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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The one guy, I really like him but I don't get 'that feeling'; with the other, wow

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you go for in a guy, I met these two who are both amazing guys in very opposite ways! But yet, some how they are perfect of what I want in a guy, looks and personality wise. The problem is, one of them when I kiss him, or when he touches my leg or lower back, I don't ... (218 words)

I'm 21 and he's 18! I've never seen myself dating a younger guy with such a significant age gap!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a bad situation. Me and this guy met at a party and we really hit it off right away. We have a lot in common, he's adorably cute and has great style. Well eventually right when I really start liking this guy, he reveals his age to me. He is 18 years old and I myself ... (115 words)

Cool holiday destination for both gay and straight couples? Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey looking for some advice though not on love. Though it is a LGBT question. I'm a lesbian in a serious relationship. My partner and I are best friends with a straight couple who we are chatting about going on holiday with next year. We all fancy a Greek island but need ... (230 words)

Why hasn't he come to see me since we made up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Last year I fell for my guy friend, and all of our mutual friends kept telling me how they thought he liked me back. So I decided to go for it at a party we were both going to, but that night he made out with another girl. He definitely had no idea what I was planning to do, ... (657 words)

He betrayed me,now I don't know how handle the situation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am facing a situation that i don't know how to handle. I love my boyfriend and i believe he loves me too,we have been together for 2 years. 2 weeks ago ,we had plans, we were going to spend the day together,however he told me that things have changed, that he... (379 words)

Love and date. Is she playing hard to get or just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - there is a girl i ask for a date when i got newly into university just two weeks earlier in the university but she refused politely. You know am a kind of person who doesn't insist on a girl. After i ask you for the first time if u refuse i go my way.asking this girl out was my ... (179 words)

Should I leave or stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I got married to guy 15 years older than me at the age of 23. I have two kids from a previous relationship. I didn't get married for love it was not like a security blanket for the shake of the kids. I didn’t ask him to marry me he kinda insisted we get married. I had a ... (282 words)

Will you fight for a man who is in love with you and another women and can't make a decision

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my LDR boyfriend 6months ago. It was a no-contact breakup because I was hurt and I truly wanted to move on. However, three months ago, he cut himself really bad and had undergone surgery. Several people reached out to me to call him but I didn't until my brother ... (850 words)

Why doesn't my man trust me in the sight of other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship with this guy for some years now and I don 't think he trust me. I don't understand why but every time I come to his house and we could be standing out side and a group of guys came over to his sisters house to drink and play cards,all of a sudden ... (156 words)

How do I stop myself from fearing that my girlfriend is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I deal with my insecurities and my constant fear that my girlfriend is cheating? I've previously been in three serious relationships, and in all three of them it either ended, or the relationship ended up damaged beyond repair, by the girl cheating on me. Now I'm ... (452 words)

He won't officially end it if that's what he wants? What to do? I feel stuck!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, Please advise. My Bf of 18 months moved recently ( not too far away) and he has been seeing me less and less. We had an argument and he left for two weeks, then came back breifly and I had it out with him then when I called him the next day , he was acting cold again, ... (157 words)

I'm having a hard time with using Twitter as a way of communicating with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm have a hard time with using Twitter as a way of communicating with my boyfriend. We see each other often, text, call and email, but also use Twitter as the majority of our circle of friends use it. Most of the time I really enjoy using it, but I'm not sure how healthy... (315 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me, but keeps telling me he misses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years after I found out he had cheated on me with a friend of mine. I was so devastated when I found out. I keep telling him I need time to figure out what I want to do, but he keeps emailing and texting me that he misses me. I miss him too,... (138 words)

Would his having had a FWB mean he'd cheat after marriage? I'm so troubled by learning about this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am in a relationship for the past 3 years..everything was going smooth until I found out something about my boyfriends past that has left me disturbed.. My boyfriend was friends with benefit with a girl for a year this was before he met me,and the girl fell in love wit... (197 words)

Is there any way to see how a man feels for you through the way you have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This might sound a bit random. But, is there any way to see how a man feels for you through the way you have sex? the reason i ask is that when me any my boyfriend first started having sex he would do it quite rough and fast.. but as the times have gone on hes started bein... (148 words)

Should I let my brother fail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Its so bad i dont even know where to start. My younger brother who s 12 years old (in 6th grade) is not serious about his school work. All he does is play (toys) with his friends the whole day, eat then go to bed knowing that tomorrow he has to write a test. I mean he just ... (267 words)

I'm uncomfortable since I discovered that my boyfriend has an interest in very young girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, straight to the point. I looked at my boyfriends phone before and in his picture album there were naked pictures of this girl he had sexual relationship with, which I get, it's old and all but you shouldn't have them while you are in a new relationship BUT there were ... (269 words)

B/f doing drugs and thinks its ok as long as he treats me well

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so yesterday i found out my boyfriend did coke.... i had heard this from my friend and literally fought with her because i didnt believe it. then i asked my boyfriend and he told me that it was true but he would never do it again. i got very angry. my boyfriend doesnt think i ... (161 words)

When you love someone shouldn't it be like fire? Not just warm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have bestfriend. we were friend for 2 year and a half years. When we have any problem we alway talk to each other. For now He is the one who know me best..and same to him (He also said that I'm the girl he can say everything) but a few month ago.. I have a nightmare a... (411 words)

Why am I getting texts saying that my b/f is cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i need help ! me and my boyfriend are going to be 10 months . i really fell for him , but since school started we dont see eachother everything we see eachother every weekand. but lately ive been reciving weird texts saying he " cheated on me " and that " he is talking to ... (154 words)

What's in the head of a twenty-year-olds showing interest in me? I'm in my late thirties.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This is the second time in a year when a woman much younger shows interest in me - paying me compliments, buying me drinks, wanting to hang around, etc. I don't think I am that attractive physically, so this is not about wanting one-night stands. Last year I met a woman who ... (274 words)

I got together with an ex and don't know how to tell the guy that I'm dating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I've been in an in and off relationship with this guy for nearly a year now. Sure we've has our differences due to the fact that I'm nearly 17 and he's nearly 22 so our life styles are a lot different. But I haven't really been faithful but I've been honest and ... (142 words)

A virgin who wants to know how to talk to women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4236 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have a question that a lot of people probalby ask, and i've never posted on here before but some advice would be greatly appreciated :). Basically, I wanna know how to talk to women. I am a virgin, never been kissed etc. so i've never had a girlfriend. I di... (269 words)

How can I show her that she means more to me than a simple, meaningless fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a scorpio male, late twenties. and for the past year i've been infatuated with a taurus woman i work with. Everything she does is simply fascinating to me. I find myself watching her and trying to read her and understand her, but there is something that just eludes me. It's ... (364 words)

My marriage is crumbling and I don't think my husband loves my daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Currently, I have just survived cancer treatment. Going through chemo and radiation was torture but also made me appreciate life so much more and to not worry so much about problems because, life is more important. So, during my treatment, when I couldn't eat, I could barely ... (1203 words)

Girls have you ever approached a guy and had him reject you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Girls have you ever approached a guy and had him reject you? I am not talking about being dumped. I am talking about when you first meet a guy, you put yourself out there and ask him out and he shoots you down. I have this theory. Most girls seem to think they understa... (246 words)

I have no time to myself and I'm depressed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have absolutely no time to myself. Zero. I wake up at 5 AM three times a week to walk my dogs and go to school and I stay there till 5 PM. It takes me about 25 minutes to drive there and about 35 back. Frequently there is traffic. By the time I'm home I'm exhauste... (243 words)

B/f always uses my car because his doesn't have room for the 3 of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating a single father for over two years. He has joint custody of his teenage son. We live apart, but we see each other five times a week. His car only seats two so whenever we go anywhere when he has his son, it is my car we take. He is now looking ... (150 words)

I was the other woman for over a year and didn't even know it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All In June i found out my boyfriend of 15 months had been having an affair... or infact i should say up until febuary he was leading a double life and i infact was his mistress. He had a girlfriend when he met me and managed to hide it until i found out in June, he 'plu... (326 words)

Was he drunk? Or sober?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was supposed to go on a date with my neighbor last night. I tell him to meet me at 12:30am, and he agrees. We picked this time cause we were gonna have a midnight picnic. He does not show up until 2. At like 1,I called and texted asking where he was, he didnt respond. When ... (161 words)

Should we take a break? I think the trust between us has gone.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - modNote:two almost the same posts joined into one. My boyfriend has been talking and seeing his ex behind my back, they were together a very long time and he's still not over her. We have been together a year and he says he loves me and wants to be with me but the trust is... (495 words)

Do people break up when they still love each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My dear cupid friends, I really need some your help. I ve been with my,now ex bf,for 3 years. Its been distance relationship,but even though it was really good relationship,we were best friends,were crazy in love with each other...And this fall i was about to move to his cou... (542 words)

Was I wrong for telling my friend this guy she likes, asked me inappropriate things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Summary: 1. My friend likes this guy. 2. He text-ed me inappropriate things. 3. I told her and now she is mad at me? 4. Should I have never told her? 5. Will she end our friendship when I was just telling her what happened? --------------------------------------... (358 words)

One of us has to give up our dream if we are to be together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well i.m korean girl 22years old my boyfriend is greek 38years old we was in relationship for about 1year he living in greece i am living in korea . I really love him he love me so much too btw here is problem i.m student i have my dream in korea here he is worki... (146 words)

Boyfriend's penis red and chaffed after sex. Was it just from sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday after having sex with my boyfriend, he started to feel chafed around the head of his penis. He said it hurt a lot and I noticed it was very red. I couldn't really tell but it almost looked like he was bleeding??? We had sex even though I wasn't properly lubricated and ... (105 words)

Excited to be engaged, but Mum has raised some questions!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there! So, after a few months being on a LDR my bf proposed a few weeks ago over dinner. WOW! We've been together for nearly 2 years (too soon to get married?) and of course I said yes yes yes and I wanted to jump and scream and let the world know how deeply in love with ... (341 words)

Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am currently having to wait til... (119 words)

What can I do so that he wont know I am not a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, m 21yr old indian girl..had been in a relationship wid a guy approx for 1yr,bt he ditched nd left me,as i trusted on him...i was in physical relationship wid him...but before 1 nd a half year... Nd now m going to marry wid anothr guy...after 4-5 months... So ... (128 words)

I am left feeling like a nagging girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi agony aunts and uncles. My sister has told me she got some amazing advice on here, so I'm hoping you can help me too... My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years. He has always been a bit selfish (with things like what films to watch etc) but it was never rea... (425 words)

Sleepless in Canada. In the non romantic way.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been writting about this awhile now. My marriage is in trouble and everytime I try to talk about it with her I don't get answers. This always happens when we get anyone at fighting about what it is. It always gets thrown in my face that I treat her like crap. She ... (467 words)

Should I ignore my initiative and go with the flow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 19 and a virgin with a boyfriend who is 20 and not a virgin. At the beginning of the relationship he said he would wait till I was ready, now 6 months later I think he's getting impatient. It's not that I don't want to it's just I care to much about what he's thinking ... (125 words)

Confusion! In love with 2 men, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am inlove with two men. Me and Steekie had been together before for about 6 months then we broke up, because we weren't ready. We both went on and seeing other people, but we were still seeing eatchother as friends and during 4 years we became best friends, even though we ... (231 words)

When does a guy start to think about becoming exclusive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a month, we havent gone too far physically but I stayed at his house one night. Today I said to him "What is this" and his response was I dont know, I havent really thought about it. That was the end of that conversation. What I want to know is ... (107 words)

He never talks to me. Yet I think my crush likes me. So why does he never talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4237 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So here is the thing, I think my crush likes me too because he skips all his lessons last week when i have free lessons just to watch me. He tries to get close to me and i think he even told his mates that he likes me because i feel like everyone is talking about this at schoo... (97 words)

How do I get guys to talk to me and the guy not to be intimidated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi about a year ago through a common friend I met this guy,the three of us went for lunch..we had a good time,I enjoyed talking to this guy let's call him A and my friend Z So I really thought A would take my number from Z to get in touch with me but he didn't,so I didn't meet... (329 words)

Stuck in the middle, I'm feeling trapped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, long story cut very short.. Basically I've been seeing this guy for just over 2years I havnt been in a proper relationship with him because he has a wife and he lives with her and all that malarkey! So I've basically just put up with being his bit on the side!! About a ... (426 words)

I scared her with my anger and now she won't take me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunties / Uncles, Where do I begin? I've been seeing this AMAZING LADY for about 4 months. I won't lie. We totally fell for one another and I know I am in love with her! I have never ever felt like this before! Anyway, a few weeks ago her ex got back in tou... (362 words)

I'm developing feelings for him but I worry he's holding something back. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a new relationship after being divorced 2 years. I really like this new man in my life.... been dating about 3 weeks. we have alot in common and love spending time together. I think hes holding somethings back from me and i dont know what to do. he did tell me a few ... (179 words)

Why does he stop replying for days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (?) age 30-35 - This guy that I like often text quite a lot, back and forth as the conversation is really substantial and funny. He flirts with me and tells me I'm his favourite person to talk to etc etc...however half way through a conversation on facebook or over text, he just stops ... (152 words)

Should I tell this girl friend what her ex boyfriend has already done? And that he's getting marriage, but not to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - SOOOOO my boyfriends(C) brother(D) WAS my friends(B - female) boyfriend. they broke up like 2-3 months ago. 2 weeks ago I found out that D was with another female and she moved into the HIS MOMS house with D and his siblings, mom and dad. They are supposedly getting married ... (89 words)

I am torn. My Bf is in jail and may move away to be closer to his child when he gets out. What should I do? I want to be respectful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and My bf is 23 we have been together for 1 year and some months. He has a daughter but he is not with her mother. I have never had this happen to me before so i don't know what to do or think. Of course I am going to wait for him. I am young but i know what I wa... (256 words)

Can these online friends ever forgive me for making out I was someone else? I had good intentions but got out of my depth.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4233 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - well how do i start this. well im a girl and in this one chat room thing my friend(dont know her in real life) i had pretended i'm a boy and her friends and her think im a boy.(i decided to play a male role just because i wanted to see how it was to be a man in a chat) well ... (1357 words)

I have a boyfriend but I love this other guy. What can I do to make this right? I am so worried for the other guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4239 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Wow Im surprised myself how much i love this guy(2 years older). We were friends for 4 years until yesterday when he told me(via the internet) that he had feelings for me and that he cant hide them anymore. I already have a boyfriend and he knows that but still he told me.... (110 words)

Amazing girl, she makes me happy,but I'm not confident I can get her. Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

16 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - There is this girl who I spent 2 1/2 months with this summer. We both worked at a summer camp and really hit it off. I kept getting the feeling that she really liked me and I definitely liked her. She would laugh at my jokes and we would tease each other throughout the d... (182 words)

Three years together, but it's going downhill. Should I end this relationship? or give it another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4238 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.i really do need some advice on what to do!!! ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years now and things have gone down hill quite badly... we have had 3 breaks in the relationship and always got back together within weeks as we can't bare to be apart when we are sing... (225 words)

Everything's been going good so far... should I continue waiting to see where this is going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i attend college and i started talking to this guy as a friend. that's all i expected from it, but now.. it's grown into more. When he gave me his phone number, he also gave me his email address, and we've added each other on facebook. he told me that i could ask him/talk... (961 words)

I feel so cursed to not be with one person I love the most in this world.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

16 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am divorced and now in love with my best friend. He says he likes me a lot too but not in the way I want. I know I have to move on. But why do I feel that I was never given a chance by God to be with one person I love the most in this world. I can be myself w... (194 words)