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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Why did my boyfriend lie about the mystery girl he was texting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Why did he lie about something like that? I have a bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I have been on a break since november. Until around christmas, we had very little contact. For about a month, he didn't answer my calls or text messages, etc. B...

I just want him back soo much and just need some help on how to do this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend has just slpit up with me of 3 years for someone else. We were engaged as well, now he has a new girlfirend, he said he just wants to stay friends and he does not have feelings for me no more. I just want him back soo much and just ...

I messed up! What can I do to get my girlfriend's trust back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I tried X the drug, well her mom hates me and the step dad also. My girlfriend's mom took all her stuff away for me to contact her with we have been sneaking around to see each other, she's 17 and I'm 19. What can I do to get her ...

Will their relationship last?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 years has split up with me and is seeing a 16 year old girl, he is 23 will their relationship last?...

I think I like him in 'thataway' and I know he likes me. I'd love to take the change, but I'm literally terrified.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure where to start.. It's been a long time since I've had to post anything on this site.. I was going out with a guy up until about 18 months ago. We broke up because he was controlling, critical, emotionally abusive, a habitual ...

Break my heart over and over...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I love her. But she does not love me. I think she just liked me as a friend. She broke up with her boyfriend a time ago. But still loves him. We've seen eachother from time to time and I thought she liked me. She flirted, she was smilling ...

How can I lift his spirits? Is time the only healer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 4 years. This is the second time it has happened (the first time, we had one year apart before giving it another go), however this time we are living together. I feel so terrible, as there is nothing ...

I just can't stop thinking about my ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - i had a breakup with my ex about four months back.i have moved on into a rebound relationship after that. my new gf really cares about me. i never had a very comforting relationship with my ex, but we shared some really wonderful time together. my ...

How can he change so quickly???? I KNOW he's hurting here too...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year single mum of 4, over 3 years ago I split with a violent ex. I met a fantastic man last year, he was a few years younger and didn't have children of his own. We met online and we chatted for 8 weeks, sometimes we were up all night. He ...

He went out with my b/f and it still hurts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend went out with my best friend after we had broken up for like a week and i only found out two months later. I always thought there was something between them because during our relationship we had so many trust issues and problems ...

I want us to break up so I can continue seeing the other guy and seek out new relationships.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Well, I cheated on my boyfriend of a year with another guy. Now I feel like I want us to break up so I can continue seeing the other guy and seek out new relationships... do you have any advice as to how to break it off with him? I know there is no ...

Was he trying to change me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had been having problems in our relationship for a while about his ex girlfriend who looks exactly like me, in which they hadn't been together in 15 years. Our relationship was absolutely amazing until we went to a party and his ...

Is my ex fiance playing games with me I'm so confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My fiance in the military of almost 2 years broke up with me out of the blue but after the break up I didn't contact him for a month, then I initiated the first contact he replied to my outmost belief quickly when we talk he talks about the future ...

Did I have the right to be insecure in our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a c...

How do I have my fun with other guys and make sure he waits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I went out with this one guy (let's call him X) for two years. Broke up for the second and final time almost two months ago. First time is a bit controversial, so we won't get into that. Anyway, the first month getting over him was crap...I was ...