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writes: My bf can be very nasty sometimes and I think I'm pregnant. He has now told me I can meet other boys. I dont know what to make of this or what to do. Any ideas? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): i had missed my perido 2 days and had my perido 2 days again also miss my perido yesturday and i took a pregnancy test yesturday and it came out negation but i stopped again tonight did's that mean i can still be preganacy
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reader, Delila +, writes (4 September 2005):
Find out if you are pregnant. Get some support from a local support group in your area if you are. Decide what you want to do. I think you should probably tell him if you are pregnant. But be prepared for a bad reaction, maybe get a good friend to tell him. Are you ready to raise a child, if not then you must look at the options. If you are not pregnant then start using a contraceptive. Either way start doing some soul searching as to why you would go out with a guy who is nasty to you. Love yourself enough!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2005): If you are pregnant it dosen't sound like yiur guy would stick around. It's hard raising a child alone . I hate to say it but I think you should get an abortion the right man will come along for you one day. Good Luck hon
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reader, 81605slygurl +, writes (17 August 2005):
first you take a pregnancy test or go to the doctor to find out. Then, go tell him if you think that it's ok, but I think the sooner he finds out the situation the better, either way cuz if you are pregnant then he has to pay for child support whether he wants to or not. But if you guys end up getting married, then congratulations to you guys.
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reader, myteamum +, writes (11 August 2005):
Hiya sweety,Firstly i would do a test and findout for sure if you are definately pregnant or not.Then if you are you can tell him for sure.As far as him being nasty even if you are pregnant you need to seriously think about whether you really want to stay with him and if so perhaps some relationship coucelling might be an idea.Most important of all though is the fact that if you are pregnant you will then have to think of the welfare of the baby.Do not think that a baby will mend a relationship however as if you don`t already have a strong loving relationship then a new baby can put a bigger stress on one which is perhaps already a little shaky.I do hope that i have been of some small help to you.All the best of luck to you in whatever you decide to do and my thoughts will be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2005): This is a serious matter. First take a pregnancy test or if you don't want to go and see your doctor. If you are pregnant make sure you tell your boyfriend unless you really don't want to where in this case i would find someone else who would be happy to raise your child as he's own and who would love you. TRY IT OUT!!!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (11 August 2005):
First of all, you will have to tell your boyfriend that you are pregnant, whatever his reaction to the news may be, he has a right to know.
When he knows all the facts, then you must sit down and work out where your relationship goes from here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2005): first of all you should take a test to find out if you are prganant or not, talk it out with your parents and if your boyfriend does not want anything to do with you its his loss,he WILL regret it one day! if he is as nasty as you say he is you dont need him in your life or your childs life good luck!
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