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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We had an argument and she broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend lost her dad 12 months ago he always loved Mablethorpe and had a chalet down there my partner kept it going my partners family was having a family gathering in Mablethorpe she went to chalet while I stayed at home. I didn't feel I was welcome and wasa bit miffed ... (196 words)

In love with my sister's male friend but my sister doesn't approve!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - hello i am a 19 year old Hindu girl and I have fallen for my sisters 23 year old white male friend and he feels the same but my sister has band me from seeing him. (they have been mates for over 20 years) a few months ago i finally got up the nerve to ask him how he felt abou... (197 words)

Jealousy is ruining my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - For as far back as I can remember, I have been a VERY jealous person. I was jealous of friends, girls in my class, and one day in primary school, my friends mum actually said to me that I was a very jealous little girl because I got so pissed off that she had invited another ... (130 words)

His ex won't leave us alone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age - What can i do to get my boyfriends ex girlfriend to find somebody else .she wont stop telling that she is still in love with him .And i have told her hiw i feel about it and she dont care about how i feel.... (44 words)

Should I let my former best friend back into my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a girl at college and we instantly became really close. She was the same age as me, and we just got on really well. She has four children and from what she told me, an abusive partner. I helped her as much as I could, but I was beginning to feel she was taking advantage ... (293 words)

How do I introduce my daughter to my boyfriend officially as my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I have a very basic question that I need some advice on. I have decided to introduce my daughter to my boyfriend officially as my boyfriend, but I'm not sure how best to go about it. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 months, and we knew ea... (237 words)

Is she interested , or just flirty ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I need I little advice here . I've recently became interested in a friend that I've had over the years but no recently have I become interested in her . She's older than she being 25 and I being 23 . The problem is I don't know if she is interested or just flirty or playing ... (244 words)

My boyfriend's parents are against me and now he won't even spend the night with me because he's afraid they'll find out we are together again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey All, Me and my Boyfriend (Dany) are together for more than 1,5 year. I feel love the first time. It would be a real happy love-story BUT (!!) unfortunately his parents have problem with me :( His father is my teacher at school (that's how we met and fell in love). Be... (657 words)

Is my reaction to the sudden breakup normal or am I just in shock?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - The day before my birthday my partner decided to break off the relationship for three reasons, first that I was too emotionally dependent on him, the second that he was holding me back from my dreams and the third being that he doesn't trust his self when he goes to Uni in ... (366 words)

I feel like she's using me. I love her but why should I put up with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Why do I feel like I'm being used,I try my hardest with my partner,give her money,take her out,buy her fags,she hasent got much,i do love her,but I don't think I can take anymore,it feels like it's all one sided,it feels like the more I give,the more she wants.i dnt understand ... (122 words)

I think he blocked me but I'm unsure why! Should I try to find out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So aunts and uncles, I asked a question a few weeks ago about a guy I talk to in New Jersey, whom I planned on pursuing when I got up there. He's my best friends brother, and we've hung out and what not when he comes down here to visit family.. Well yesterday I went... (162 words)

How do I know if this girl had sex before me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, I have a girlfriend. last month i had sex with her,this was my first time.after did the sex lot of confusion created. according to my girl friend she was also first time but during sex i seen her membrane had already broken and vagina is loose. i think she had sex with... (77 words)

I'm reaching the age where I can't have children and I have none of my own. How do I cope?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 42 (will be 43 next April) and childless. My marriage failed 3 years ago as my ex husband was abusive - I deliberately did not have children with him because of it but held out way too long for things to change (10 years). Anyway - I met a man 6 months ago who seemed ... (181 words)

Does my longtime friend suddenly want an affair with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age - A former female co worker and I have remained friends after she quit her job. She's married I'm divorced. I have been invited to their house a few times over the years and her husband is a nice guy. When I meet this woman for lunch it's been nothing but talk of our families and ... (249 words)

I regret letting the moment pass ......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys I like a girl at work. She is one of the girls there who is very pretty and most guys try to flirt with her. I however don't do that much cause I am much senior to her (11 years) but there is always teasing and some tension between us. Last night after few drinks w... (138 words)

What does a women do if her BIOLOGICAL needs clash with her psychological UNMET NEEDS

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What does a women do if her BIOLOGICAL needs clash with her psychological UNMET NEEDS. The problem is that I stayed in a long-term controlled relationship for 8 years and made many attempts to leave but I was way to brainwashed and it was only thanks to the birth of my daug... (169 words)

My girlfriend and I are not speaking .... AGAIN!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my girlfriend and I arn't speaking again. She literally makes me feel nuts with how double standard she is. We were talking about how you can fall in love with two people, she claims she would be okay if I cheated on her and fell for someone else, I said she wouldn't and... (413 words)

He proposed, but every weekend is taken up with his children ... what if I want a child too?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My bofriend proposed 2 months ago. As he has 2 kids with ex, he spent Saturdays taking them out somewher, dropped them back at their mom's because she doesn't like them sleeping out and on Sunday took them to visit their grandmother from about 10 am to 3pm, then home to mom ... (238 words)

I feel I deserve more attention from my married co worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I cannot bear it anymore.. it has become obsessed and so engrossed.. i found one of my new comer office girl sad.. i did my best to make her happy and talking. i was patiently listening and made her talk and entertained her in various ways.. it was not for anything but... (382 words)

I don't mind helping with the chores but this is just too much!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

24 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello friends and foes, just got some stuff to ask, as always. Now, no one really likes chores, just because it's work and work isn't fun. Call me a brat, or whatever, you're probably right. My dad recently has been over booking me with chores, and it's killing my ener... (580 words)

Everything was going good until he suddenly cut me off1

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have hung out with a guy for the past month. Honestly, i had messaged because i felt that i would be able to get a kiss out of him. we hung out, and he did kiss me. Later that night i admitted to him that i didn't like him. i had told him before i didn't like him and i was ... (702 words)

I told him I like him, his answer has me confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I finally told him I like him, I couldn't look at him straight in the eye because I was embarrassed to admit it first. And surprisingly, he said I like you too. But then when I asked what he meant in case I misinterpret it, he said I like you not as a friend but as a person. ... (138 words)

Does him finding ME attractive mean he doesn't find his wife attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I wanted to know if I have done the right thing or was there a chance that he was sort of serious about that me? There was a mutual crush between us, however we are both committed. His wife works in the same place as he does so do I, however, the crush happens when she... (430 words)

I am constantly being used by guys!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3524 days ago

24 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there, For some reason, I'm constantly being used by guys. It all started when my boyfriend had slept with me then cheated on me with another girl. Ever since then, I've had no self confidence and doubt myself a lot. I thought it was time for me to get a grip and to get into... (170 words)