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Archived questions from: 17 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I tell him I liked what he was doing without sending the wrong message?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Sooo I really like this guy I have been friends with since kindergarden. We have always been friends but in the last few years he's become my closest guy friend, we know more about each other than a lot of people do. Recently-ish he broke up with his girlfriend cause of ... (466 words)

Why do I always choose the wrong people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Why do i only ever get crushes on and date total jerks and bi*ches. I never learn and always end up getting broken and hurting so bad. I KNOW what the majority of the guys and girls are like, but i still fall for tjem, love them and end up (with some) feeling dead ... (83 words)

I went farther than I'm comfortable with this early on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy recently and we went on a first date for drinks which was a really great evening and we both wanted to see each other again. We went for a second date a week later which involved going for drinks, going for dinner and after dinner drinks again. We were near his flat ... (181 words)

After dating him for several months I've learned he lied about his age!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm 35 I met a guy he said he was 33 and we began dating. A few months later he tells me he had lied to me he is only 28 and his reason was that if I had known his age I wouldn't have dated him. I don't know what to do the age difference scary..... (59 words)

Why did he only call me "cute," and how do I stay safe on my next date if we're alone at his place?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - [Mod note: two questions from the same asker and concerning the same date have been combined] Went on a lovely, but brief date with a 23 yr old guy at the mall. It was my first date ever, and according to me (and my lack of experience), it went mostly smoothly! There were few... (688 words)

My boyfriend isn't bothered by the difference in our body sizes, but as a bigger girl I feel awkward about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am a 30 year old virgin and have recently started dating an older man who is 34 and I suspect he is also a virgin. My main worry is that I am a UK size 22 and he is very very skinny and only a couple of inches taller then me. The whole dating thing is completely new to ... (326 words)

Why does he lie about stuff just to get away from me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Boyfriend and I have been together a year and 6 months and we live together. How ever every time we fight, or I'm depressed or upset and cry and freak out on him he makes excuses to not be around me. Like today we have been fighting all weekend because we have both been ... (131 words)

My Daughter in Law is very hateful and angry all the time.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age - My youngest son had a previous marriage and has two sons from that marriage. After the divorce, he met a woman online from another state who has one son that he is married to now. His new wife was unhappy about the child support he was paying so she was adamant about hi... (444 words)

I want to hate my boyfriend so I can leave him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Im with my current bf for past 4 years. Its been 6 months since we actually had a good talk, went on a romantic date.... I just come home from work, cook dinner and wait for him, he hangs around with his friends after work, come home late, eat dinner or not an... (250 words)

Advice to give to someone who is being cheated on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends bf is cheating on her, she knows the name of the girl hes doing it with well my problem is shes got an old phone and a new sim card so a different number and shes going to text him from it telling him not to trust this girl hes cheating with ive told her its not a gd ... (93 words)

I feel like a different person when I hang out with them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - The last few months I've started meeting up with coworkers from my old job. They're great, really friendly and are a good laugh. However I'm starting to get concerned about the way I am around them compared to my other friends. I've only had the one group of friends for the ... (773 words)

The swinging lifestyle destroyed our perfect relationship :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in serious need of advice! I have been in an extremely happy, carefree, fun, loving relationship for the last 7 years now. He has always been aloof since I've known him up until the last 3 years. He has opened up to me, not so much with words but with actions alone. People... (1009 words)

I think my friend stole from me ......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my friend may have stolen from me and I feel awful thinking like this so I need some advice... A mutual friend of ours was getting married and we were both invited to the wedding. Unfortunately I wasn't able to attend as I was going on holiday,however ... (370 words)

He never ever was my boyfriend but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I had the biggest crush on a guy from my university for about a year. One day, I met with him at the library and he was sitting with some of his friends studying. I sat next to him and one of his friends stood up and started talking to me. I thought it was so weird. Later, when ... (1072 words)

Momma's boy's Momma found my panties!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I recently spent a couple days at his place. He's a bit of a mommas boy so of course his mom goes over to clean his apartment and finds my underwear in his sheets. I'm completely mortified! I don't want her to think ... (62 words)

Why is my married co worker avoiding me and yet also acting like something might be going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a married man at work. Recently for a month we've been working more closely together. He started flirting with me and I am attracted to him. He winked at me a few times, brushed his arm against mine one time for a few seconds and teasing me sometimes. I flirted back a ... (605 words)

I hooked up with a friend after a break up and now am worried I might be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently got out of a relationship with a man I was with for a year. He didn't break up with me formally. We had our last date then he ignored me and gave me the silent treatment until I realized (a month later) that this was his cowardly way of telling me it's over. He ... (631 words)

Why do people always stare at me and what should I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm unusual looking, average am over 35, pale, (bad skin which im trying to improve, and yes I do wear light make up to cover spots..) I am thinnish, I wear average clothes, glasses at times when I don't wear contacts, as I have very bad sight, I don't dress like a ... (536 words)

Am I a coward or courageous? My alcoholic homeless husband abandoned our marriage but blames things on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age - I live in Minnesota and my husband lives homeless in Boise ID. We have lived apart a total of three years in a marriage of six years due to his drinking. I moved back home to Minnesota two years ago to be near my children Since I moved back I was admitted to a hospital on a ... (323 words)

I really like a girl I've been chatting to online but cant see us ever being able to meet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - I met a girl online and we really hit it off. We've been video calling and chatting over skype and text for about two months now and I really like this girl. I'm pretty sure she likes me back, but I'm scared of starting a long distance relationship because I don't think we'd ... (213 words)

The scar from my boyfriend's circumcision makes me sad

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I could use some advice here. My boyfriend is circumcised, and often when we're intimate I notice his scar and I feel really sad about it. Like, he was born perfect and then his parents/doctors decided to cut off a really sensitive and important piece ... (171 words)

Why does my LDR girlfriend seem so interested in sex until we are together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

17 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'll keep it as brief as I can. I've been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. we can see each other every 6 months or so. When we are apart, she talks about sex often, how much she wants it next time we meet etc. Sometimes she sen... (255 words)

My husband gives me a kiss good night and a kiss good bye..that's all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

17 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have stopped all physical contact in our marriage except for a kiss good night and a kiss good bye. At first i thought he was just stressed out but its been months and still hasnt kicked back up. He watches porn on our phone all of the time but has developed a ... (141 words)