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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I have thoughts on a regular basis that the two of us should probably go our separate ways.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

18 January 2009 (M - I've been with my girlfriend for just over 4 years, we met at university and have been together ever since. However I can remember as little as 6 months had passed before I started to have doubts; the doubts were usually pushed aside by long ...

I have never felt so emotionally obliterated since our break up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 January 2009 (F - I was with my ex for 2 years and I was doing fine after we broke up. I felt that after he moved 2 hours away and I couldn't get a job to be with him. Our odds of feelings changing and fights increasing from lack of time to see eachother and the long ...

We broke up because of sex and I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

18 January 2009 (M - Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months ok? We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each other. Even some teachers ...

Has anyone else ever had their heart ripped apart like this, and how did you deal with it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

18 January 2009 (F - My boyfriend and I live some miles aways from each other, and every time he comes to see me (he never lets me come to his) he had to take two buses, which took nearly two hours and cost a lot of money which he barely had. Last night he came into ...

I am having a really hard time getting over her. What's your opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

18 January 2009 (M - Hello I was dating a girl for 2 months and everything was going great, until x-mas when she stopped putting effort into our relationship right after a trip to where she resently moved from. Then she stopped telling me about what was going on and...

Breaking up is so hard to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5584 days ago

18 January 2009 (M - I just broke up with my girlfriend of 5 months, she is my batch mate so i see her everyday at school and its really hard for me, i love her so much and this is rally killing me, what should i do? ...

He acted as if he had no responsibility...any encouraging words to help me get closure??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

18 January 2009 (F - This is an update from a question posted -(Jan 6, I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane)Please read so this all makes sense. Well I went ahead and broke up with him last weekend. Found out too he was making all these ma...

My wife of 34 years has left me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

18 January 2009 (M - Yesterday we should have celebrated 34 years of marriage. Unfortunately last Friday 9th, my wife told me that she was unhappy and simply left! It was a very cold conversation, no discussion, no big row, so she'd obviously been thinking about it for ...

Breaking up and moving on

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18 January 2009 (F - How do you get over a breakup? Today, me and my boyfriend split up, i'm devostated and can't stop crying, please give me some tips on how to move on!? Thanks so much!...

We agreed to be friends but it hurts so much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 January 2009 (M - Hey everyone. I have been in a Long distance relationship for 1.5 years. I am a few years older then the girl, shes going into last year of school now. Pretty much We had a GREAT relationship for the whole time, I was in love with her, and she was ...

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