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She doesn't want sex anymore and says she has no desire. What can I do?

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Question - (15 September 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2012)
A male United States age , *ike.k writes:

me and my girl have been together for a year when we first started dating she wanted sex all the time now it's been a year and she don't want sex no more she is 48 years old she tells me she has no desire what can I do

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (15 September 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntBeen there; done that.....

IF you libidos don't match, THEN, it's over....

YOU can stay and torment yourself as long as you choose.... but, the long-and-short of it is that if she ain't interested... you're wasting your time.....

Good luck....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2012):

I am sorry that your girl told you she has no desire, don't take it personally but you must talk to her, let her know you miss being intimate with her, listen to what she has to say !! Being 48 years old woman might mean she is premenopausal, this means hormonal body changes. There is a possibility she is suffering from some dryness that causes pain during sex. If this is the case she needs to speak to her doctor. I hope this helps, Good Luck

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A female reader, AbigailBradbury United Kingdom +, writes (15 September 2012):

AbigailBradbury agony auntI think as you get older, sex becomes less important. It's not about being at it like rabbits anymore, I think love goes deeper then and it's more about settling down. It doesn't necessarily mean she loves you any less. If you really are concerned and can't let it lie, I suggest you talk to her about it xx

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