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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I put a lot of money into a gift for her and for my birthday she gets me... A text message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating and in a serious relationship for a little over a year now. We have known each other for 4+ years prior and always kinda had a thing for each other. Three months ago, it was her birthday and I saved up and bought her a nice $425 necklace with diamonds. She ... (208 words)

How can I be anorexic if I'm not slim//skinny?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont have an account so please check in as I will hopefully update daily if necessary. I have been overweight for about 6 years (comfort ate). I have been anorexic and had the mindset of a bulimic for about 8 months and it pretty much snuck up on me because I had los... (190 words)

When I was leaving my girlfriend's house I had a weird urge to cry. Should I tell her this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, im a girl. Im just making that clear. So me and my girlfriend go to separate high schools, but i walk to her house to see her. Wich is almost everyday after/before school. I saw her this morning, but when i had to leave to go to class, I got this urge to cry. Simply b... (77 words)

She's cheating on me, I want to break up for real, how do I do it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay! I need help! What do I do?! My girlfriend is cheating. How do I know? i just know. As I write this I know she is with another guy. She told me she had to go to a 2 day conference which she is currently at. Anyways she left yesterday morning. I hadn't heard from ... (227 words)

We have been hooking up for months, do you think he is starting to develop feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been hooking up with a guy friend for about 3 months. We've become so close and I like it a lot. I've started to develope feelings if you couldn't tell and I'm not sure if he has also. He seems to care more; we work together and he's always trying to help me and do stuff ... (160 words)

Why would he keep pestering me for a kiss if he didn't like me in that way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Everyone says that teenagers get crushes, especially at my age, most of my friends get a crush for a few months, get bored and move on. How come that I have been in love with the same guy for six years then? Ive had no other feelings for anyone else. I've posted on here before ... (310 words)

We had a threesome and my husband completely ignored me! I feel our marriage is over...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married for 5 1/2 yrs. My husband and I have useId talking about a 3some several times during sex for excitement. Me being bi. But he has always said he doesn't really wanna do it. But the opportunity presented itself. And he asked and asked if I would . I finally agreed. ... (288 words)

I need information on how to deal with my mom who has OCD/ADD and treats me like a worthless bum.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Sorry for the length and thanks in advance for any help! Just putting it plainly, my mother makes me feel like I'm the worst. First off, I'll admit I'm lazy and that has caused me to be a little behind in my progression to adulthood, but that hasn't stoppe... (880 words)

I have a girlfriend but I think I want to be with this guy! Does this mean I am gay and what do I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m 18 years old guy and I’m having a trouble with my orientation. I think I’m in love with a male. It seems so crazy to me, yet it’s true. My father owns a small firm and there’s one worker there who’s driving me crazy. Almost every day I come to visit my dad at his work and ... (334 words)

I no longer desire sex with my wife but I do desire other women. It's consuming me, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age - Ok,i'm married,and have lost my desire for sex with my wife,but have a desire to have sex with almost every female i come across! When i meet another woman,even for just a minute,i'm wondering what it would be like to have her! It's consuming me,can anyone offer some ... (50 words)

What can I change so I am no longer embarrassed by my loud, outspoken father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) age 26-29 - Dear Cupid My father is a very loud person. He rises his voice when he speaks, especially when he s in a conflict. He s so straight forward when he talks and i think that s why he s always in a conflicts. Mostly he s too proud of himself even if the situation doesnt favour hi... (232 words)

I care about her promiscuous past. I am determined to get over this, anyone have advice on how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Basically, I've started dating my dream girl and she's perfect. The only thing is when I met her she was going thru a more promiscuous phase even though she never used to be like that and isn't like that now. I know for a fact I'm an idiot for caring about her past ... (153 words)

He wants to be with me but also wants to be with his ex. He says its to help her move on. What?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so… I'm starting a relationship with this guy we've been friends for almost 2 and a half years. He has this huge amount of trust with me which makes me feel kind of guilty because I'm not that kind of people who talk about themselves a lot. Anyway, he said he really l... (181 words)

My husband no longer loves me or wants to live with me. I still want to be together even with him feeling this way. Is it worse to live with us both unhappy or to lose the love of my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Here's the situation. I'm totally in love with my husband and I'm desperate for us to get back together. He has fallen out of love with me and cannot bring himself to be with me sexually. We're still friends and see each other nearly everyday. We have children together. He says ... (236 words)

After some rough patches and fighting he says he's done with us. How do I save this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like my world was just ripped out of my fingers!! My boyfriend told me 4 days ago that he is over us. Im lost and need to know what to do to prove to him its not theus he is over itsthe fighting! We met five years ago in december and by the end of the first day we met... (836 words)

Is it my insecurity or is my boyfriend being mean to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. Usually, the relationship is pretty great. But I'm having a problem with him right now, and I don't know who is to blame- him or me. He just started back at school which takes up his entire day, and he works at night until ... (512 words)

He is looking to move out behind my back and I'm afraid he's cheating on me again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My (gay) boyfriend and I have dated for more than a year and have been living together for one. Last month I found out accidentally that he has been looking for a room (he wanted to move out). I actually found that he has been looking for a room since 2 months ago. I talked to ... (320 words)

An old friend is back in town and I'm feeling something for him, but I'm in a relationship. Is this infatuation or something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, this is my first time writing here- and this has been bothering me for a while. I have been living with my boyfriend for quite a long time, but for the past three months, an old friend of ours began to spend time with us again because he is back in town. I begin to... (158 words)

Is this all some elaborate plan to sleep with me or is he really battling his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been friends with this guy for about a year. We used to work together. And it's really only been just that...friends. Throughout our friendship I let him know I was interested in him and he told me on a couple different occasions that he really likes hanging out with ... (883 words)

I thought she was interested but now I haven't heard from her in days. What now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met this girl and got her number. I called her up a few days later and left her a voicemail about getting together. Almost two days passed and I didn't hear from her and then she texted me. We set up a date for the next week. It went extremely well I thought. We even ... (355 words)

Does anyone else really like feet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - It may sound like a random question, but does anybody have an attraction to feet? I have liked them since childhood. I'm not into sucking toes or anything (not knocking it, it's just not my thing). I like touching female feet, massaging them, and tickling them. Anyone else ... (50 words)

My neighbor told me he saw my girlfriend sneaking around with my friend. They said no way. Who do I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A neighbour/casual friend of mine has told me that my girlfriend has cheated on me with one of our good friends. He said he saw him leave the house one day when i was out, and that the guy also told him he had slept with her a while back and that her good friend also said it ... (203 words)

I like this guy but he asked me for a threesome. Should I still do on a date with him anyway?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some honest answer! This guy I kinda like... asked me for a threesome..( two guys and me!) Yes, I was hurt by this proposal and really offended. I thought he might like me as well... but I guess it's not. But still I desperately want to meet him. He is ... (123 words)

I like this sweet guy but I'm too nervous to even say hi sometimes. Ideas on what I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this kid i work with he's so sweet and really cute.i feel like he's exclty what i need, we always talk but not about anything like that. We also go to the same college so i always see him but sometimes i get nervous so i dont say hi to him i really dont know what ... (70 words)

He's using his visitation time with my daughter to try to get back together with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Modnote: I assume you meant 2 year old girl? I have a 22 year old little girl and her father and I are not together anymore due to him putting other things before our baby. I now recieve child support and he gets supervised visitations every other saturday for 4 hours which is... (167 words)

I'm a lesbian and I'm attracted to my dad's ex wife!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and I'm a lesbian. My parents have been married my whole life, but before my dad met my mom he was married once before for less than a year. I recently came across his ex wife and I'm extremely attracted to her, which I feel like is very wrong but I can't help how I ... (203 words)

I may have miscarried recently. It's made me want a baby. Should I wait like my Bf says? I worry waiting could destroy our relationship.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and going to be turning 19 in 3 weeks. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 5 years and he is turning 20 in 2 months. He was the person I lost my virginity to and we have only slept with each other. I started taking the pill as soon as I became sexually active a... (446 words)

His jealousy is starting to put a damper on our physical relationship. And now a new guy is showing interest. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really really need some advice... I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. When we first met I lived in a different city. After I finished my degree we decided to be together, so I moved to be with him (I do have family here as well)In our 3 years of being together... (311 words)

How can I help her with her anger issues? We used to have such a good relationship. Now things are different.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for roughly a year and a half we have broken up once and dated other people but gotten back together. We do love each other. She has cheated on me twice and I have had the feeling of cheating on her but I have not. I believe cheating... (412 words)

What do others know about a Court Approved Marriage in India? How can one arrange one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old guy born in June 1992 and i am in love with a girl age 17 years old who was born in June 1995. I live in India. Does anyone who the rules about marriage? i want to court approved marriage with her in july 2013 so can that marriage be officialy possible or ... (75 words)

My teen son is using my lingerie items when he masturbates. How should I handle this delicate situaiton?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mom and my 13yr old is using my unwashed lingerie items to "help himself" while he masturbates. I found of my personal lingerie items under his bed and it is clear what he is doing with them. We have alwways been open with one another and I am wondering if... (121 words)

Should I send him a 'goodbye' letter after he broke up with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - He broke up with me more than a week ago. We were together for one and half years, spending the first six months together and another one year long distance. He's european, I'm asian. He's 22. I'm 29. Not the easiest situation huh. He told me the reasong being, he sto... (328 words)

A bitter-sweet relationship...do I have to look back on the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a special friend, I call him special because he is my boyfriend, he was also my childhood friend...then when we reach our high school years, we need to separate our ways because he attended in different school. But during our college years we met again, but he was ... (650 words)

Doesn't want to hurt me. Kissed me. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story short... Met a guy. Been hanging out as friends for 4 months. Really like him. He said he just wanted to be friends. Nothing happened. Stopped hanging out with him for like a month. Finally hung out with him again tonight. And he kissed me and admitted he really ... (151 words)

I feel like I'm losing him. My boyfriend is unhappy but why does he stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me have been together almost a year and a half, of course at the beginning things were great. We had a period where we broke up for a couple months because of all the arguing. I can be somewhat insecure, overbearing and controlling and that's why he left me,... (406 words)

He always looks at me in class. Does this mean he likes me or is it in my head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello am 17 and never had a boyfriend and i recently just started college and i have been attending for 5 days now and since day 1 of college i have noticed this guy staring at at me at he is tall tan and i think he is shy and pretty fit. Our teacher has been making us take ... (331 words)

I really like this guy but he said he can't give me what I want in a relationship. Now I am stuck living with him for a year, help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in such an awkward and difficult position and would appreciate help from anyone, whatever advice it may be. I have just recently moved into a house with a guy who I didn't know so well before. (Him and 3 others). We met on a student house-share website, and I had been tal... (636 words)

Should I acknowledge my ex's birthday?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. It was a mutual agreement as the relationship wasn't working out. We haven't spoke in 3 months since the break up. (we both decided never to speak again) Her birthday is coming up soon and I'm wondering if i should send her ... (132 words)

She knows I love and miss her so why does she tease me this way?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

13 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex dumped me about 3 month ago after we had been together for nerly 6 years as we had not been getting on lately and arguing a lot and has refused to speak to me ever since. She Started seeing a new lad not long after we broke up and Will not reply to any message or even ... (223 words)