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writes:I am generaly a happy go lucky kind of girl. In a great relationship with a man i love and cherish and have for near enough 7 years, our sex life is amazing but recently i have run into some problems with my health. Chronic fatigue and i also have thyroid problems, so as you can imagine i am always drained. I run a busy house hold day to day and look after our two children and i also have a job to attend to. Our sex life has taken a slow down turn and he is making constant demands for sex.I feel like its every minute he makes an advance and he is constantly on my back about it. i do love him with all my heart but i feel like i am not keeping him happy and its upsetting my life balance as before i could keep him satisfied. Once a day is good for a woman my age, i am not as young as i used to be. I get the feeling he thinks i am cheating or loosing interest but i am not. its almost like his sex drive is picking up and mine is slowing down. what can i do? please help. Thanks, from the distressed wife.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (16 September 2012):
 Have you sat down and talked to him? On one hand I think it's great that he is still so turned on by you, but on the other hand it's like he doesn't respect that there is more to you then "servicing" him sexually.
Are you on medication for the thyroids? Have you had your hormone levels checked?
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (15 September 2012):
 Can you come to an agreement about how often you will do it? He will know where he stands then, as will you, then he won't need to keep pestering you about it.
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reader, lmao1989 +, writes (15 September 2012):
 Have you told him this?
Maybe if he understood more about how you're feeling he'd ease up on.
Are you too tired to give him oral? I know you've said he demands sex but maybe you can compromise and give him oral so he's satisfied and you'll be able to keep a husband calm.
Or if you are too tired for that maybe go to a therapist or doctor see if they can offer you some advice on this situation.
Hope this helps.
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