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writes: Dear Cupid, My problem is that some 2 months ago my girlfriend and I decided to have timely break to clear our heads after her teenage son and myself were constantly at each other! About a month ago, after I wrote a lengthy love letter to her she wrote an very short letter to me saying that she wanted to end our 3 year dramaless relationship ??? I decided not to contact her for 2 weeks and now she has been calling me recently on matters that she could easily get other people to help her with. I'm so confused at the moment, especially after she ended the relationship. Is it a sign that she's having second thoughts or what ? Do I approach her again to try and reignite our bond ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (9 August 2005):
It was not a dramaless relationship - you and her son did not get on and that will be a big drama for any woman - the two people she cares about most at each others throats. she has chosen her son, and rightly so. Give her the space she and her son needs and be there for her.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (8 August 2005):
I think it sounds like she broke up with you because you and her son didnt get on.
Perhapos she does want to be with you but put her sons feelings first.
You will have to ask her how she feels and why she is calling you, it could just be that she wants to remain friends with you. If you are not happy about thecalls then you will have to tell her to stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2005): It might be wise to let her deal with her son. If your love is meant to be, it'll still be there when he goes off to college or adulthood.
Right now, friendship might be the best bond for the long run.
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