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Archived questions from: 11 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do people give mixed signals? I think it's cruel!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear agony aunts/uncles. I'm having a problem with my "love life" at the moment. I've been single for the past few months and meeting people out, having one night stands and I've met a lot of creeps and weirdos online who ended up harassing me. Anyways, I was quite happ... (629 words)

Why does he log off when I log on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey friends please help me to understand this I have always observed one of my classmate always logs out immediately as soon as I log in Facebook. It is something very strange because we never chat whatever few chats we had were about college related study related matters.... (163 words)

He stood me up and I don't know if he deserves a second chance...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - We had a first date/meeting set up for Wednesday. We're both pretty busy and hardly get to chat, let alone set a time to get together. Wednesday comes and I hear... nothing! I then realise he was last online on Monday evening, which meant he hadn't been on for 3 days during ... (162 words)

How do I confront him about his lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 21, nearly 22, and have been getting to know this guy since May, but have been speaking since February. We were both at university (far apart) so we used to Skype every day, talk on the phone for hours and text throughout the day for 3 months straight before meeting u... (620 words)

Did I scare this guy away? He was given my number but has not called, friends trying to get us together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, well something happened over the weekend and I would like your opinions on it. My best friend and I were invited to this get together by her BF. This guy had hosted a get together last week which I went to. So we got there and we started playing some drinking ... (842 words)

As a friend of hers I feel she should know her boyfriend cheated! Do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So this question is not pertaining to my relationship. My boyfriend is best friends with his cousin jon and since being with my bf for 3 years I'm close with jon as well. Jon can be a little untrustworthy and kind of conniving. Jon has been with his current gf for a year now... (200 words)

How important do you think political opinions are in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm looking for some opinions on how important you think political opinions are in a relationship? As I'm sure many of you know, Scotland are about to go through an independence referendum. This whole thing has completely divided the country and is getting quite bi... (320 words)

Our sex life has suffered since the birth of our baby

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Since the birth of our baby, over a year ago, my sex life with my husband has suffered. At first, the obvious demands of the baby and my body recovering was the clear reasons why. After a few months, we started finding time again, and it was good, then around 6 months ago, it ... (309 words)

At 26 is it wierd to count a 18 yr old as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Now this maybe a over thinking question but just to check. I worked with a girl over the past year and well I didn’t think anything of it but we really got on well and seemed to have a laugh. Anyway now she has got another Job and we don’t work with each other anymore but ... (172 words)

I want my ex out of my life but will feel guilty if I have to call the police

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend kept going through my email. He read emails, accused me of sleeping with multiple guys in my past (pretty much any guy). He then would contact them as if it was me to ask them if I had sex with them. He created a fb profile of a guy with who i had a relationship ... (251 words)

My brother and his wife only call me when they need something!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My brother is 31 years old and I am 29 years old. My brother is married. The problem is that the only time my brother and sister-in-law calls me is when they want something or when they want to complain about something. They call to ask for money, for me to babysit (even wh... (219 words)

Do men like biting and scratching during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it enjoyable for a guy to have his back grabbed/ lightly scratched during sex? Lip bitten? I just don't want to hurt or turn men off. When I get excited, I can't help it! Opinions? ... (43 words)

When a guy is always sarcastic and jokey with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've noticed that one of my guy friends (we're not super close)over the last 6 months has changed his behavior around me. He's very sarcastic with me, especially in front of other people, sometimes it can even seem a little harsh. He'll say things like "Yeah, I think I know ... (191 words)

4 year relationship ended, why is he making out like I meant nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was asked to leave by my former boyfriend of 4 years 3 weeks ago. I left, packed my life into boxes. I had relocated, enrolled into college and generally uprooted myself for this guy, and after doing so much for him and his family, that is how he repaid me, stating his ... (429 words)

How do I get the old me back? I'm sick of everything being on his terms!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been living with my boyfriend less than a year. I'm 43, he's 45. When we first got together, he was very giving, caring, loving. We went out and had fun, and we also stayed in for romantic nights. Now he rarely even takes the time to notice me. He's either playing the ... (378 words)

I don't wish to waste my time but I like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this guy that I knew of through my friend at uni. We started talking on facebook about a month ago and hit it off right away. He always flirts with me and still does but his texts are getting very short and he's less attentive. He also takes a while to... (262 words)

LDR--Is it selfish of me to want him to move to be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend Jake for a little over 3 years now. I just turned 22 and he is 21. Recently I transferred to a great music school about in Boston 9 hours away from my home town where he is attending school. I went to the school for the spring ... (310 words)

Do I trust my boyfriend after a break up when he hooked up with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been together for 7yrs, high school sweet hearts! We often talk about marriage and our future. After a year of dating, we had a big argument and ended up 'taking a break.' We were young then and ended up getting back together after a week. 3 yrs after ... (222 words)

Why the weekly contact from my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for several years. We broke up around 2 months ago. Since our BU, which I initiated but he seemed to want it too, he has text me EVERY week. Every single week he sends at least one text message. They never say anything about getting back together, ... (177 words)

My new friend and her daughter aren't nice to us. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my daughter moved to a new area almost 4 years. Since moving into this current area, I've found it difficult to form new friendships. I barely socialized since moving to this current location. I tried to be friendly with others and to arrange social time but wasn't ... (340 words)

My anxiety is destroying my relationships!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, thanks so much for helping. I get extremely stressed/anxious over tiny things, and overanalyze everything, whether it is with friends, my boyfriend, or a random person. Generally, my anxiety is unwarranted: for example, if my boyfriend sounds distant over tex... (146 words)

I've tried to stay friends with my ex but he's on my case about everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

11 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and since then, he's been on my case about every little thing that I do! He insists on knowing where I go and with who every time I go somewhere and he's always starting arguments about tiny things. I've tried to see him as just a friend ... (79 words)