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writes:Ok. I met this girl a few weeks ago in a stripclub. She gave me her phone number. So i text her a few days after. She remembers me. And ask me to call her. At first every things was great. She told me tha she wanted something serious. We went out on valentines day and had sex. Since then we talk every day. Had lunch. I will go pick her up and go to some store with her daughter and then go eat some thing, nothing fancy. But never like on a date. Ok now she complaint about me wanting to hold hands and kissing her. And already gone a week with out intimacy. Ok now. She has a day job. And she calls me every morning, at lunch and she getd off work. But like i said. We havent go out. I really like her. Should i be patient. Or should i think she its not into me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTime to move on. Thanks everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2013): Is this girl a stripper or work in the club? If so, don't take her seriously. She'll be nothing but materialistic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013): It sounds like you're being dangled on a string. It's likely this lady is seeing other people and likes leaving her options open. In a sense, you may be what she considers nice and harmless, and you're the male companionship she feels safe with. She really isn't interested in anything more serious. Women often let you know immediately if they are into you. To quote an over-used phrase: "dude, she's just not THAT into you." Maybe not in a serious way; but enjoys your male companionship on a platonic level. At least,in your case.She is enjoying the fact that you are attracted to her. It's convenient and strokes her ego a bit.Show a little less interest and play a little hard to get. Above all, keep your feelings in check. Don't become a weirdo or a stalker. Just back off and open your options to other females. If she's interested, the competition will make her show how she really feels, or she'll come clean and let you know you're in the "friend-zone."
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013): It sounds like you're being dangled on a string. It's likely this lady is seeing other people and likes leaving her options open. In a sense, you may be what she considers nice and harmless, and you're the male companionship she feels safe with. She really isn't interested in anything more serious. Women often let you know immediately if they are into you. To quote an over-used phrase: "dude, she's just not THAT into you." Maybe not in a serious way; but enjoys your male companionship on a platonic level. At least,in your case.She is enjoying the fact you are attracted to her. It's convenient and strokes her ego a bit.Show a little less interest and play a little hard to get. Above all, keep your feelings in check. Don't become a weirdo or a stalker. Just back off and open your options to other females. If she's interested, the competition will make her show how she really feels, or she'll come clean and let you know you're in the "friend-zone."
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. I will give her a couple of days and see what happens. I dont want to be seen desperate. But i dont want to lose my time.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (26 February 2013):
Yes i can understand your position. Maybe it would be idea to have an indept chat with her as she seems to be sending you very mixed signals. Ask her out straight if she wants to be friends with you or your girlfriend.Then you can decide what you want.Best Luck. Nora B.
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