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Archived questions from: August, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

We broke up because my daughter comes first in my life. But now I regret my haste!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1225 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - OK.. I was dating this guy who I really was falling in love with. We got along great and everything was going well. There was one problem, I have a child and he wasn't sure how ready he was to take on a "family situation". He is 3 years younger ...

My boyfriend can't decide whether to be friends or lovers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1224 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have problems now for a while. A couple of weeks ago I got the impression he doesn't want me around and that im in the way. He says I'm causing him to be depressed and that he just wants to be friends. However when w...

Can't get the thoughts of my affair out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1227 days ago

31 August 2005 (?) - I still love this married man. After 2 1/2 months after the affair finished. He was my cousin's son. I'm trying to get on with my life, but every day I can't get the thoughts of him out of my head. I'm still with the partner I was with when I had th...

After a disagreement, he wanted time to think, but I ended it instead!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1227 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - I need help ASAP! My boyfriend of 2 months and I had one of our disagreements and told me he needed a couple of days off to think and cool off. I didn't think he needed to think about anything, it wasn't like it was a MAJOR decision he had to think ...

Don't know if I should stay and try to work things out with my partner... or leave and start over with a guy I'm attracted to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1224 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I'm going through a divorce and now find myself in the middle. I been talking to a guy friend for a while now and I think I have feelings for him. My divorce took a pause for about 2 weeks because me and my soon to be ex were, out of nowhere,...

Since breaking up I just can't get past the hurt, because I miss him so much...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1144 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago. We were pretty serious and were well on the way to getting married and planning. His work was away and well...it happened that he met another woman and came home and promptly broke with me for her. He has ...

After I sent a text I regretted, I just want to say that I'm sorry...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1228 days ago

30 August 2005 (F) - I recently dated a guy who seems quite up and down in his emotions. Despite us splitting up (his choice, and quite out of the blue!) I have good reason to believe he still has feelings for me, but he won't discuss it. In my infuriation I over-t...

I know I have to let go and move on, so how do I do that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1152 days ago

29 August 2005 (M) - How do I let go? I wrote July 15, 'I broke every rule I have' about a relationship I had had with a woman that I'd had a crush on in college some seven years ago and found last fall working in my same office building. We began hanging out together...

She wanted me to move to Florida, and when I wouldn't, she broke off our engagement!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1230 days ago

28 August 2005 (M) - My fiancee left me a week ago today. About 3 weeks ago she went to Florida on a vacation to visit family members. She constantly asked me if I would consider moving down there in 2 years. After about 2 weeks of this I said "No, I don't think so, I ...

How did my ex get over me so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 902 days ago

26 August 2005 (M) - I'll try and be as brief as I can. There's a lot to explain. I have been a victim of long distance relationships in the past. For the first six months of being with my girlfriend, it was amazing. She went to university last September and I ...

Just can't get my ex-fiancee off my mind...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 623 days ago

24 August 2005 (M) - Me and my fiancee were together for 3 years, but 5 months ago she split up with me and I still can't stop thinking about her all the time. It is driving me insane and I am at my wits' end. I still see her around but she won't even talk to me. All ...

The love of my life broke it off and went off to college. How can I make her understand how much I want her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1234 days ago

24 August 2005 (M) - I've known this girl for a long time, and she was always just there. But for some reason, this year something changed. I never thought that I would believe she was the most beautiful girl in the world, but I do now. I've never been in love lik...

My girlfriend keeps changing her mind about us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1236 days ago

21 August 2005 (M) - My problem is that I've been broken up with my girlfriend for just under 3 months after we decided to have break to clear our heads! There has been limited communication between us since my girlfriend said that she wanted to end our relationship 2 ...

We were taking some time apart, but then she just left...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1238 days ago

20 August 2005 (M) - What do I do? I've been with my lady for 5 years and I've never had a reason to doubt her. But sadly I caught her with someone else due to my worrying nature. I decided that we needed some space and she promised to think long and hard on what had ...

Just freshly broken up and I want to date some new girls... but how do I start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1233 days ago

19 August 2005 (M) - Hello I've recently broken up with my first ever love. I'm still deeply in love with her but she has lied and kept things from me throughout our relationship. Even today she still lies to me. Unfortunately I still have deep feelings for her, but I'm ...

He listened to friends' lies about me, but now he wants to get back together...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1203 days ago

18 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend finished with me because he didn't trust me. He listened to stories about me from other people and belived them, but not me. He said he wanted to end our relationship. It was the worst day of my life and I ran out of school. I didn't w...

I'm being strung along by my ex. It's been 7 months and he still doesn't know what he wants!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1241 days ago

17 August 2005 (F) - I am in a very confusing relationship at the moment and need some advice or a strangers point of view. I have been with my boyfriend for approx 2 years and during this time we lived together. He was always talking about us getting married ...

He wants me back! Should we get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1240 days ago

17 August 2005 (F) - Me and my boyfriend loved each other and were so happy in our relationship for 5 months. He had planned proposing! We haven't seen each other too much over the summer, though; then he said he lost feelings for me and wanted to break up. Now he...

Help me decide if I should leave my partner...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - Should I leave and be with someone new? I've been with the same man for 5 yrs, my first love. We have a child togther but lately all we do is fight and he is verbally abusive towards me and brings my self esteem down. I feel that we're falling ...

Loved her more than life itself, and I just can't get over my ex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

14 August 2005 (?) - Starting to go crazy now :( A few months ago now, my fiance left me. And as you could probabily guess, I was devastated. I love this woman more than, well, life itself. The reason she left me was because my depression was too much for her ...

Can't tell if there was a subtext to my ex's email. Is he having trouble with his new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1243 days ago

14 August 2005 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up. He left me for someone else. We have been through a lot together and even lived together. Most of the time he was away working for long periods and then came back. That took a toll on our relationship I ...

My boyfriend of 6 years doesn't seem to care any more. Is it time to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1245 days ago

12 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend of over 6 years recently decided that he needed to take a break from our relationship to find out who he is. He said he wasn't sure if I was "the one" because I'm the only person he ever dated. He also said he felt as though he was ...

We love each other, but he's still angry with me. How I we work things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1247 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - I started dating my ex-boyfriend when I was 17. We dated for 3 years and I moved out of the country to continue my education. We still kept in touch for another 3 years. Distance strained the relationship for a while until he finally told me he ...

Will my ex ever realise that he made a mistake, leaving us to lead a single life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1245 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - Hi I need help. I am heartbroken and happy at the same time. My boyfriend left me after 7 years and two children. No big fight, no disagreement and the week my grandfather died. He moved out and I was very upset because we did not even talk abo...

I think I'm pregnant and my boyfriend now says we should see other people...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 979 days ago

11 August 2005 (F) - My bf can be very nasty sometimes and I think I'm pregnant. He has now told me I can meet other boys. I dont know what to make of this or what to do. Any ideas?...

Once my boyfriend got re-acquainted with his ex, he disappeared from my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1248 days ago

10 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year. We had a very up and down relationship but he says he loves me and honors me but he doesn’t feel extreme. Our major problem was that he was in love with his ex girlfriend for 7 years she was ...

Don't have feelings for my boyfriend any more. Should I dump him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 293 days ago

9 August 2005 (?) - I liked this boy. He was really nice and I fanced him about 7 out of 10. He ased me out once and I said no. After that I flirted with him, and his friend told me that he was going to ask me out again, and I had to say yes. I felt guilty because this ...

She's lying when she says she doesn't want me back, I'm sure of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1246 days ago

9 August 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have broken up after a year; she says she does not want anything to with me. I know she is lying and trying to be strong for the both of us because she doesn't want to hurt me or me to hurt her. She still loves me and she feels ...

How to make him see that I won't fall in love all over again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1249 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - So I have been with my Guy for a total of six years, 3 of those years we been married. We have just fallen apart. He has always been really insecure and always has had jealous issues. (I couldn't have friends and if I did go out with friends I had a ...

We share a bed even though we've broken up. Now his cuddling up with me is confusing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1250 days ago

8 August 2005 (F) - Hi there, My beloved boyfriend has just dumped me. I've moved out of his place now but had to share a bed with him for a week. Even though he says he doesn't love me anymore and does not ever want to be more than friends he has shown me affecti...

What't he best way to get over someone you really loved?

This question has 140 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

7 August 2005 (F) - Dear cupid, Me and my boyfriend broke up almost 2 months ago. No matter what I do I can't get over him. I really loved him and now I have no idea what to do. How do I get over someone that I really loved?...

After a drama-free relationship, she wrote and broke it off. Now I get the impression she wants me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1250 days ago

6 August 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My problem is that some 2 months ago my girlfriend and I decided to have timely break to clear our heads after her teenage son and myself were constantly at each other! About a month ago, after I wrote a lengthy love letter to her she ...

Breaking up was probably a good idea, so why do I feel so bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1242 days ago

6 August 2005 (?) - I know people always say, "time's a healer" and "you made the right choice", but after I left my partner of 3 1/2years, 1 month ago, I still feel as if it was the worst decision I ever made. I left him because he would never make me a priori...

What exactly does "a break" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1252 days ago

6 August 2005 (F) - Hey, I was wondering, what's the defintion of "a break"? Does it mean...we can see other people? I just don't understand. Any serious and honest answer would greatly help. Thank you...

Once he left me, all I could do was sit on the couch and cry...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1253 days ago

4 August 2005 (F) - Hello. I am desperately seeking some sort of help here. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years now, lived together for almost 2 1/2. Recently we got into an argument and he packed some bags and just up and left me. I know that it was goin...

My guy doesn't seem to know whether he wants to stay with me, or if he's with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1254 days ago

3 August 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I lived together for two years, and have been together for nearly three. Out of nowhere, he announced that he wasn't sure it was working between us...and he moved out promptly afterward. We were intimate the night he moved out, and ...

We've had problems for a while. Why did my boyfriend cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1255 days ago

3 August 2005 (F) - I'm 20 years old, and pregnant with my second child, due January 2006. I have a 3 year old little girl. My children will have different fathers. The father of my second child has taken on role of my little girl's dad. We were and family til he c...

I had too much to drink and I think I embarrassed us both at his mate's wedding...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1256 days ago

2 August 2005 (F) - Over the weekend just gone me and my boyfriend of nearly three years went to one of his best mate's weddings. I was so stressed about the day and buying an outfit before hand but we sorted that out and he helped me. We got to the wedding and it w...