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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I tell him that I'm still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm dating a guy that I really like for 2 months , he's kind , nice and respect me , he never forced anything and never asked or said straight that he wants to sleep with me ... He is 26 and I am 27 , he used to be married , I'm still virgin for some reasons but not ... (289 words)

I'm not the bad one here am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, please help me! I'm in a relationship I can't get out of and depressing me so much I don't want this relationship anymore. Ill start from the beginning, me and my bf have been together nearly a year, weve known eachother from being little. He moved to my school last year ... (1078 words)

Why doesn't my ex-boyfriend leave me alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 September 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Well, I have a problem in my life that's actually driving me crazy. I'm a gay man and I had a boyfriend. We were together for 5 years. I really loved him, but in the last year our relationships somehow became very tense, we were arguing often. Because of that and some other ... (289 words)

My boyfriend asked me if he could be friends with his ex girlfriend who he was deeply in love with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We are engaged to be married and have been seeing each other for 3 years. His last ex-girlfriend dumped him badly. He was deeply in love with her. When we got together after their break-up which was only two months later, he called me her name all the time and even on... (338 words)

I have very very strong feelings for a guy at work, but he's my manager.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have very very strong feelings for a guy at work. But he's my manager. For the past 3 years I have been crazy about him. I have tried my best to hide it. After all, it's not fair for someone to feel that kind of pressure. After the first year of working at X I went away on ... (418 words)

Is he taking me for a fool or am I being needy and pathetic?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm very confused by my boyfriends behavior recently. We've only been officially together for just over a month but I met him 3 months ago which I know is still no time at all but I've fallen hard and I thought it was mutual. Firstly I haven't seen him now for 2 weeks... (291 words)

Best friend's new boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 40, and have a best friend 32, who has just got a new boyfriend who is 20. This is quite a long story so bear with me. The relationship between me and my best friend is purely platonic, but a slight complication is that he has limited money so often I pay/lend for things. ... (317 words)

Things have gone downhill with my boyfriend since I had a termination...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 years now, our relationship is the best thing in my life. About 3 months ago I got pregnant but I wasn't ready to have a child cuz I'm working and so is my boyfriend and I just wasn't ready to settle down yet(yess we did use ... (187 words)

I'm having a hard time letting go... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I went on and off for 8 months. We moved extremly fast, moved in 2 weeks of our relationship., the first time we split he said he wasn't ready to be in a commited relationship, and the pain felt unbearable. 2 weeks after I was just at the point where I was getting ... (171 words)

Confused schoolgirl... what do I do about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a boy a year ago on Facebook. We were only Friends when last week he asked me to meet him. I was really excited to meet him for the first time, he is 21 and am 16. he is very friendly and i started liking him a lot but when we met yesterday, his friend saw us and said 'wh... (145 words)

Do these kind of men ever change???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - for about 6 months now, this married man and i have been fooled around. i have developed a lot of feeling for him. he lives away from me, so i only get to see him once or twice a month. recently ive learned that there are several other women hes been entertaining... do these ... (66 words)

My boyfriend of four years is becoming more racist by the day and its driving me mental.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of four years is becoming more racist by the day and its driving me mental. When I first met him he had virtually no interest in religion and if I had known then how much he would change I would never have gone out with him. Now we have a three year old daughter... (239 words)

Does he still like me??? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I still like this guy that i used to date, even though i have a boyfriend. Things havent been going that well with me and my boyfriend lately. When the guy i used to date found out that i had another boyfriend, he called me and asked if i was in love with him. Once, when i was ... (720 words)

I think I've found the one. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

- I think i have finally found my soulmate. I do a class at my gym, been doing it for about a year now. Our instructor arranged a fitness holiday in july to Turkey. On the holiday i got really friendly with girl from our class and we really hit it off. On the last day we share... (244 words)

I can't take this distance for three more years, but I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and have recently entered a long distance relationship (1 week). We met 3 months ago and fell in love with each other rather quickly. I actually didn't want to fall in love, or start a relationship with her because I knew she had two more years of college in Scotland. ... (227 words)

A girl I had sex with is pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Girl i know is pregnant? well there is this girl that i slept with on aug 27, i(A) did not ejactulate in her at all, she told me that she slept with another guy (B) in the same week which was on august 29 and 30, comes to find out on that she is pregnant on sept 21, she said... (122 words)

Sick of being seen as one of the guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Once again I have fallen into the 'you're like one of the guys' category with another guy. I love having guy friends, most of my friends are guys because I don't get along with girls my age. I get along with older women really well, but most girls my age or younger, I have a ... (566 words)

Why does she lie about her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age - My girlfriend, now my wife, had only two sexual partners before we met. I’m several years, 17 in fact, older than her and we now have a young son. She told me about her previous boyfriends without me asking. The first one, a very bad experience for her in the end, lasted for a ... (256 words)

I'm not sure what this relationship is, and I don't know how to handle his insecurity.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age - Ok, I met this guy back in July and the attraction was so strong we had sex the first night and I don't usually do this. Anyway didn't hear from him for a least a month. Now we been seeing each other a weekly basis.The sex is outstanding!! He says he really likes me but he ... (201 words)

Is he just putting on a show, or is he really moving on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. He loves me a lot. The breakup is due to religion differences. After the breakup, he was upset for a while. After that it seems that his life is back to normal. He posted pictures of him going out with his friends on face book, ... (108 words)

His actions are confusing, is he over me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4220 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago due to differences in religion. I ignored him for very long after that as I was angry he gave me up because of religion. However, recently we started talking as we are colleagues and we became close friends again. His friends know we ... (307 words)

After I posed nude for her, how can I be comfortable around my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok this is really embarrassing, but a female friend of mine is this really awesome sketch artist. It's a little hobby of hers, but she's studying to be an interior designer. After sketching my face a couple of times, she asked me if she could draw me nude. At first i told her... (292 words)

I recently met two great guys and can't decide. Should I just date both of them at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4220 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't think i'm doing anything wrong, not yet anyways. I need to make a decision, which I think deep down I know I've already made but it's the wrong one. So i'm hoping someone can help out. I've never been a girl to care for dating more than one guy, i actually despise... (388 words)

I'm afraid he isn't as serious as I thought he was about us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've just become exclusive with a guy I've been seeing on and off for the last 12 months. He's told me he loves me and I'm the only one it just took him a while to realize it. I was at a friends tonight who was on her dating site and I saw his profile come up and said recently... (98 words)

I'm a Scorpio, she's a Taurus. I want her ans she isn't at all interested, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - for those who don't believe in astology don't even come a-knockin'... it seems there is nothing i can do to get her interest. she's a taurus, april 27, and i'm a scorpio guy, october 29, and whenever i've tried to get her to chat with me, she seemed annoyed. everything in her b... (263 words)

How can I help my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. My boyfriend goes through periods of depression. I've experienced similar things in the past so to some extent I understand how it is. Sometimes I find it difficult to know what to do when he goes through these stages. Often we'll talk things out, but I kno... (182 words)

What can I do to remember important things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am nineteen. I always forget important things from my family, friends, college and I hurt some people by forgetting about something I said I would do for them or similar. I am not trying to forget things or ignore people; it just happens but then people get upset and I get ... (128 words)

The wedding is planned, I have even ordered my dress but I'm becoming more and more insecure in my relationship because of my boyfriend's actions

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I am 30 and engaged. We are supposed to be getting married mid next year. My fiancée and I have been together for nine years. However for the past year I have been feeling less and less secure in the relationship. I have noticed that he ... (568 words)

Should I call her? And how can I approach this in a classy way so I don't make her think this is a booty call?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This might seem a little sad/juvenile, but there's this girl that I've had on my mind A LOT lately. We dated for about two-months right at the start of the year, although we were hardly "serious" together. We mostly hung out, watched movies and fooled around. So I gue... (288 words)

From his message, does it seem like he is interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a bit confused here. First of all pardon me if this is going to be long, but I actually need another mind to think with me and tell me if I'm reading too much into this or not. I am a 33 yo divorced woman with a kid, and I have this male close friend for 5 years now. I c... (515 words)

Awkward situation: My best friend likes me but I don't feel the same, and I want to ask a different girl out who likes someone else! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - "Dear Cupid," I am 15 and I have an awkwad stiuation. One of my freinds likes me, and I don't like her back. She told me she likes me, but she is too good of a freind of mine for me to go out with her. What she doesn't understand is that I'm not attracted to her, I mean, I ... (237 words)

Girls love talking to me, but when they see me it all changes! Will it be like this for the rest of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so down its unbelievable. Im a really positive person, even if i have major problems going on I can ignore them and still smile and be positive. But i cant avoid the truth though, i dont seem to ever feel like anyone is attracted to me. Im independent, drive a car boys... (279 words)

Struggling to forget the threesome she had in the past....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we are still and I hope will always be together. I actually am wanting to marry her some day. In the beginning through general conversion we found out something about each other such as how many sexual partners we ... (339 words)

My boyfriend has stopped talking to me since I got a job, am I too independent for him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My friend and then boyfriend of many years doesn't talk to me anymore because I have a job now at first he would tell me I love you at the end of our conversations on the phone now he just doesn't answer the phone his mom lies and says honey he just left or he's not here .I ... (141 words)

I found out recently that my ex cheated on me far more than I realized. Should I talk to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was with this guy for 5 years; we didn't work out for certain reasons. And I've moved on, I'm dating someone else who I deeply care about. Recently i hung out with me and my ex's mutual friend and he confided in me that the entire time me and my ex were together all our ... (245 words)

Do guys just have trouble expressing their feelings?

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27 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing a guy I've known for a while for about the last 3 months, we decided to become exclusive about 4 weeks ago. Because of our work we only see each other probably twice a week. 2 weeks ago he asked if I could do him a favor and look after his dog at my place since ... (350 words)

We have to "like" everything posted in the company Facebook group or get our paycheck deducted. But I was deleted from the group!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted here last week. I'm quitting a part time job that requires a one month notice and I have about 2.5 weeks left at this job. We recently signed a notice that says we have to "like" all notices posted on the employee Facebook group or we will have our paycheck deducted. ... (134 words)

Am I wrong to feel jealous that he flirts with other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm now talking to this guy who is a couple months younger than me. We aren't dating but I get really jealous when he flirts with other girls and he says it's just his personality. It really ticks me off knowing that he knows I like him and I get jealous. He has also said he ... (119 words)

I like my friend, I don't like his uncle tagging along

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age - Ok, so I have a male neighbor, younger than me, that I have been spending a lot of time with since I moved up the street 6 months ago. Before I became a neighbor, we were casual friends, as he brings his grandmother into the beauty shop where I work. So far we are just really ... (600 words)

I'm 21 & I've never Had a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts. Im 21 and i never had a boyfriend! It's starting to get to me now. When i was in high school i didn't mind. I didn't even go to prom but i was fine with that, i still did other fun things. But now its like will i ever get 1? Nobody understand what i mean, they alw... (406 words)

She gave me her number but then didn't reply to my text. Why?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this girl at work. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. I sent her a text message today and never got a reply. What does that mean? How do i react to her at work, since she didn't reply my text message?... (56 words)

Did I make the right decision to leave my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a couple of days ago. We were living together for 2 of those years and frankly I was beginning to despise him. I'm not sure why I have so much anger towards him. He was really expressive with his love, always called to check in, stayed ... (399 words)

I'm seeing my crush after years what if my feelings return for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a bit of advice and second opinion in a situation that's come up in my life. First, a bit of back story. I am a gay woman in a serious relationship. I have been with my partner for two years. We have a flat together and are planning in getting engaged in the n... (604 words)

Silent 7 month relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my Gf been dating for 7 months and we use to talk all day in school and make out in shool. Thing is we never really communicated till the 2 month of us being together. Next semester of school now we in the 11th grade. She moved on the 2nd day of school. We try to make ... (179 words)

Are looks over rated? Did I throw away a good man because of his looks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've never really been in what you would call a proper relationship - i've been on dates but not too much else. I did however have a wonderful bestfriend several years ago, we were more than mere friends (never FWB) but i fought the progression of any sort of relationship ... (175 words)

Is the man I'm dating waiting in the wings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4220 days ago

27 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My bf and I have been in a relationship for about two months. He has two children with someone else and they are still friends which is fine but @ times I feel he's still very involved with her life. She has a total of 6 kids and has been married about 2 years. He work... (154 words)