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Archived questions from: 25 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If I stay with him, I feel like my soul will die. If I leave, I'll leave with the clothes on my back and my child, with nowhere to turn...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I need some advice/help... I'm 24 and a mother to a beautiful 7 year old daughter. I have also been in what I have discovered to be a very toxic relationship for 5 years. To sum it up, we have both hurt each other for no reason but too. He's cheated, I cheated. He... (532 words)

I'm scared to commit because of my temper!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm mature enough for marriage but lm scared to commit cause of my temper. I got Angry quickly, cry and give up easily bt l really wana settle down. Pliz help... (32 words)

The more I find out about her past the more ill I feel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

25 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - sorry for the long post but gotta put from the start...i met my wife in august of 2012,she was 23 i was 28 she was a co-worker and from the moment i meet her i was just consumed by her never got tired of being around her and hated when our shift would end but always looked ... (865 words)

I feel like we're going in different directions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone! So I'm having a bit of a tough time recently. Ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months now after meeting at university and although it hasn't been plain sailing it has generally been very happy and loving relationship. However, after living with eac... (539 words)

Help cliquey work colleagues, yes it's not unusual but It hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - last night I worked a night shift with 2 younger girls from the uk, they are good friends in and out of work , which isfine but they made no effort to include me in any conversation, I know we are there to work and they are friends, but..no matter how hard I try they clique ... (142 words)

A drunken night of kissing and cuddling meant nothing to my friend! How do I respond back to him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, i hope you can help!! I'll try and make this as short as i can! Ive been friends with this guy since school (like when we were from about 10) and a year ago we reconnected as friends and even though he was at uni out of london, whenever he'd come to london wed me... (699 words)

Does it matter that my boyfriend never confronted his friend's creepy behavior toward me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend and I first started talking to each other, before we had any titles or anything, he invited me to a party at his friends house. It was going to be the first night we spent together so I was pretty excited. I invited my good friend and her boyfriend. We were ... (536 words)

My boyfriend's friend is trying to get him to cheat. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years, we did have a 11 week separation back last year and got back together in February. This separation was due to a change in circumstances and in this break we both dated other people as we did not believe we w... (491 words)

Coping with being unattractive to men

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - How does a woman accept that she is not attractive to most men , when there are so many women around who are attractive to most men . It seems that realistically maybe 1 percent of men if that would be attracted to me when we are out yet my several of my friends who are ... (163 words)

What is best in giving oral sex to a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope that my question is appropriate to be posted. I edited it and re submitted it but i don't understand why it is being said that i am asking a new question. I am again asking the same question. My question concerns giving oral sex to a man. I happened to discuss the topic ... (135 words)

My boyfriend is still close to his ex girlfriend's family. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner of 3 years still spends a lot of time with his ex-girlfriends mother-in-law, calls her mum and generally spends time with the family. He's kept this from me a few times when he wanted to spend time with them rather than my family. He's been separated from his ex for ... (115 words)

Why does my boyfriend get chatty/flirty with girls when he's had alcohol?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my boyfriend get very flirty chatty with girls when hes had alcohol but is not like this at all when sober and would never disrespect me by even checking out a hot girl in front of me! Should I worry? I do worry in case he gets really drunk and takes it further... (78 words)

My ex will give me money but only after I have sex with him. I need the money but don't want the sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been trying to start a business since last year, since i am unemployed but lack of capital has been my biggest challenge. Lats month i met my ex, who is financially stable and he promised to sponsor my business. So he wants to give me this money but after we have ... (120 words)

I cant stand my boyfriend's family and things with my boyfriend are starting to fall apart as well. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Iv been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now, engaged for a year. I agree that I rushed into this relationship and I have nothing to say in my defense. I had known him for many years because we worked in the same place and he seemed great. However, as time has passed, I find ... (645 words)

My parents are up fighting and talking at night and I can't sleep!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My parents don't let me sleep at night! In 2013 I developed an eating disorder followed with random binges due to a lifetime of my dad's bulling and being a sensitive person, and continued despite all of this. He also abused everyone in my family so we all have some sort o... (425 words)

Why does my b/f keep masturbating to porn when he knows how much I hate it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, literally I have caught my boyfriend of one year masturbating to porn countless times. Every time he's doing it he's had the option to just have sex with me but chooses masturbation instead. I assure you that we have a sex life and a great one at that. I do everything he ... (202 words)

My boyfriend was smiling in photos of him and his ex but he doesn't smile with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Silly question here. I've seen pics on facebook of my boyfriend and his ex at a wedding and they had they're arms around each other smiling for a couple of photos. I know I shouldn't compare but he hates photos and whenever people took photos of us he is so rigid and not ... (103 words)

Can I get sick from doggy style anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone plz help me n my bf we meet in 3mnths ago we madly in luv but everytym we hv sex (dogstyl) we do it in my ass n it painfull sometimes i cnt even seat for dayz becouse off the pain im feeling when i tell him he said he enjoys the dogstyl more then ather styls what ... (80 words)

It is wrong if I would kiss my older 3rd cousin and experiment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I just got in touch with my third cousin over a year ago. We both find each other attractive and flirt a lot. He even offered to pay for my first tattoo for when im legally able to do it without my parents. This means that I would have to go up to his place to get it done. I've ... (92 words)

Do I continue to like my crush or let it die out? He has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone who wont judge me, im bestfriends with this guy and i've secretly liked him since the day we met and then i told him i like him and he likes me but the thing is he has a girlfriend and it's just been awkward since so what do i do stay friends and let my heart die ... (71 words)

My pessimistic mom is getting on my nerves!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay this is my big problem. My mother is very pessimistic and as if she grew to have a strange hate to this world. One time.I was telling her about an earthquake that hit a certain city in US where one of our neighbour is currently living and then she said "Good for them" and ... (377 words)

I've fallen for her but I'm afraid if I push it she'll walk away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so before I ask for advice a lil background on my female friend. Ten years ago we had a short relationship she was 19 I was 21 and she was my friends lil sister. She ended up breaking it off to see someone else, ten years later we become best friends while she is trying to ... (559 words)

.I don't understand why I should be faithful and invest in a relationship that has unstable future plans

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

25 August 2014 (?) age 41-50 - I have been dating this man for a year and a half and I need a solution to a problem. We are in a long distance relationship an hour and a half drive away.I live in a big city and he lives in a small town. I am willing to relocate to another big city or a small town near a city ... (214 words)

What signs should I look out for when men flirt or are interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

25 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Having trouble 'reading men's signals' recently... Recently I have 'noticed' a couple of attractive men that I have come to know. When I speak to them there is always a 'nervous' discussion or an inability to look the other in the eye for too long when things feel awkward. I ... (230 words)