - i have just ended things with my boyfriend, we had been together almost three years, and in that time he has cheated on twice. I am very upset about the breakup even though i am the one who made the choice, when i told him, he accepted it and did ...

My ex is a beautiful godess and I can't find sexual pleasure in other women since I met her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - I have a problem that doesn't seem to be going away. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years about 14 months ago (long story short: we were fighting a lot, neither of us were happy, I suggested taking a "break", and we never got back together- ...

His friends come first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend an i have been dating for eleven months at seven months we moved in together we argued alot i found out he was using drugs we decided to move out and then i told his parents. his friends all hate me for what i did.he is now an out ...

Continue? Or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now , but I am not sure if we should stay together. When I first met him he did not tell me that he and his ex wife were still involved , so of course I fell in love with him. Well eventually I met her but ...

He said we shouldn't date because he's friends of my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - SO I have been seeing this guy for a while now.. last night we were making out and it lead to us almost having sex... we didn't have sex cause he couldn't get it up .. this has happened before where he has issues with staying erect.. I think this ...

Does he want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I think my ex still cares about me, but i dont want to get my hopes up. He broke up with me thinking that i was faking a chest pain, even after i went to the emergency room. Anyways, he gave me some of his old clothes that he doesn't fit anymore, ...

He's been hot and cold for four years... how can I get over him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - okay so im 17 and have been with a the same guy off and on for about 4 years now, he tells me he likes me and we will do stuff and then 3 weeks later he says hes not feeling it. This has happend at least 4 times. I need help getting over him because ...

Can someone please PLEASE help me with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 6 months on and off and lost my virginity to him. He had commitment issues and couldn't handle our relationship and ended up breaking up with me. He insisted that we still be friends as he didn't want to lose me. We've ...

How do you make someone leave your house when the relationship is over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (M) - My Fiancee is stealing my pain medication and lying to me about it. We have been together for 5 years and have planned on getting married soon. I't doesn't matter how well I lock my my pills up or hide them she always finds them and lies about ...

I feel betrayed and cannot accept his so-called honest confession that he has thoughts of reconciling with his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a divorced man with two kids. When we first got involved, we fell madly and deeply in love (or so I thought). Over time, the way the ex-wife manipulated my boyfriend (via the kids) became too much for me, and it always ...

I just don't feel right being in a relationship right now, how do I let him down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - PLEASE HELP!! well i dated this guy in the 7th grade, we dated a little under a year.. we just started talking again, and he knows i have not been in a relationship in over a year, because my daughters dad left and i havent been ready.. well he ...

Will this feeling ever go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - Almost 7 months and still in love with my ex. Uch, will it ever end!? ...

I seen the photo! why does he lie about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - My question is why he keeps denying everything: I dated this guy for a year and half the first four months of us dating was fine in the fifth month he fell into a depression and isolated himself and the only person he wanted to see was me. So I...

Every time I open my mouth I say the wrong thing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

9 January 2009 (F) - hello. i need help and advice. i am so sorry this is so long but i have recently split up from my boyfriend of 4.5 years on monday. he is my first love. it was a very very confusing and upsetting situation as to my knowledge everything was going ...