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Archived questions from: 30 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm worried I may be paranoid about them laughing behind my back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Basically I met this group of girls through my job. I've been there about 8 months now and I would like to think I get on with everyone, however, generally I just do my work and go home. I don't do 'office gossip' if you will. I am quite introverted in work wheras outside of ... (388 words)

How do I make a text conversation fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you make a conversation fun over text message. When I text my crush I feel like I can't continue the conversation with anything interesting. Whenever I would ask a question he would usually say yes or no and he'll put lol in every message. I want to say something to him ... (65 words)

He said marriage was not about money.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he talk like this? Is marriage about money or not? So I had an arguement last night with bf. I asked him if he's ready for marriage and he said yes. But said no, cause he's been out of job for 8 months now and he's reluctant about finding a new one. Cause... (265 words)

I bought the ticket, now I am not sure if I should go or not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - This isn't really a big relationship questions, but it's bothering me a lot. I met this guy from Germany last month, he was travelling around my country with his friends and we hung out a lot, eventually made out and had a really fun week together. We kept talking and he t... (358 words)

How do I know he'll stick around? How do I tell my parents?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and Thursday I took three home pregnancy test and they all came back positive. My bf is 17 and just graduated high school in June. He is going to college almost four hours away from our home town. I still have one year left of high school. When I told my bf I was preg... (236 words)

I think I like my BEStfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3526 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I think I might have a crush on my bestfriend, we flirt sometimes with each other But We never catch ourselves.. it just comes naturally, anyways we've been bestfriend for like 2 years And I think Im starting to Develope a crush on her, because I get jealous when She talks to ... (55 words)

Why did my boyfriend, who is a well respected member of the local community, have to indulge in this cheap theft-like activity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age - Hi, I am in a relationship (3 months) with a lovely guy (we are both in our 60s) and he is a well respected member of the local community. One thing really bothers me though; our town hosts a huge annual agricultural show and the entry fee is £25 per person. We were both ... (273 words)

I don't have it in me to compete for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently started seeing a guy who i met on an online dating site. Our first date went very well so we met up a couple days later for another date and it went on from there. Last night he came to my place, i made him dinner we had a lovely evening but then i noticed a ... (246 words)

Should I just brave it and try to approach girls. What are some good tips to connect with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I am 15, tall, muscular, well featured, and intelligent. I never curse or swear and I would never insult anyone. I respect all girls but especially like brown haired, cute, and shy girls. I homeschool so therefore I don't socialise much but when I do quite a few girls will giv... (123 words)

Should I cut all ties with my toxic abusive family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

- My family are toxic. My mother is mentally unstable who abused me when I was a young child. My father is cold and distant towards me and has never praised me or gone out of his way to do anything for me. I have 2 sisters. One is self obsessed and selfish, the other one ... (770 words)

It was nearly 8 years ago. We broke up due to his cheating. So why does he still have a hold over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex cheated on repeatedly and when I found out it broke my heart. We were in our late teens and it seemed like I would never get over it, as it does at that age. Time moved on and so did I, and after a year or so I felt ready to start meeting guys again. I had a pretty goo... (341 words)

Feeling guilty about walking away from my drug addict guy. Was I wrong to take some distance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I have been in a relationship for a few months with a guy who is a drug addict. He uses coke, meth, heroin, etc. We recently spoke about his drug addiction and I told him that I will be there to support his recovery. He just has to stop using drugs. A f... (354 words)

Crush on my soon to be Ex boss. What's the best way to ask him out after I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3526 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 43, divorced and my soon to be ex-boss is 65 , looks 50 and divorced. I've had a crush on him for the one year we worked together but I've handled it pretty well without showing it. I've found a new job and will be leaving in two weeks. What's the best way to ask him ... (68 words)

Should I believe him? My heart is saying I'm not ready to give up on us

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My world is in bits. My heart has been ripped out of my chest and my whole body aches. I can't believe I'm here writing this. I found out Thursday my childhood sweetheart (5 years together) and the man I love to pieces has been cheating. He had a 5/6 week affair with ano... (839 words)

Is my lack of sexual experience the reason I have so many doubts about my Gf's virginity? Was she really a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am love a very cute girl and she also, our relationship going on from last 2 year. our relationship going with love,emotions, some time fight, sadness but it is true great love having between us. one day we had decided that more close to each other. we had sex, and i h... (252 words)

Why don't I get approached by normal guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a young woman, and let's just say that I am very inexperienced with dating/guys/etc. I do have male friends but I've never gone on a date or had a boyfriend. I don't get out much nor do I meet many new people, but every single time I get hit on or asked out, it's always by ... (290 words)

Is this just an excuse for breaking up? Or what does he mean by his remarks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is ending out relationship because he said he was unhappy and didn't feel like himself. He told me he wants to focus on himself and make himself happy and then he can focus on us . I am confused about focusing on himself part ? Is that a easy way to say it's ... (146 words)

I feel weird asking him after an hour. what do you think he meant by his remark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I texted my friend a video about gardening (he loves gardening), and told him it reminded me of him. And he texted it was funny because anytime he sees a cool math video (I love math) he thinks of me and I think of him when I see gardening videos (we go to school... (179 words)

I want to be with him but I'm not sure that I can trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My names Tori and I dated my bf for just over a year. I signed up for a summer volunteering placement that involved me spending the summer travelling and doing work in low income communities. I left on June 1st and returned on Monday. While I was there I met another volunteer ... (250 words)

Is my husband more interested in porn than he is me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi it's mine and my husbands relationship. We have been together nearly 4 years been married 18months, He works away on the turbines which he has done for 2 years he does 2 weeks away and a week at home, which is shortly changing to 3 weeks then 1 at home, I work full time and ... (389 words)

I've moved with my boyfriend and now he's putting me on the back burner

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So I really need some advice... I been with my boyfriend for little over 7 months... Well he got a really good job offer in Ky and had asked me to go with him... So last week we moved... I love this man more then anything in the world and I want to spend my life with this ... (160 words)

How do I deal with a co-worker who refuses to tow the line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi gang, Im used to answering questions on here rather than asking them, so here goes. Its not actually strictly a relationship question but it is effecting my relationship due to stress and worry. I work as an office manager for a small charity and have a team of volun... (1162 words)