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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My daughter is dating a man who could be her dad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age - My 34 year old daughter is getting a divorce from her husband that is 34 also. She is now dating a man that is 57 years old. Does anyone have any advice? He is almost as old as her dad... (43 words)

How can I improve my ballet skills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. This isn't a relationship question, but if you can provide, I'd love to receive some advice on the best ways to improve my ballet, leaps and turns mostly. I aspire to audition for the musical theatre program at my school and my friends that go there say tha... (211 words)

Is my husband and the father of my child Gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me :'( I've been with my husband since we were 14, we're now 18. When I was 15, I fell pregnant with our daughter, who turns 3 this December. We got married nearly a year ago. I love my husband so very much, but I'm absolutely heart breakingly petrified that ... (227 words)

Do you think something is up with this unusual lodger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i need some help and its not the usual stuff. i had to take on a lodger, i got contacted and put someone up and he moved in on the monday for 3 wks, the 1st day (mon) he gave me the rent, he went home on the fri came back on the sun and then didnt give me rent until the thurs, ... (222 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from this online girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Em 24 years old male.Two years ago i met a gal online who was going thru a very bad phase of hers and i helped her overcome it.We became very close as in talking everythng but we havnt met yet.Fortunately i am in the girls country for work.We have started talking over phone and ... (116 words)

What did the dream about my ex mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i know this isn't the best question for this site but i feel lke there is an answer some where. Anyways i dreamt that my my ex was crying and hugging me telling me he misses me and loves me and doesn't care if im dating someone else. Well i know most dreams don't mean much ... (84 words)

I'm confused about our current status

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known a guy for about two years. He recently got divorced, the marriage was a very hostile and difficult one. He was married for 4 years. We were seeing each other for about 5 months, when he became distance, saying he needs to get his divorce sorted. So a month ago ... (389 words)

I feel like he ought to have gone more out of his way for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I would like others point of view. My boyfriend lives about 90 mikes away and I see him most weekends. The other day I stayed over his and live about a 20 minute drive from his I currently don't have a car. It was really heavily raining and I didn't have a coat... (156 words)

Every time a budding relationship ends I get more depressed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4225 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I am really suffering in many ways. I was seeing a guy after a very bad break up which led myself and partner abroad only to realise that we were not compatible living together. It was heartbreaking. I went back to uk he stayed in Australia. I then met a lovely guy ... (277 words)

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I found him on dating websites

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, not going to be a long question but, i found out my boyfriend of nearly a year has been going on dating websites. He knows i know now and i told him im leaving him, but hes begging me not to saying he loves me and all that waffle, honestly im really hurt i dont know how to ... (225 words)

My friend keeps devouring my food...help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My friend Bridget drives me absolutely crazy with her eating habits because she is almost ALWAYS sponging off my food. It doesn’t matter if she just had a meal as long as food is around she always wants a bite or a sip or a few of whatever I’m eating. I don’t consider myself ... (600 words)

What's the best way to tell him you like him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okayy, peeps--this question is gonna be short, sweet, and to the point. i'm mainly looking for male opinions here, but females...feel free to put your two cents in as well. ") what is the best way for a girl to tell a guy that she likes him? should she find a cute, sweet, cre... (96 words)

Is he being honest or is this his way of trying to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Over a month ago I met this guy in a bar. He seemed like a nice guy but I was not particularly physically attracted to him and I was only recently out of a six year relationship at the time and only looking for superficial relationship (so hot guys not interested in anything ... (565 words)

Should I contact the girl I'm jealous of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 6 years now. After all this time i am still incredibly in love with him and the feeling just doesn't seem to fade away at all. we have moved in together a few months ago, i used to wish for this for a long ... (676 words)

Messed up real bad! Need help and advice.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 September 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello! I am new to this but I am trying to get all the help that I can get at this point. Well here it goes. Four days ago my fiancee and I got into a little fight at a wedding and left there right away which turned into a bigger fight down the road. We both were intoxicated ... (480 words)

How to figure out men in their late 50's?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing someone in his late 50's and I have no idea what sort of mind games he is playing. Sometimes when I tell him I miss him, he would reply my text with a smile icon. Sometimes even though he read my "I miss you" text, he wouldn't reply me. Why is he doing this and ... (102 words)

Is it odd that I can only contact my BF via facebook?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it strange that the only way i can contact/speak to my boyfriend in the evenings is via facebook? We've been together for 4 years. I dont think he is cheating but i dont understand it. When he gets home from work, he puts his phone away and doesn't check it until the nex... (169 words)

I always think about my ex's in my relationships and I can never be satisfied with the present, and its stopping me from falling in love! What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I don't know what's wrong with me, but please help me out! When I start dating a new guy, I always think about my exes and I don't feel happy because I'm thinking of/comparing him to the previous guy. It's like I can never be satisfied with the PRESENT. It really frustrate me ... (299 words)

Does my boyfriend think I'm with him for his money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone,I'v been dating a guy for 3 years now and I love to death,he means the world to me but he is a well known businessman of the city and I'm happy for him,he is constantly busy and whenever he can't make it he would send me these really expensive stuff for eg ... (281 words)

We were getting close after she broke up with her boyfriend but now she's said she isnt sure if she can love anyone else. What is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So here am I in a new dilemma... The situation is like this, she isn't with her bf anymore because he betrayed her.. She had a 5yr relationship with him.. But now she ended up with him! Its been 5months we have been with each other.. (not in relationship) but we are very clos... (221 words)

My married lover has moved on to another girl and I am so hurt, what should I do now?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been cheated by my married Lover, he has moved on to a "new girl"(another victim).he has completely removed me from his life,We both are in the same office, spend 8 hrs together, sitting besides each other, but we dont speak at all. he cut all the contacts off from me. ... (266 words)

I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend's friend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I have developed strong feelings for a friend who I have known for some time, and he is a friend of my boyfriend for years. I met him the same day I met my boyfriend before we were dating. He was obviously interested at the time and is still obviously (only to me at ... (153 words)

Why do I still feel embarrassed about queefing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, while having intercourse, I queefed. I felt really embarrassed even though I know it's normal for that to happen. Yet my partner didn't seem to know and he actually asked if I farted. I explained to him it was a queef and he said he understood but why do I still feel ... (63 words)

Why does my ex still keep letters and pictures of me, when he was the one that broke up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well my ex and i were together for 7 months and i recently found out he still has a spot where he stores all of the letters and childhood pictures of me. i found out because his mom only knows im currently dating right now but why does he still have them he broke up with me? i ... (99 words)

How do I tell my family that I'm a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 17, going on 18, year old female... I come from a pretty tight knit family. I am currently living with my oldest sister in North Texas. Me and my sister both are from southern Texas. I've had a total of 2 boyfriends in my life, never really seemed to have much interest in ... (354 words)

I've got her number, but I'm not sure what to do next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I like this girl. I told her that I wanted to be her friend and asked for her phone number. She said Yes and gave me her number. Now that I have her number, I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if she likes me more than a friend or gave me her number because she only ... (139 words)

I cant handle all this drama anymore, is this normal behaviour for a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is interested in buying a second hand suit (not really a suit, but just for the story's sake we'll say it's a suit). I went to look at it with him. It seems nice. I have a seamstress whom I trust very much. I told my boyfriend that I would call my seamstress if ... (697 words)

Why did I mean nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't understand this and I feel so hurt. I know i don't deserve this but I just want to understand why. This guy I've known a long time, hes always been odd with me, sometimes abit negative but people said he was shy. He had gfs and then 2 and half years later we s... (257 words)

Asked out a guy but had no answer, and now my ex wants to get back together with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, so I asked out one guy. Lets call him Harry. Its been two weeks. I have no answer. But I still really like him. Then there's another guy. Lets call him Louis. Louis is my best friend's little brother. (Aimee is two years older than me, so Louis is older than me). ... (165 words)

Is it reasonable that I am wary of my Bf being curious about other girl's sexual preferences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4230 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year has recently been coming up with new ideas to spice it up in the bedroom. We've been both having fun with it and enjoying ourselves and our relationship to the fullest. Recently, his best friend has been having relationship problems and questioning... (171 words)

Why is he ignoring my requests to return my things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

26 September 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there. I had been dating a man for just over a year. We had spoken of getting married ETC. He suffers from depression therefore it was not uncommon for him to be distant sometimes. A few months ago he told me that he would like to leave things be, and as I love him I ... (161 words)