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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I don't want to love the new guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been in this amazing relationship with this guy for 2 and a half years. The first year we had a long distance relationship but it worked out and the second year he moved closer same highs chool and all it was great but then at the start of ...

If he still cares about me and plans to be with me again why is he fooling around with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) - Me and my ex broke up around mid November. We really haven't communicated since the big break up. I text him and wished him a merry christmas. That is the extent of our conversation. Our pictures together are still up on his webpage and he still has ...

Help me move on please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hey I've recently split up from my boyfriend of 3 years and am having a really hard time. I just cannot move on from the fact that he could hurt me. Basically it's like everything he had said to me, he'd been saying to someone else the entire t...

Will I be able to love anyone else as much as I loved my first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - A few years ago I went out with this guy and we were together for over a year. We honestly did love each other and we have kept close contact until very recently. The thing is he still loved me even after 2 years after we broke up. I didn't realise ...

She says she cares a lot about me and she does truly like me, but her love for her ex is getting in the way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - So basically we have history we used to go out for a year, after that they started to date for 3 years, the last year of that relationship, he neglected her and she was tired of it, but also feels she's part of the relationship failing too. So now ...

He hates me but I still love him

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11 January 2009 (F) - I had my first boyfriend in May, we didn't go out for long but we ended up living together. He was. everything I wanted in someone. We did everything together, we slept beside each other. He would always look at me a certain way that i knew he loved ...

He doesn't talk to me and says "I don't feel like it"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Starting out, my bf's name will be "George." So, George asks me out and I'm all happy because I've liked him for maybe... a year and a half. And then we go on winter break and don't see each other until New Year's Eve, when we have a really nice ...

Should I call her or leave it alone?

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11 January 2009 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend of 1 year recently broke up 11 days ago. She is 24 im 25 she broke up with me because she felt she wasent putting in the same effort I was towards the relationship.She felt she didnt have the time to spare for a relationship ...

My ex won't go out with me again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I'm wondering if someone can help me..my boyfriend broke up with me because I had been a bad girlfriend, I was the very jealous type when I had no reason to be and it drove him crazy. I was heartbroken. Months later he contacted me and we talked ...

His ex gf's back! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - i have been dating this guy for almost 3 years we met when i was going though a divorce and after the loss of my 24 yr old son. He really helped me alot. he was separated from his girlfriend at the time. We started off as friends but i fell in love ...

Why is does my ex keep calling so much if I'm just his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I was trying to keep a friendship with my ex bf (he broke it off) but it was just too emotionally draining. I still wanna be with him and love him, but he said he doesn't want a relationship at all right now, or maybe never. He gives me mixed ...

Too late????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I went out with this girl about a year ago and when she got a little too close I broke up with her. Since then she has been my best friend and slowly I began to fall in love with her. BUT even though she constantly wanted to get back together I ...

How can I get out of this situation when I have extremely limited resources?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I seriously feel stuck in a rut right now. My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship and he's already going on dates with other girls, while I'm barely hanging out with even my friends! The reason we broke up is because he ...

Can't get him out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - i was with a man for six years and he has left me for a women he has known ova 20 years,he is a crack user and hurt me and my kids, i cant get him out of my head, and he is stayin in the same road as me with her, what can i do?...