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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I've read that my first love is in a relationship. We broke up a year and a half ago... Why am I so upset??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I was feeling a little curious just now about the first girl I loved. I took a look at her myspace just to see if there was anything new about her. It says she's in a relationship now and, even though it's been a year and a half since we br...

Will she ever come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years on and off, always ending it when things got too heavy coz I had been deeply hurt in the past. We have been split for 2 months now and she tells me she loves me, yet shows only hate and bitterness toward m...

He's sorry how he ended it with me... why is he contacting me? He chose this not me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 10 years and together with him 13. We have 3 kids together. We have both been unfaithful in the marriage but seem to stay together for the kids I think. He says he truly loves me but people who love each other don't ...

Don't we all rebound off each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I'm a single mum and had a bad, stressful break up with my baby's father. Recently I met and started seeing a guy who made me feel happy for the first time in ages..we're attracted to each other, he respects me, makes me laugh, is good with my baby ...

I need him back desperately.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - About 4 years ago I dated a boy, for about 6-7 months. I fell for him pretty much straight away but after about 5 months my parents decided they didn't like him and I was forced to break up with him. For years down the line I still think about every ...

She was raped and won't get professional help. What can I do to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

13 January 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid I've been with my girlfriend for nearly two years now. After a year and a half we broke up for two months... we were still crazy about each other but had moved in together and were having huge problems. We got back together after two...

Moving on is not easy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - This is a long story but I have to get it out of my chest...Hardly slept last night thinking again of her and how I know she never forgot..I remember the day we went to the bar to eat the same week It all happened and she said to me in a deceiving ...

The longer I'm in this marriage, the more I want out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - look i got married at 17 ive been with my husband for a year married now.. but it seems the longer im with him the more unhappy i get.. its like i dont wana be with hime i want to move on.. what should i do?...

I look at the cd and see the man of my dreams, but I let him get away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, About a year ago I met the man of my dreams at a wedding I was actually a bridesmaid and he was my groomsmen .. But the thing is I was in a four year relationship with alot of problems..so I broke it off with my boyfriend at the time...

I got dumped and she continued to mess with my head while she was sleeping with someone.

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13 January 2009 (M) - So me and my gf of two years broke up in november, before then we lived togethor for a year then in Aug. I had to move away for grad school so it became a long distance relationship and it was going okay. Until I found out she was talking to her ex ...

She loves me but doesn't want me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

13 January 2009 (M) - My ex and I broke up a few months ago. We didnt talk too much the first few weeks after. About two weeks ago we talked in person about our situation (we're in a long distance relationship) She says that she loves me and even invited me over to ...

I think I want to break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

13 January 2009 (?) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 9 months now. Our relationship has its ups and downs- we fight a lot for a while, and then other times we are really content and have no issues. Last month we were really happy, and he wanted to ...

I let my dream guy go..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5590 days ago

My mom made us break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Ok well I feel like I'm totally in love with this boy but I'm 13 and he's 15. He told me he loves me and he wanted to meet my mom so she wouldn't b scared about me liking someone older. We r not dating but we were. When we broke up cuz my mom said ...

I think I'm unattractive and I lost my boyfriend because I'm insecure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - I am an unattractive girl, who is also very insecure. I just lost my boyfriend to this. He got fed up with the fact that I always felt insecure about better looking girls. He always told me it didn't matter and that he loved me. Yet, he also said ...

Did I do the right thing? I gave up being the other woman!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - HI.. well were do i start, about a year ago i met this guy we kinda hit it of but just as friends over the phone he stoped by once we talked for about 20 min and that was it he had a girlfriend and i respected that i didnt even see him like that ...

I don't want to lose what we had because of what I did...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

13 January 2009 (M) - My gf and I have just split up after 5 1/2 months. I'm 16 and she's 15 and we're the most serious partners we're ever had for each other. We broke up becuz I wanted to have sex and she didn't want to. Actually she told me no and I said ok then she ...

Should men chat to other women online?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

13 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up after being together for the past year becuase of his Myspace account. I knew he had one when we first got together and I told him then that I didn't like it. He has over 1500 people on it and their mainly ...