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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he hate me? Will he ever come back to his old self and realise how he's behaving re his stupidity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice on what to do about my friendship with this guy. Everythings been blown far out of proportion. Basically these past 5 months hes changed loads. I know people change and move on but some come back and realise and others don't. I was just wonderin... (1532 words)

We never go out on dates, he says I am too materialistic!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We are both twenty. We have had our ups and downs, to say the least. He never takes me out on dates. He says he is too poor because he needs to pay rent. But dinner or a movie once in a while? Is that bad to ask? He says I'm ... (100 words)

What I have with him is okay, but could I do a lot better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Whenever my boyfriend and I don't see eachother, which is most of the week, my feelings for him fade. They go from 100 (on the day we see each other) to like 30. I start doubting him, start wondering why he doesn't even bother visiting me when he can (and why he's with his ... (230 words)

Should I tell my ex he needs to pay attention to his daughter before he loses her or keep my nose out of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all i wanted to ask what you thought of this situation with my ex and possibly what i could/should do about it. Its complicated, We split up when i was 3 months pregnant due to his cheating. Within a week and a half he found someone else and then within a month they were ... (642 words)

Am I a fool for pursuing this and how long do I wait for her to notice me in a different way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - As, I think it is relevant for the whole story let me give you a bit of an intro about myself first. I am very reserved and shy person and so far have never had a serious relationship, even if there were several opportunities. I consider myself as being generous, caring, a bit ... (842 words)

He makes constant demands for sex but due to my health and busy lifestyle we can't do it so often.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am generaly a happy go lucky kind of girl. In a great relationship with a man i love and cherish and have for near enough 7 years, our sex life is amazing but recently i have run into some problems with my health. Chronic fatigue and i also have thyroid problems, so as you ... (216 words)

Are we in the friend zone? He forgot my birthday so should I still send him the gift I bought for his?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've met this guy about a year ago. He is a friend of my cousin. I was immediately attracted to him. He pretty much kept to himself so there wasnt much getting to know each other. He was very shy and can be at times. As attracted as I was to him, I didnt want anything to ... (610 words)

I have great sex with my boyfriend but I can't orgasm!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age - I have great sex with my boyfriend. But I have a issue having a orgasm... (15 words)

How do you deal with your boyfriend having female friends when there are trust issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you deal with your bf/fiance/husband having female friends or being friends w female co workers, when there have been trust issues in the past (although hes never physically cheated) i told him he needs to be honest and he doesnt want to because i get insecure. Im so ... (116 words)

My parents consider him a criminal and want me to break up with him. Why are they doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m 19 years old guy and I’ve a trouble with my parents. I’m gay and my parents know it. And they have nothing against me being gay, but they have something against my boyfriend. I’m dating a wonderful guy for half a year. He really makes me feel loved and he gives me ... (319 words)

I have a boyfriend but my best friend confessed his love for me. I don't want to hurt him, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there. So I'll just jump right in. I am in a relationship and have been for a little over a year with an amazing guy, and I love him very much. He's 18, I'm 17 so I'm stuck in high school for another year while he works and saves up to start school in the spring semester. ... (274 words)

My parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend and are causing problems for my relationship. Please help!

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15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now and we really love each other we talk about how we want to get married have kids etc. We have our ups and downs but recently there has been a lot of downs and i think that the long distance and the fact that i ... (389 words)

She didn't respond to me for days then said she needed some time off. Do I move on or wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - okay,me and my girlfriend met two months ago and we made it official. One the first day we met she told me she had a crush on me over text. I've decided to get into a relationship with her, at the same time i told i wanted something serious and long lasting. so she accepted, we ... (440 words)

I need help getting over my past relationships and trust issues. And how do I know if this guy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 (18 in May) and i have been talking to this boy who is 18, (19 in June). We go to the same college, and have seen each other a few times but not actually spent time together yet. We're texting almost everyday and I'm starting to like him (i hate how this sounds so ... (167 words)

I got a new job and now he won't talk to me. Why is he angry at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This guy and I use to go out as teenagers we had two kids together he treated us like sh... Now he is sick he can't really do anything for himself .We talk to each other every other day . since I got a new job he does't want to talk to me .He really needs to thank his lucky ... (104 words)

I'm a 20 year old virgin and would really like to know.... What does it feel like to be completely in love with someone, flaws and all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This probably sounds like a stupid question, but what does it feel like to be in love? I'm a 20 year old guy, never had a girlfriend or even any interest from a woman, still a virgin, never been kissed etc. So I really don't know what its like. I'm pretty shy, I would say im ... (93 words)

Is theater or musical theater a good way to prepare to be like a performing artist even if you don't solely want to act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4112 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a question that is not really related to relationships but a lot of the people on this site seem to have very good insight. You see, in the long run, I wish to be an artist. I want to be a great performing artist and writer. I want to write my own song lyrics, my own ... (817 words)

My ex of 5 years left me unexpectedly. I moved on but now my ex is back. I love them both! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Folks - I'm in quite a pretty pickle. This will be long, so sit back! I was in a relationship with a guy for nearly 5 years. We naturally had our ups and our downs, but overall, things were fine. We got along, shared the same interests, laughed together, had great sex an... (1168 words)

We have been married for 18 years but recently he has been cold and we don't have sex for months.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Any advise will be appreciated. I have a situation going on with my husband of 18 years. We married young and maybe this is a factor because I think he is tired of me. I have always been a little colder than him and would try to hide my emotions, I had built this wall and ... (302 words)

Should I text him or do nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy texted me about two weeks ago, wishing me a belated Happy Birthday. He had previously invited me out to lunch, so in this text he said he would be in touch soon to see when we can both get together for said "lunch". We are both very busy, he has just started a n... (240 words)

Husband is obsessed with his penis size. How can I help him to get over his obsession? I think he's perfect.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband is obsessed with his penis. He thinks it's small, because he heard how big a man I slept with was. How can I tell him to knock it off, and that he is perfect for me? I do but he thinks I'm just trying to make him feel good. He doesn't believe me that we all don'... (149 words)

We spent time together, he seemed keen but since I have heard nothing from him....why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a French guy online (we are both 32) and met him in London which went well. He is not a frequent texter and by the time I met him again 4 weeks later I probably had 4 messages from him. So he doesnt like texting and that I accept. The 2nd date went well and I stayed o... (232 words)

What's my next move? She said she wants to hang out with me more before she makes a decision to date

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4240 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone! I met someone at a venue I've been working at all summer. She's cute, she's fun to be around, and she's kinda nerdy like I am. I met her and thought she was cool but after seeing her more and more I started to like her. I realized the feeling was mutual when ... (397 words)

He loves me, he loves me not. Now he's ditched me again. How do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - All of a sudden my boyfriend isnt into me AND i just dont understand it All he does is ditch me then makes an excuse about it. I almost broke up with him the other day but he literally begged me to not, but then he just ditched me again. why? ... (54 words)

Should I stay at his house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I am faced with a challenge. I made up my mind to spend my school holiday this december with my boyfriend in his house in another state and tell my parents the school requested us to stay because of out fast approaching exams so as to stay away from my father cos ... (251 words)

Don't know when or if I should tell this guy I'm a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been reading a few questions people have asked on here about telling a guy their with that they are a virgin, well thing is i'm stuck on whether I should or even when. Because IF some guys see it as a conquest, then how do I know that he isn't one of them... He's a re... (200 words)

I'm tired of the demands of my husband's family.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4234 days ago

15 September 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Dear cupids. I am very disturbed by my husband's family. They are really causing problems in my marriage. It seems they want to heap all financial responsibilities on my husband. We support my MIL and FIL monthly and also pay university fees for my husband's sister and which ... (450 words)

My mother suffers. My Dad puts his own mother as first even ignoring his wife (my mother) if his mother or his sisters demand things. Should I confront family about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Although this is not purely a love-relationship based question but I would like to hear your thoughts about this. This is about my family, my dad is a man who you call a mommy man, (I refer to my grandmother here) He is a man who loves his mom regardless what his mom does, th... (368 words)

Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to? Does my Gf miss him?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to ....???? I'm in relation wid her from one year ago She loves me to bits. Sometimes I feel bad that she had an awful former boyfriend who took my girl friend's virginity by saying that he would... (131 words)

He forgot about the dating site? Could this just be a bit of his old types of behaviour coming back a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a bit of a problem with my boyfriend at the moment...(We have been together 9 months and met through a mutual friend) We've recently had a few small issues, that are just like little arguments really, he's stressed with work and other things at the moment. I recent... (730 words)

Masturbating hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi to all, First a little intro:About a year ago I decided to lose my virginity just so I could see what the fuss was about(I was 19).Before that I was masturbating for years so I wasn't concerned about hurting or stuff like that.(Never with a dildo) Anyway we did it and... (166 words)

My boyfriend has been having sex with another girl behind my back.Am I a fool for wanting to stay and make this work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has always treated me like a princess. He is one of my best friends; we have the same friends, the same beliefs, and have known each other for a little over four years. We've been dating for 3 months short of two years. We moved into a duplex together about three ... (399 words)

She doesn't want sex anymore and says she has no desire. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age - me and my girl have been together for a year when we first started dating she wanted sex all the time now it's been a year and she don't want sex no more she is 48 years old she tells me she has no desire what can I do... (50 words)

Troubled relationship with my FWB

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I know there is a lot of questions asked about this but I really need some advice my friends with benefits if you could call it that have been sleeping together for nearly 3 years now last week I asked him if he had been sleeping with someone else he was quite nasty ... (121 words)

I am stuck in this awful place where I don't really prefer a divorce but staying in the marriage is difficult.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary in August. Instead of it being a joyous milestone, it was melancholy in nature from my point of view. We share a lot of love and joy or else we would have never made it this long, but our relationship has... (814 words)

I worry about my employment history impacting on my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, asking for opinions please - I am forty three and have started a fantastic relationship with someone that I am really falling for and who seems to feel the same. A few things are holding me back though due to very bad relationship experiences and some things about ... (888 words)

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect or appreciate me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect or appreciate me. We have been together for 4 1/2 years, two of which were 4 hour long distance. We fight often and when we do he says some really mean things. I feel like he's always attacking who I am as a person and putting me down. ... (204 words)

How do I toughen myself up and keep from crying over the littlest things and getting too dependent on my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. To start off, I am an extremely emotional person, I always have been since I was little. I used to be very dependent on my boyfriends in the past, always going from relationship to relationship because I loved the attention and felt like I needed someone to depend ... (272 words)

Why did she do this to me, and how do I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Back around the start of this year, I 'met' this 21-year old American girl* on Twitter. She was already following me and a number of other people I follow who were already following her, and so I ended up following her back. She pretty much immediately than... (544 words)

My husband's children and grandchildren make me so unwelcome. What is the best way to handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - What do you do when for seven years your husbands adult kids will not accept you? The x is nuts and my husband and I met when he had been divorced 4 years. My now husband's kids had been so mean to my daughter (26) till finally she will never have anything to do with them ... (331 words)

My fiance is joining the Army. She has cheated on me before and I'm scared she will again.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm not really sure how to go about this question so ill do the best I can I'm 20 years old Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years...I'm disabled and I'm basically her stay at home cleaning man...recently she has decided to join the Army...now here comes my co... (240 words)

Am I just being paranoid about his strange phone behaviors or is there something to worry about here? And how would a normal person react to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Earlier tonight I asked my husband to see his phone to hear a voicemail his brother had left. It seemed like he was going through some things and pressing a lot of buttons before handing me his phone. I am a paranoid person and I think I suffer from anxiety. When this happened ... (651 words)

I got along great with my boyfriend's sister, until I found out she has gotten an abortion and doesn't seem to care about it.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. In that time of course, I've got to know his family and the person I've always got on with the most is his sister. Most of my boyfriend's family are quite rough (swear a lot, drink etc) but his sister was the only one that was ... (271 words)

I'm falling for my teacher. I've never been in love before, is this how it feels?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and I've recently started college and there's a teacher there who teaches me Drama and at first, I thought 'oh wow, hello'. Like many other teenage girls do when they see some eye candy. That bit, I know is normal. But as time has gone on and I have got to know him bett... (366 words)

Can I get any pointers on how to feel platonic love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've learned some really valuable lessons today. You see, I fell in very strong like with this guy who is asexual(but an aromantic asexual, like he's interested in relationships just not sex) And I told him that I liked him today and I really thought that it was going to go ... (558 words)

We talk all the time online and he has sent me gifts but hasn't suggested meeting up yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to a man online for around a year. We knew each other through mutual friends but live 250 miles apart.. We talk every day and the chat is often sexual but usually in a banter ish way. Recenrly we have become more close, chatting three hours a night until we ... (137 words)

In my previous relationship I enjoyed sex as a submissive partner. How do I find a woman interested in the same things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - From the age of 19 through to 21 I was in a relationship with a Swedish woman 5 years older than myself. Although I don't wish to have an intimate relationship with her anymore, I do miss the part of our relationship where we both enjoyed being both the dominant AND submissive ... (101 words)

I've known him for 5 years but only want to be friends, which I've told him. He can't seem to take the hint. What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4242 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend that I have known for about 5 years. I enjoy his company but nothing more. He told me a while ago that he has feelings for me and wanted us to be together. I made it very clear that even though I value his friendship ( which i genuinly do) I dont have romantic ... (225 words)

Does going down on a woman frequently make her more likely to cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I want to ask a question please which I'd like the most honest answers to. There's a couple, male and female, and in this relationship the man is willing to go down on a woman all the time without question while making love and without being asked to, would this mean that t... (76 words)

He has been deleting his cell phone's history. How do I bring this up to him without accusing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Im engaged, we have a family. We only have my cell phone, as his broke. We live together btw. So i found out that hes been calling his friends and then deleting call history and txt msgs. I dont understand why hes deleting it. He has every right to call his friends. I wouldnt ... (156 words)

My girlfriend's jealousy and paranoia are getting to me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hey need abit of help in a situation i have found myself in Gf saw me flirt with a girl online , this convo only lasted about 10 min, but she got very upset and i told her it meant nothing its jut facebook and i would never EVER cross the line and cheat (meet up) , anyway i d... (396 words)

I want a real relationship but my father does not allow me to go out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4242 days ago

15 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupids, I feel so unfortunate and unwanted at times. I am a very attractive slim lady not too tall but a model structure per say. I really do want to get into a relationship but I do not want to rush things. I do not condone meeting guys through facebook as I have met a ... (295 words)

Why aren't we spending more time together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4241 days ago

15 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently quit my job a month ago and during that time I went on two family vacations. Now that things have settled and I am looking for a new job, I have a lot of spare time. My boyfriend and I used to be on opposite schedules with a few hours between work schedules and ... (219 words)