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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She climaxed several times yet she says there is no chemistry between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (M)

age - I recently started going out with a woman who's quite a bit younger than me (I'm 52, she's 38). The first time we made love was in a hotel room (difficult for us to have time together at either of our houses because of our children). She orgasmed half-a-dozen times, but next ... (109 words)

Is my boyfriend keeping his options open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not sure what to think. My boyfriend of six months is flirting with one of his clients, whom he also considers a friend. I have asked him if he finds her attractive and he has answered she is beautiful. They laugh a lot together from what I have heard. They spend plenty of ... (161 words)

Did my comment scare him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I was having a Facebook conversation with this guy who I like but he has a conversation and we were joking around when I says " it's weird we haven't talked in ages, I kind of miss you" because we used to be close but then we stopped talking and this is the first time ... (78 words)

Is it possible that my virgin girlfriend was assexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Is this possible for my girlfriend to have been an asexual, she hasn't had sex yet and I asked her why that is (just curious why people don't) and she said she never felt that attraction to have sex with anyone until she came to university. She said all through school and ... (171 words)

Suddenly he doesn't seem as interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this guy i like for around 2 months, we've met and things were going well but all of a sudden he's stopped texting me as much and his texts don't sound like he actually wants to talk to me. What does this mean?... (47 words)

How to have a guy who is much older than you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 33 and my friend who we have been for morethan3 months is 59. He has been seperated for 15 years but legally has not been divorced. We like eachother alot and had sex for several times. Once I got pregnant and he helped me through. I really want to know how to make ... (91 words)

Does size matter? I think he's going to be too big.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this gentle loving person. However, when we got close I saw that his was way too big and wide. Now I do not know how to tell him that we cannot work out and best to part as I do not think I could take it, it is too big. ... (54 words)

Why can't I get a girl anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Before I was depressed people said I was cute and fun to be around. People would tell me I could get any girl I wanted. When I hit 15 I got acne and got depressed for NO reason. I think hormones screwed me up or something. Now I'm 18 and still no improvement. People say I ... (100 words)

I miss my crush but he's going out with girl who doesn't like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i have an crush on this boy but he has a girlfriend who is in my class and I've known her since we were like three and for some reason she dosent like me. Anyway i was friends with her boyfriend and had a crush on him(they were not going out then) because we walked the same way ... (148 words)

Maybe I shouldn't have broken up with him over his post?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I had this boyfriend(S),we were together for about 7 months and everything was going fine. i really liked him and (S) was one of the few people i've been with that was good to me. about 4 months into the relationship we had sex. it was the first time i had sex since my 1st ... (285 words)

Both somewhat newly single, but we get along so well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts/uncles. Here's my situation... I just got out of a relationship of 1 year. It started out somewhat mutual but then it became me breaking up with him. I had been feeling off for a while, at least 2 months, and was already done with the relationship. Don't get me w... (376 words)

Did he slip up and is now trying to cover it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Try to assess this boyfriend of mine. My boyfriend (36) and I (32) have been dating for 2 months. He is overly eager to please, always apologetic if I look upset, wants to text even at work, in general always sweet to me. Shares that he has his dark side, his anxiety (takes m... (444 words)

Could this mean he loves me but is too shy to say so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've currently been with my boyfriend for 9 months I love him dearly but haven't told him nor as he told me,but recently his been calling me "my love" and when play fighting said he would take his love elsewhere. We only see one another weekends but he said he always m... (90 words)

How do I start talking to him and giving him signals that I like him?

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23 September 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - please read this sorry it's long :( im in year 9 and i'v likes this guy from my primary school since year 7. we used to have the greatest conection ever, though i was to young to understand what love was in primary school (he really liked me in year 5 but i never thought ... (306 words)

Boy advice needed. He clams up all the time and I can't work it out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I need some boy advice. I dated boy A, for a good year or so. When boy A finished it, I was pretty distraught. His friend, boy B then confessed that he was "in love with me" and had been for most of mine and boy A's relationship. I didn't really respond, but knew that I ... (220 words)

What should I do about this resentment that he won't try to lose the weight he has gained?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In March, I started dating a guy I've known for 4-5 years. In may, I decided that I wanted to lose weight and since then, I've lost about 25 pounds, but here's the problem. My boyfriend was about 20 pounds overweight when we made it official, but since then he's gained another ... (183 words)

My boyfriends disrespectful past is stopping me from moving on with our future?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been terrible in the past, staring at other women in public, buying disgusting mens magazines and putting them in plain sight where i could see them and thinking nothing of it, flirting with other girls behind my back and thinking nothing of it and ... (237 words)

Guys, would you have reacted in the same way as my boyfriend to the fact that I am a virgin at 20?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy i'm seeing we were getting really close and things were intense, I wanted to go the whole way but I stopped him and said I can't i'm still a virgin, but told him I want to, just not yet. I'm ready, i'm just not sure yet if I want to with him since I have waited a ... (376 words)

How can I tell my crush that I'm still angry with him? Or is it best to leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - After two years of not talking to my crush, I have been seated next to him. He used me to get rid of another girl, and pretended to have feelings for me. He is now pretending nothing ever happened. How can I tell him that I am still angry with him? Or would it be best to le... (63 words)

I'm terribly upset about the way my sister-in-law treated me 2 years ago and the fact that my husband did not stand up for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age - 2 years ago my husband's mother died. At the funeral my husband's sister mostly ignored me, made me feel uncomfortable or made fun of me. I have had no dealings with her since. My husband did nothing to stop this going on. Since then a wedge has grown between my husband and I ... (298 words)

My long distance boyfriend asked me to share my naked pic, I refused to share and now he is sad. Should I send him my naked pic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We both are of same age, 16 years old. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We met 2 months ago on facebook and he proposed me after 1 month. I love him a lot. I strictly follow what our holy book says, no sex before marriage. ... (329 words)

Is this controlling behaviour or is my boyfriend being a jerk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont even know if this is anything but it is bothering me a lot. Ive brought it up with my bf but he just laughs and thinks it is nothing. I have wondered if it is a control thing with him. For example, if i am watching tv in the lounge, and he comes home Or comes into the... (222 words)

How do couples handle arguments, fights and disagreements?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I am curious to know how couples handle it when they have an argument, fight, disagreement etc. Do you just go off seperately into another room to calm down afterwards? I ask because my bf and i had a argument. It was about something small and silly. Both said stuff and t... (158 words)

Am I being to paranoid? Should I be suspicious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everybody i need help with understanding this situation. i took back my ex boyfriend bout 2 months ago after a two year break up. during the two year breakup, he would call and text me, trying to get in contact but i would ignore the call because i was still hurt and b... (614 words)

What do I do about this woman who keeps trying to touch me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - All responses will be helpful, thanks in advanced. Firstly I'm lesbian. I'm a very quiet person regarding my personal life, as to whom I'm dating and am I gay. Reason being, I once disclosed my orientation at a previous job and the outcome was bitter sweet. Sweet part was a lot ... (446 words)

I've given her an ultimatum, him or me. How can we move forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - folks in need of some expert help basically giving my gf a ultimatum. Choose him or me. il make this quick basically i made the first mistake by flirting with a girl online, but let me explain, this flirtation ment absolutely NOTHING and i would never EVER cross ... (648 words)

Has the love gone? Is this normal after 2 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I was wondering if you give any advice... I had some thoughts recently and wondering if love is dying or am I being selfish I have known my boyfriend for two years and although we do not live close by we keep in touch everyday, usually via the internet as it c... (331 words)

Could he have acquired something that looks like a love bite from a fight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend was in a fight and got beat up bad but he has what looks like a love bite on his neck would this be cause from the fight ?... (31 words)

Why do people give up their friends when they get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do a lot of married people give up their friends? I'm in my mid twenties, and I'm married as well. I've lost quite a few friends since they got married, and I don't understand why. I think part of the problem could be that most of my friends were guys, so maybe their wives ... (281 words)

Is he like this around me because he might feel something for me, or because he's not interested in the least?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to have a crush on one of my brothers friends, J. At one point he showed signs of liking me (I caught him looking at me all the time, he'd be talking to a group of people but looking at me, jump on me to wake me up, ask my parents about me, talk about me with his sister, ... (222 words)

Have I missed my chance with my high school crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, There is a girl that I like in high school. Ill name her "E". E likes me too, I know because we would often stare at each other for more than 30 seconds back in high school. she is so pretty and nice, but I am not sure if she hates me now. I was not able to talk... (188 words)

I just want a little TLC when we are out together, but he gives it to everybody but me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What is there to do in this situation? My boyfriend is a hopeless flirt and the life of the party. I find it incredibly uncomfortable being in public with him. What on earth can I do? At parties, he engages everyone, except me. He has said that he thinks of us as a team a... (516 words)

When they discover my religion guys take a step back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I always get a lot of attention from guys and have never felt insecure about anything. But recently I've realized that guys start looking at me differently as soon as they find out I am a Muslim. I live/study in Christian society so pretty much every single guy that I meet or ... (109 words)

Is it dangerous territory if my platonic male friend is interested in me? My Bf doesn't like me seeing this other guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - My male coworker and I have become good friends. I never really hang out with him outside of work because he is really infatuated with me. It even caused some tension in the beginning, when I was just getting to know him. He's not my type at all and I can NEVER see myself w... (339 words)

Seems my Bf and his friends bullied this girl at school. So why would she want me to know her connection to my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

23 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - girl from my boyfriend's past showed up at my shop and I don't know what to think of my bf's reaction to what she said! Sorry if this is long, but I don't know what to make of this! I work as a makeup artist/consultant at a mall. Anyway, Thursday this girl came by, look... (676 words)

Ex of 18 years left me for another man, married him and 3 years later I still can't move on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

23 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of 18 years left me for another man. She gave me little explanation and I tried everything possible to resolve the situation but she didn't want to know. After three years she has married this man on the rebound. I desperately trying to get rid of the thoughts of ... (126 words)