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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It is possible to be FWB with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently an ex of mine has contacted me and we've started speaking again. It's been a couple years since we broke up, and a year since the last time we spoke. We've both had other relationships since each other, so there was time to get over it. He sent me a message on Faceb... (212 words)

My family could never accept me, How can I become confident with myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is long, but here goes. All my life, I've never felt like I've been good enough for my mom. She always used to compare me to others, and would obsess over my progress in school and just couldn't seem to see beyond any mistakes I made, she ignored anything good an... (477 words)

I've discovered I'm bi and I'm scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I have recently found out (i say recently, bout, what, 4months ago?) Found out that i am bisexual. I am quit scared" as i believe that gay relationships are wierd and creepy and so are the people in them. Also i have no idea what any of my family think of that sort of ... (82 words)

The dates went well but he just wants to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm confused!! A few months ago I went on 3 or 4 dates with a guy I work with. We weren't friends before the dates but met at work. The first 2 dates we got on really well, he text all day and if I didn't reply within a few mins he would text again. He asked me if i'd told my ... (432 words)

Crushes on a friend and a cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I am bisexual and have a very strong crush on one of my girl friends, S. However, if that isnt bad enough, I have recently developed a crush on my male cousin A. I know that S will hate me for loveing her, but i have reason to suspect that A reterns my felings and i was casualy ... (104 words)

I have trouble climaxing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I am having a sexual problem. Basically I can't cum when I have sex. Condom or no condom. This is over multiple partners over about two years of being sexually active. So far I've never been able to cum with a partner. I'm not sure if it's a physical or mental one. No... (88 words)

I haven't had a real relationship since leaving my abusive ex-husband, and after learning I have genital herpes I'm wondering if I should ever try for one at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Two and a half years ago I left an almost decade long relationship/marriage to a morbidly jealous psychologically abusive man - he always accused me of cheating, but I never did. I stayed too long, and left at the last minute, before he could suck the last bit of life out of ... (463 words)

Where to meet new friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Okay so I am looking to meet new friends around my age group which is early 20s, has anyone got any suggestions of where I could go? I am really shy also which doesnt help! I am from the UK s preferably UK ideas. Many thanks ... (55 words)

We really get along well together -- am I reading too much into it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 25 and male. Last November an amazing beautiful 22 year old girl started working in the same place as me. She got out of a 4 year relationship about a month ago and I've been taking her out as a friend trying to keep her happy and in the process I've started to really ... (200 words)

I'm really attracted to him but he hasn't made a move

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked him to go on an errand with me but he said "we'll see". Should I ask him again or just let it go? we have great chemistry at work and I can tell from his body language that he's somewhat interested in me (being conservative in my assessment here) even if I catch him l... (125 words)

I want to move on, but I keep dreaming about my crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! Some advice would be great! I've been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years, everything's great! However, my work means that I have to move around different departments in my local area and work there for 3 months! Before I move on to another! On my latest 3 ... (371 words)

Do I travel with her, or go no contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I posted on here a couple of weeks ago and I need some additional advice. The background: My girlfriend and I split up a little over two weeks ago (both women). It wasn't a lack of love that caused the split. She's just been suffering from a lot of emotional issues... (763 words)

Boyfriend going away for 2 weeks with friends. I'm afraid he'll get drunk and cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have been dating my boyfriend since April and been seeing him since January time. In a couple of days he is going on holiday with his mates to malia. I am really afraid he will get drunk and cheat on me. He cheated on his ex on holiday before and that was just a family ... (403 words)

Break up with long-term boyfriend for another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years. My boyfriend is sweet and cares for me a lot, but as much as he denies it, I'm not a priority for him. First comes university\job, then his parents, and then me, and that's how it's always been, even after I told him it's ... (442 words)

Boyfriend cheated and got another girl pregnant but I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend made another facebook account hidden from me and the cover photo was a picture with this girl whom i do not know. i accidentally saw their pictures on july 2 2014 and i confronted him but he said that its not what i think thats why i decided to ask the girl..she ... (392 words)

Should I give him an ultimatum or just end this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Long story short...been dating a guy for over 6 months..we used to get together about twice a week but then a month or 2 ago there was a big misunderstanding that made me back off of him for a month. But now we're back to dating, but now we've only seen each other once a week ... (404 words)

Is it too late for us to fix things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

16 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in my relationship for over 5 years now and now we are engaged. The problem I am having is we argue constantly. I screwed up in the past and had this front where I was very sexually experienced, which was false I was a virgin. She never knew that I had lied until ... (825 words)

Why do I feel alone amidst my group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi guys I got a group of friends in my college that i spend a significant amount of time for. These guys i am hanging out with refers to each other as "bros", but somehow, i... feel quite distant from them. I don't know why i feel this way. I am guessing that it is because i ... (150 words)

We've been together seven years and I'm ready to start a life away from our parents, but he wants to wait

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I have been together 7 years. We started dating in high school so of course back then we weren't thinking about marriage and children. I have always wanted to wait anyways until I was done with school (college too) and had a good career. Well now I have ... (370 words)

He says he's serious about me, so why is he so interested in these other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. I'm not the most attractive girl in the world. I'm short and don't have much of a "Sexy" or curvy body. My boyfriend has dated pretty attractive girls in the past (in High school), but says that he wasn't serious about any of them. ... (234 words)

Sex with my partner is so predictable I can't bring myself to do it anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

16 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my partner for three years and at first our sex life was amazing. We would do it every night in a variety of places and positions.... Of course I expected that it was begin to calm down but it has got to a point now when I literally have to grit my teeth and wait ... (145 words)