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Am I finally over my ex? Because I don't feel anything or even care about him anymore

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Question - (26 February 2013) 7 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2013)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does this mean i'm finally over my ex?

I've stopped thinking about him as much as I used to, which was a lot! I can think about our memories and him and i don't tear up or feel sad, but just think of how it was a happy point in my life. I don't find myself caring what he's doing these days, if he misses me, has feelings for me or such.. Which used to play on mind mind constantly.

But now when i think of him, it's strange but i don't feel anything or even care about him anymore! I don't even read our old texts, check his facebook or talk about him to anyone now...

Am i being naive, or does this mean i've finally moved on after so long of trying!!?

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A male reader, MKP United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2013):

Sounds like you went through an emotional time, yes I would say by the sound of it you are.If you feel better by asking the question and receiving positive feedback, then well done you. Live life.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (27 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI think that asking what your feelings mean is not the same as saying I'm not sure I'm over. I think the OP is just verifying that if she feels the way she is it's an indication that she's over him.

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A male reader, anon_e_mouse United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2013):

anon_e_mouse agony auntThe opposite of love is indifference. However, the fact you have to ask says to me you're not over him completely. You're getting there and it just take time. If I see another post in a months time saying "how about now? Am I over my ex?" then the answer is still no, not completely.

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2013):

Tom Obler  agony auntHi,

Yes I believe you are. Now delete and block everything that you have of him. Thanks.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (26 February 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyep your over him!

the opposite of love is not hate

the opposite of love is ambivalence...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013):

If you was genuinely over him, you wouldnt have to ask.

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A male reader, bronzed adonis United Kingdom +, writes (26 February 2013):

bronzed adonis agony auntIt could mean you are now getting used to life without him. you are probably over the worst. I think if you was 100% over him, you would not be asking this, because you woul not be thinking about it.

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