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Archived questions from: 14 September, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I help my older brother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear cupids, My brother has battled with a lot and is still battling with himself. Since he was thrown out of his father's house at 16 his life had changed drastically. He is 26 years old now and still doesn't know what he wants to do in life. Any time I try to advice him to ... (220 words)

Is it a bad idea to get involved with an alcoholic?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it possible or even advisable to have a relationship with a guy who has a serious drinking problem? I care for him deeply and he says he loves me.... but he is occasionally abusive and I have always stood up for myself but I just feel that I am going nowhere fast. It's very ... (79 words)

He is the man of my dreams and we share a bed together, but he will not have sex with me. Any and all advice is needed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4218 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I use to think I knew everything but this time I am so confused and in desperate need of help. I am a gay male who has met the man of my dreams, someone who is sweet loving, responsible and I absolutely adore him. There is no doubt in my mind that he feels the same however I am ... (230 words)

Can anyone explain to me how kissing is done well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4162 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive kissed a man before but im not sure im doing it right. i hate sloppy kisses but i dont know what to really do with my lips and hands and how fast to go and just how to turn him on period. Can someone explain to me how its done?... (51 words)

My birthday is coming up but I can never find something fun to do in December. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - im birthday is in two months im turning 19, and i have no idea what im going it do. i hate that my birthdays in december because its cold but i really want to do something fun! maybe like go somewhere for the weekend but i dont know where does anybody have any ideas? ... (54 words)

After a year of trying we still haven't conceived. Are there any tests doctors can do to find if I am ovulating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been trying fir a baby for a year now. I am worrying im not ovulating. Because i know you can still have periods and not actually ovulate. My periods are pretty much like clockwork and i am monitoring my mucus. Does having the correct mucus at... (107 words)

My boyfriend wakes me up and wants sex, then falls back asleep. Does this mean he is cheating on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - For the past week or so my boyfriend of 2 years will wake up and then start kissing my neck telling me how much he wants sex.then he turns around and falls back asleep ..i don't understand why ....is it he is cheating on me and thinking i am that person? 3times in one ... (57 words)

After too many arguments I cheated on my girlfriend, with a guy! Now I don't know who I should choose.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m 18 years old guy and I’ve very strange situation in my life. It’s kind of about my sexual orientation. I cannot choose between a woman and a man. I’ve a girlfriend and I’ve been together with her for almost half a year. First everything was cool, she was the best for me, I ... (398 words)

We broke up and he gave a lot of excuses. I am now dating someone else but I don't know if I should give up on him and wait for my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, im a confused wreck let me give you a back story about my situation...Last year i began dating Anthony he was 15 and i have just turned 17 it was the best relationship ever he was my bestfriend he was there for me and i was there back i never knew i was going to ... (362 words)

After breaking up I went to therapy and he decided he is willing to try again but not making any promises. Should I be hopeful about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ex boyfriend agreed to give it a try. Is there any hope? We are in our ealy 30s, both divorced once, dated seriously for 14 months. We broke up on Labor day. He said he loves and cares about me very much, but he's not in love with me. After breaking up, I started seeing a t... (469 words)

I am told I need to make a move on a woman early on, but how can I do this when I haven't developed feelings yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a guy in my mid-thirties. And so far I didn't manage to get into a relation. Part of this has been self-esteem issues. (Thank you very much bullies). Now i'm slowly getting over that. But the problem is. I don't fall in love easily. I have to get to know a girl fir... (229 words)

I'm always missing my boyfriend to the point that I'm distracted and can't focus.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably a common problem, but I'm struggling with missing my boyfriend. We see each other quite often (once or twice a week) and have phone contact daily. We've been going out for nearly 5 months now, and I had hoped that this feeling of missing him would calm down,... (113 words)

He's obsessed with porn and thinks I will cheat on him. We constantly have awful, sometimes physical, fights. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone:) I really need some advice. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months and our relationship has been very terbulant! The first month we started datin it was fun but i did not take him too serious because i felt he was still talking to other girls and we ... (586 words)

My coworker and I had an affair but now he doesn't seem interested anymore. What's the problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello All on this forum. I have a problem i really need help with. I think i have been foolish. A month or so ago i had sexual intercourse with a man from my office of work place. Sure he chased me and flirted with me and text me more than my husband did. One night we got drun... (311 words)

My husband took pictures of women without their consent. Should I send him packing or report him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is in his late 50's. The other day we were both at the mall shopping and he had his cell phone with him. I was in another area of the store shopping and we set a designated time and place to meet to allow us each enough time to shop. When we got back home I n... (273 words)

My husband waits until I've gone to bed to talk to a female co-worker, should I be worried?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that my husband talks to a female co-worker. But he always waits till I go to bed to talk with her. She works mightnight shift. I don't think this is normal. Should I be worried?... (37 words)

Do I take a chance on love and move to be with my boyfriend in Australia? Or do I prioritise my education first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I spent 14months working in Australia and came back home about 3 weeks ago. Whilst down under I met and fell in love with my now boyfriend. Things have been great, the long distance is tough and I spend every waking minute thinking about him which has been hard as I have just ... (215 words)

My fiancee's ex called her out of the blue and it has left me feeling worried, am I being irrational?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, a few nights ago my fiance's ex boyfriend called her out of the blue crying that his dad left his mom and everything. She talked for about 30 minutes trying to comfort him. This really bothered me. I've been known to have trust issues because I've been cheated on in ... (184 words)

I like a girl in my class, what would be a good way of approaching her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, i have an interest in girl in my class, im in uni by the way. One problem i have is that this class is only 1 hour a day so there is not a lot of chances when it comes to approaching her, but one upside is that we have like 15 minutes off before the class, and that ... (256 words)

Boyfriend chose he's ex girlfriend's friendship over me. I'm so hurt and disappointed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 18 mths (whom had discussed marriage with me ) and I broke up a few weeks ago due to his level of contact with his ex , by his own admittance, his best and only friend aside from me .They have been totally committed to each other for the last ten years since their ... (311 words)

Does he feel strong feelings for me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4234 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend were chatting on facebook chat earlier and he said he'd had weetabix and two sausages for tea!!! I replied and said - ? weetabix and sausages what together with milk?? and he replied haha nooooooooooooo i had the weetabix first then sausages afterwards... (172 words)

Do steroids affect relations with others?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I want to know if any of you have had a friendship or relationship with any man whose done steroids? What mood changes did they experience? How did you deal with them? Etc thanks for any input.... (37 words)

I lost 2 grandmothers in a very short time. How do I find meaning in life again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. My question is more of a personal nature than about relationships, but it is affecting my relationships with my new partner and with everyone I meet. Basically, over the last 2 months I have lost both my grandmothers. First my mum's mum, then 3 days ago my father's mum. My ... (387 words)

I hate going away on holiday with my fiance! Should I be marrying her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - HI,I live with my girl friend 3 years.we get on fine most of the time.We are engaged and due to get married.But every time we go away I dont really enjoy been with her.I can count 6 or 7 holidays that we have gone on that im just ready to run away when we get home.But the I ... (147 words)

Is my self medical abortion unsuccessful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupids, Help!!!. I recently had a strip test and found a slight second red line. By my calculation, I was 32 days pregnant. So I used the misoprostol alone procedure to terminate it for I have been taught on how to take the medicine in a two days family planning forum a ... (122 words)

Is my husband secretly gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a strong feeling that my husband is either gay or bi.... 8 months after we have gotten married I found in his email that he posted on craigslist about sex with a guy... Of course I asked him about it and was upset... He told me he didn't act on it and is just curious ... (322 words)

I moved my entire life for him, and he goes and cheats on me with his ex wife! I'm stuck here and don't know what to do....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and i met online. We have a few mutual RL friends. He lived 8 hours away. We met up about april of 2011. He was going through a divorce and so was i. But we got along really well and were really miserable apart from eachother. I ended up moving to be with him. His job ... (841 words)

Feeling uncomfortable around this girl because she has slept with every guy I hang out with, including my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel kind strange when ever this girl Taby comes and hangs with my friends and my bf, because she has slept with every guy in the room even my bf once. I just wonder if I can ever be okay in the same room or if I have a legit reason it feel uncomfortable around her and not ... (77 words)

The sex has slowed down and it looks like we are beginning to break up....has my married boyfriend found another woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i m 31 years old and my boyfriend was 45 years old. He always said he is old man now,sex not so in his interest but everytime we had sex,it always so pleasureable and exciting,sometimes once in a week,or twice,maybe thrice and 4 times also occurs before, our highest ... (969 words)

Why do I feel like I'm being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I Been with this guy for a while now and our relationship is good. But i'm always buying stuff for him like food related (chips.etc)and i give him money not like a lot of money just a couple singles every now and than. A gut feeling is telling me im being used. But the other ... (110 words)

My husband can't tell his family no, and it's causing trouble in our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Every time my husband's family comes home he don't know when to come home, all he do is drink with them and forget all about his family, then curses me out when he gets upset, I want my marrage to work, and we have been doing so good, its like if we were far away from here we ... (157 words)

Once someone has moved on will they ever come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Once someone has moved on will they ever come back? The reason I ask is me and a guy were seeing each other. There had been signs he'd like me for years but always said he didnt, and when we got together it seemed like everything was falling into place. He was incredibly shy ... (311 words)

I'm back and in need of some more tough love. I do everything for her and she constantly curses at me and says I do nothing. I need help getting away.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Well agony aunts... It's me. The one that moved to Tennessee to be with a woman I love, that turned out to be a rough ride with 3 kids... Bring back memories now. I wanted to provide an update and get more brutality thrown my way because it helps me a lot. :) I spent 18 day... (1624 words)

He is having sex with a few different girls and I'm not sure what he wants. Or if I even want him. What do you think I should do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been knowing this guy for 3 weeks we were texting before we actually went on a date and before that he told me that he doesn't want a gf. So we went on a date and everything went well obviously I'm different from other girls for him plus he told me that he's on a date ... (484 words)

I think we are dating but not exclusive. Do I have a right to be mad at him kissing another girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this guy for a month, we have been mainly making out and cuddling A LOT, we have spent a bit of time together outside of each others houses though. I found out from a friend that her friend kissed him last week at a college party. Apparently they aren't ... (196 words)

I got my girlfriend mixed up with her twin sister and tried to get on with her. Should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was drunk one day after a party and a friend dropped me off at my girlfriends house. Not knowing my girlfriends twin sister was in the house i tried it on with her thinking she was my girlfriend. At the time i really couldn't tell the difference until she pushed me away. Now ... (87 words)

My ex lied to me yet his parents say that I ruined HIS life by being anal and distrustful!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

14 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and his female friend is saying I came into his life and he loved me but I ruined his life by being anal and distrustful. Back then we started dating into about 3-4 months, he gave me reasons to be suspicious so I checked his phone and found messages that he was going ... (285 words)