A
male
age
30-35,
*pamalot
writes:I broke up with my gf a couple of months ago (well...she broke up with me to be exact) but I was still in love with her, even though I found out that she didn't love me for the last three or so months of our relationship.A few months before that, I introduced her to two of my best friends, let's call them Person A and Person B. After a few weeks, she began to get close to Person A. Eventually, push came to shove and we had an argument (I'll leave out why because it's irrelevant) and we stopped talking to each other.Then a few weeks after that, the same thing happened with Person A. We had an argument and then they stopped talking to me.However before this happened, they had started going places by themselves, eventually hugs turned more serious and so on and so on. Last week they were 'officially' 'going out'.So essentially, she has 'stolen' my two best friends, lied to me and has made me pretty crestfallen (twice).N.B - I also want to ignore her/Person A, but I am a member of the same organisation as them which meets weekly. We have to maintain contact in order to keep the organisation running properly. They also go to my school, in my year level and Person A is in one of my classes. And on Facebook there are the endless status' and wall posts like: "**** is so luck to have such a handsome guy. (L) *****". Right now, I'm temporarily giving up Facebook, but I need a more permanent solution. Help please?Question 1: How (if) can I get my friends back?Question 2: How can I forget about them?Question 3: What can I do about Facebook?Thanks in advance! :)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Nobody can steal a true friend from somebody. So therefore I wouldn't consider person A & B to be true friends. You'll just have to make some new friends. Stay away from Facebook if it upsets you at the moment. Friends come and go, it's part of life.
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