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Archived questions from: 5 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I struggle with trust issues and my girlfriend has lied to me in the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on what happens next in a relationship - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year. There is many years age difference (25 years) so our opinions differ a lot of the time. She is well liked by everyone and has an adoring personality but feels a need to ... (313 words)

Can anyone give tips about lesbian anal sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I need a bit of help regarding lesbian anal sex. My girlfriend and I experimented a while ago with a dildo - first time for us both but this time we are intrigued to try anal sex. I personally am scared from reading things online it will hurt and some say you nee... (100 words)

I don't want to confront my boyfriend about losing interest but I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been with my boyfriend for around 1 year and 4 months, our relationship was great to begin with, I actually felt so happy to find such a nice man. But since the beginning of the year our sex life vanished, he claims he's lost interest in sex before and has nothing ... (424 words)

We were dating and then it all just fell apart. I don't know what happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3551 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently started seeing someone for the first time in over a year, i have delibrately stayed away from men who i have seen are a ladies man and i became good friends with a guy in our group of friends... we had some good times together and we ended up out together on our own ... (535 words)

I'm insanely jealous of pregnant women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this is something I have been dealing with for the past few months. Since I got married, my partner and I have been ready for the next big step. A baby! Except, it hasn't happened as qucikly as we'd like, but we haven't been trying long enough for doctors to be ... (298 words)

I have a crush on my friend and she will never love me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a crush on this girl who is my friend and it is killing me. I love Sam so much and she found out and hated me 4 it. She was awful tome 4 weeks. I had had a crush on her 4 at least 3 months befor she found out an it was so painful. After a couple of weeks, stuf h... (197 words)

Does he like me or playing games

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a former work colleague who I went to see at his house to test drive his new car and have a chat about life and how I am since leaving my last job. After I drove his car we were having a good conversation then I said how I don't have many people to go to the cinema ... (143 words)

We are both married but the emotional affair is such a turn on! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy , married with two kids but he is just wow. We have been chatting though for about 3rys. I am now falling in love with this guy , I am married as well. The whole situation is such a turn on idont know what to do. Everytime am with this guy I feel so alive , ... (89 words)

My anger is turning into depression - I want my husband to leave

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for four years. My husband has been emotionally abusive. He ignores me, wants me to plead for attention, for sex, calls me a whore, tells me he cant kiss me because am disgusting and all sorts of stuff. I have kids, and he does not. He ignores my kids, do... (264 words)

I need ideas for a vegetarian meal for our upcoming party

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Definitely not a relationship question but sometimes help and inspiration come from the most unlikely sources.... One of the hobby groups I'm in has an annual "long weekend away" shindig (party) which is coming up in about 3 weeks. Everybody who attends is expected to do s... (386 words)

My depression is making it impossible for me to find the strength to leave my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m having trouble leaving my partner. Been together about 15 years, married, divorced and back together again. I don’t love him like I did, too much damage has been done, can’t be intimate with him at all. I am very unhappy and desperately want to change things but I can’t ... (306 words)

Are we crazy for moving in our son's girlfriend, to help keep her away from her abusive father?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I and getting lots of grieve from family friends regarding a decision we made with our only son who ism20. He still lives at home during the summer and goes away ( 1.5hours from home) for school. He comes home most weekends. He has been in a relationship with his ... (368 words)

Why do men prefer it shaved?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My question might sound simple but why do so many men seem to like shaved vulva as opposed to a natural hairy one ? I found that the man I am with says he finds it much sexier and several men have said this before . I prefer to go natural as I get very very irritated skin with ... (84 words)

Are these signs my girlfriend is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need outside insight on my relationship. All advice is appreciated. I'm a lesbian in a relationship with another woman. We just rekindled in June after not being together for a year. We had dated 3 years before I left in 2013. Anyways my girlfriend works for a small ... (303 words)

He's always observing me, what does this mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2504 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Anytime I'm around this certain guy, I noticed he's observing me quite often, watching things I do, like he's interested in how I do every little thing. Now it's not constantly, like creepy, but it's very often, I even feel his eyes watching me when I turn my back. It's like ... (303 words)

My boyfriend of 4 years has started to ignore me, and I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm a little lost right now and unsure of what to do. My boyfriend of 4 years has started to ignore me. its been a week now and at the beginning i sent him some horrible messages trying to get a response. which, of course i felt horrible for afterwards. i then sent him ... (286 words)

He won't sex chat with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 24 and we're in long destines relationship It's really hard to meet and i might meet him after 6 months or more I never had sex before but he did anyway before 2 days i was talking about chat sex and he refuses it and i was really hurt be... (95 words)

How come he never thinks my 'look' is quite right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused. When I hadn't been with my boyfriend for long I overheard him say that I look ok but not as good as some other girls he knows. Fast forward a couple of years I've tried dressing normally, conservatively, flamboyantly,using full make up or just a little make up ... (157 words)

My mother called my friend's parents, now he's not speaking to me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who rings up a lot.i had expressed this to my parents that i was irritaed.My mother out of the blue texted my friend that he should not ring up daily.His mom and dad read that text and from then on he has not spoken. I was not at fault here and have apologis... (72 words)

She won't allow me to kiss or touch her, she's pregnant by so-called rape, why the change?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys i have been dating this girl for a year and everything seems fine and she is pregnant with the soo called rape child she doesnt allow me to kiss or touch her ,i feel like i dont exist even though we stay together and share the same bed but she expect me to do ... (108 words)

Should I leave him for good for lying and verbally abusing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly two years, but from the second time I met him he talked about a 'friend' constantly. Every time I'd see him she'd be brought into the conversation somewhere. Then after a few weeks he said it was his ex girlfriend who he was with for 8 ... (502 words)

I have Aspergers and as a result don't have many close friends. Will he mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have very few friends and have been this way all my life. There's a guy who I think is interested in me - in fact, I'm sure he is. I really like him. But he has loads and loads of friends and is extremely well connected - in the field that we work in social life is inbuilt ... (407 words)

What are ways my fiancé can prove to me he wont cheat again and to regain my trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So in may this yr. I have to go to jail for some owed back child support. While im gone for 25 days my fiancé takes it upon himself to "not put his life on hold" and decided to cheat. He said he blacked out from within an hr before up to in the "middle" of having sex with this ... (187 words)

So what do I do? End it and then go back to the guy that I've liked for four years? Or, continue with the new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, any help would be brilliant. Basically, I have had a thing on and off with a guy for 4 years. We have both liked each other for that time but for one reason or another, nothing ever came of it. He's very shy and I was going through some personal issues, which me... (303 words)

I worked for a business for one month and then I quit. How can I get the wages I am owed for that one month I worked there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I worked for a fashion retailer for only a month. It was not the most organized or functional place to be. I ended up quitting after working there part time for a month, and want to know if I can still get paid even though I was there for a short time. I would also want ... (84 words)

Finally after years of no sex my wife was happy to have sex this week. So why did it feel so unsatisfactory and unfulfilling for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife did not have sex with me very many years (more than a decade) and in my mind I always felt like sex was that one missing piece that would rejuvenate the relationship. I really missed it, I craved it, and it made me feel lonely that we stopped having it When we were y... (496 words)

Does he love this other girl? If he does, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3534 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend ,he loves me more but he is from other start and he is my class mate too..we went to many places he care me for me more .but now one girl calling me and she use to say that he just time pass with me and she is telling that he only loves me what should i ... (141 words)

How can I get his friends and family to see that I'm not trying to trap him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am looking for some advice on getting my boyfriends parents to like me. I'm 20 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend who is also 20 for about four months now. I have twin boys who are 18 months old. My bf is amazing with them and they adore him. But his parents ... (180 words)

What's the deal with my B/f and his co-worker? And how do I rekindle the communication between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I need some advice. Recently, I went to visit my boyfriend at work, and one of this co-workers made it obvious that she likes him. I became frustrated with her giggling and cut my visit short. After I left his job our communication turned to non existent. I asked ... (80 words)

Why do I feel guilty even though I didn't cheat?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am married to a lovely man who I love dearly. I would never intentionally hurt him. Anyway, last week I was at a party at my friends house. No one knew each other, and there was a bit of an awkward silence. I noticed the guy sitting next to me had lots of tattoos, so I st... (282 words)

My best friend keeps putting me down and now won't speak to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3552 days ago

5 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I've been faced with a problem that I am unsure how to react to. The girl who was my best friend kept putting me down, for no reason. She called me spoiled, she kept telling me she was bored of my hair being blonde (we're hairdressers!) and that I needed to let ... (328 words)