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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

A hook up from 3 years ago suddenly wants to see me. He just broke up with his girlfriend. Am I rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About three years ago (summer 2009), I hooked up with this guy who I thought could be more than just a friend (and it was a mutual feeling). We tried to make things work between us (sexy/ flirtatious texts), and logistically it never did/could ever work out (different schools, ... (231 words)

My ex has turned her back on everyone, what's up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So my girlfriend suddenly broke up with me 4 weeks ago. The weekend before we had been on a nice weekend trip, everything was fine. She had moved here from another state with her best friend (another girl) and we almost instantly started dating. When she broke up with me she ... (258 words)

Am I wrong to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This one might be a little long, so I apologize in advance. October 3rd 2011, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 happy months. It might seem like a short time we were together, but we spent every day of it together so it certainly felt longer than it actually was. Before I me... (1268 words)

Is it a turn off/negative thing for a male to be a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Is there a limit on how long you should be a virgin? I'm a male, turning later this year. I've never had intercourse before! What worries me is if that will put off a potential partner down the road? I'm not sure if that's a negative thing for waiting too long? The ... (174 words)

Is my friend sleeping with my dad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - well last year my 2 friends stayed when my step mum and bro's went away and left me and my dad. my dad and her (my friend) have been flirting she will constantly have her boobs out in front (once in knickers and bra...looked like 4 attention) of him also flirting constantly and ... (403 words)

I like this guy but we are both shy!

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24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy, but he's really quiet and doesnt talk to anyone. I've heard that he hung out with this girl but shes not very pretty (or skinny, just saying) I also heard he asked my friend out on a date but shes not very pretty either. Im not saying im pretty cause th... (171 words)

Feelings or friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy, lets call him IMR. There is his best friend, i'll call him CMT, then there JRA, and then there is me. Ive known this guy since 8th grade, and I'm pretty sure i have liked him since then but i had also liked his bestfriend since then too . Well ... (588 words)

Why people say stop looking for love and let it find you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been looking love and I could not find it and people have told me to stop looking. And they say If I keep on looking for it I will never find it. So three years ago at the age of 24 I stopped looking and got on with enjoying my life and today at age 27 it has still not ... (131 words)

Has my girlfriend lost interest in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here's the shammy, well i'm not sure what to believe anymore but i'm feeling drained about the whole thing, and if i'm honest a little let down, Anyways my girlfriend has started ignoring me, and she never texts me back, or calls me, it has to be me calling her and ... (265 words)

How can I get him to stop contacting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About two years ago I was in an abusive relationship. It ended badly, he ended up cheating on me and having sex with another woman. Eventually I snapped out of it and understood that there wasn't anything more here for me and got out of it. He now lives in America far from... (232 words)

How do I go about dating my best friend's sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Help! I've been friends with a girl that I really like for a long time, but I want it to become a relationship. A big problem is, is that she is my (male) best friend's sister. What should I do, and how would I know if she likes me the same way?... (53 words)

I've lost the attraction. Do I keep trying or break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in what used to be a horrible relationship. To name just a few problems, my girlfriend used to spend hours insulting me and finding my flaws, she often unfavorably compared me to her exes, often threatened with a break up if I do something she doesn't like (including silly ... (284 words)

Can I dye my hair again? The color isn't dark enough

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this isn't a relationship question and I'm not sure if I will get a real answer on this site but I couldn't find an answer anywhere else online. I do ask questions on here all the time, no relationship problems right now though! It's about my hair. I recently got a haircut ... (368 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm bisexual, am I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend today told me he thinks im bi-sexual, infact he says he knows im bi-sexual....am i? I do fantasize about lesbian sex, i fantasize about being with another woman alot. We watch porn and the lesbian stuff really gets me going. I had a threesome years ago with a... (170 words)

My son misses his dad but his dad wants nothing to do with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, id just like some help regarding my son really. I wrote on here a while back about his dad being out of the picture for the last 2-3 years(my son is now 7). His dad lives just around the corner though has made it clear he has no interest in my son anymore. My son... (405 words)

He kept naked pictures of his ex in an old phone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together nearly two years now. Today I came home and was going through our old cell phones so I could clean up our desk. I came across one, that belonged to him, I was erasing contacts, pics, videos and whatnot.... Well I noticed he had an album ... (122 words)

Friends are fighting over the same guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, My friends both like the same guy. Friend #1 is actually dating this guy. Friend #2 is heartbroken. They both hate each other. Personally I don't see why this guy is so great but they like him. Friend #1 is stressed out constantly and is tired of competin... (177 words)

I want to show him I love him -- should I lose my virginity to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months.. i feel like i really love him . but i sometimes think about my ex. that hurt really bad but then again we had alot connection. but! i really want to show my bf how much i love him i dont know if i should lose my virginity ... (89 words)

Should I ask if we are exclusive? Will he run for the hills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I hope someone out there can give me some advice on a lil problem i have. Ok here it goes. I met a guy at Halloween 2011 at a house party. We hit it off by talking for a few hours and he asked for my number. I didnt expect him to contact me but he did, and has don... (603 words)

Should we have a MMF threesome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - mmf 3some inquiry my girl and i have been together for 4 yrs now, and i recently found out that she has a fantasy about having a mmf 3sum. we talked about it, and it seemed hot to me. i love her very much, but the idea of having her being with another guy seems hot. (i kn... (488 words)

Missed my chance with him, help me please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have this one problem that bothers me for months. Somewhere around the October or November last year , the boy I really liked tried (I think) to flirt with me. He asked me to tell him my phone number and tried talking to me , but I was to shy so I just ignored him. Then ... (192 words)

Why is it all about him with sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months.. I know its not very long, but we are already living together. He's such a great caring and affectionate guy in all areas except for when it comes to being intimate. In the beginning I had hopes that this would change ... (163 words)

I cheated on my husband, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my husband has been gone for two months in a program for people that violate there parole just the other night i slipped up and cheated on him he will be getting out tuesday iwant to tell him my question is what should i do... (47 words)

I'm struggling to move on after break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know that it could be worse, but I just came out of a four year relationship with a guy who I grew up with. It ended because while we tried to do the long distance thing for the last six months, he 'suddenly' felt like he couldn't take it anymore, like some things were worth ... (439 words)

He still dreams about his old love interest, what does this mean?

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24 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF of 2 yrs woke up in the middle of the night, told me he had a bad dream about old memories. When he came back to bed I asked if it had to do with his unrequited love interest from 4 yrs ago, he said "yes". Should I take this to mean he's still in love with her? He's ... (89 words)

My parents wont let me have a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - okay now my parents are strictly against relationships and the whole boy thing maybe because my sister started to date really early in the eyes of my parents but this boy asked me out and I kinda have a crush on him so plz help me !... (47 words)

I like another guy but I'm engaged, do I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for over 5 years but it has been a rocky one most of the way. The first two years were good, we moved in together, he was good with my son and our relationship just seemed easy. There was little fighting or conflict. We bought a house together a ... (470 words)

Should I stop talking to her or get her to understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Met this girl online a few months ago. should I stop talking to her for real or get her to understand? When we first started talking she was always interested in talking and kinda liked me for some reason Idk. When I would have problems things I was going through she would ... (1112 words)

He has depression, do I wait or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing this guy for the last two weeks and he confessed to me yesterday, that he has depression and is on anti-depressants, has attempted killing himself twice and is seeing a counsellor. This doesn't bother me, I still want to see him but he says he wants time to get ... (134 words)

My mom found out I'm sexually active

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom found out that I have sex with my bf My bf n I are twenty years old. She is so mad I don't understand why if I'm using protection n I'm not pregnant ... (37 words)

Helping a grieving friend, how far should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the background: I have a cousin living in another city, whom I got to know when I was posted there for a short stint. Though we haven't known each other for long, we got along very well from the beginning and I got to know his family as well. Unfortunately, his wife, to ... (407 words)

I'm rubbish with eye contact, I like him but how should I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am horrible at flirting with guys,I'm shy and I feel extremely self concious.For instance,I think there is this guy that likes me. He stares at me a lot, comes stand by my side out of the blue, and we joke around a lot. But what specially makes me nervous is the eye contact. ... (152 words)

Leaving school, should I tell my teacher I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i need help. i'm 18 and i've had a huge crush on my teacher for the last 5 years. it started when i moved into his class in year 2 and now i'm finnished school, excepted i have to go in one last time to hand in some books and that but the problom is i dont know what to ... (273 words)

Hes perfect but I don't know if he genuinly likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4352 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month and a half ago I met this gorgeous guy (the kind of gorgeous that only exists in movies) and he has an absolutely amazing personality. I couldn't believe he was single. The day we met the friction between us was so intense that by night time we were in each others ... (471 words)

My boyfriend has become even more controlling

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all,Please help. I;m worried. MY BF has been very controlling for the last 14 months. I do not live with him, and have started getting back to my normal self, eg: feeling ok and dressing better, and getting my life back. I am trying to detach. I really do love him, but now ... (192 words)

I've been corresponding with a well known porn star

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey all! I've been in touch with a rather well-known porn star as of late via email. She heard one of my latest mixes I posted on twitter, emailed my friend about how to get in touch with me, and she told me she really liked what I did so she offered to send me voiceovers fo... (224 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I MIGHT be pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now. We get along very well and things are great up until now. The problem is that my period is late and I think I might be pregnant. I know I shouldnt freak out until I know for sure but Im worried. Im only 18 and Im going away ... (128 words)

Should I stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! Lately I’ve been thru a hard time with my husband (we’re not officially married, but living together for 3 years), we’re both 32 yo, we have a son together of 2 years old. We’re from different countries and currently living in South-East Asia. I think our relat... (603 words)

Is my colleague playing hard to get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Why is she doing this to me? and is she playing hard to get or not? I am a guy aged 35 (currently married but on separation) who is interested in female working colleague. She is a 43 year old widow who has one a 17 year old son. We have been working together for 5 years now ... (754 words)

Torn between two boys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently there are 2 guys playing in my head. I don't know which one do I really like. They are both my friend. The first guy I've known him for like 4 years now and he is one of my close friends. He liked me for 4 years and still do. I didn't like him at first cause he i... (433 words)

Does my ex still care about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend some time ago, but I cant forget him since I loved him so much. We always had such a extraordinary connection, the kind that he even knew when something was wrong with me and we would know when we were both thinking of each other. That to me is sp... (340 words)

My girlfriend left me in a bad state

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4349 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted. in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific nightmares.docto... (190 words)

Does he like me, or is this a fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'm amber,,just want to as something that really confusing my mind,.i met this guy for just week now and I really like him and I know him also,so we had a lunch and spend that day for whole night..hes really so gentle man and always send me messages,but he fly back soon ... (101 words)

The pros and cons of getting a GED or repeating a grade?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone during my suppose to be 10th grade year i was taking 9th grade classes and i was considered a 9.5 or a 9th grader so im going to say i was repeating. i really missed up during this year and missed majority of the school year and got kicked out for not being ... (206 words)

What do I do about this man's sudden interest?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in the middle of a business venture, and I'm 16. While meeting with investors and some other people on a project, I met a man, married, who lives near me and wants to meet at some point. We talked briefly and he ended up driving me home. I wonder however, if he is ... (134 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend but I miss my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my boyfriend but I miss my ex. My ex and I dated for one year and broke up 15 months ago. I met my boyfriend 6 months ago and we have been dating for 4 months. My emotions are clear yet they confuse me. I'm in love with my boyfriend. I feel differently abou... (660 words)

Is this fair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this not a relationship question, but I just want to know if I'm being treated unfairly. So my dad passed away not too long ago and I had to live with somebody else now, she took custody of me. She applied for a benefit so I can' get stuff for my self. It's like $400 and ... (124 words)

Tell me what went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I need you to please tell me what happened here: Last year, I became really good friends with a boy in my choir. We spent one whole night together for a feild trip and, suddenly, we became really close. He had such a fun, cute, personality and didn't care so much what people... (538 words)

I am in love with my next door neighbor!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with my next door neighbor. It was love at first sight from the first time I saw him. I have been going crazy because I haven't been able to see him for the past 2 weeks. He has someone and I have someone and I want to stop thinking about him but it's like I can't ... (131 words)

Are my emotions boiling over because I have held in my emotions for so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I tend to hide my emotions. I only want people to see the happy excited hyper energetic side of me. I hide my emotions becuase it seem like when I'm happy I make others happy. I hate to let people down so I try to be happy for the sake of ther people as much a possible. The ot... (160 words)

I've started to form a sassy attitude since dating this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. So I'm always trying to make people happy, To make people smile. To make a difference in anyones life. I focus so much on others that I sometimes forget what I want. I realized I wanted to start hanging out with my old highschool friend again. We recently decided... (140 words)

Is this love worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4207 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - sooo i dont know what to do... so im 20 and ive been in a relationship for 3 years with a chick i dated my highschool days, I guess you could say highschool sweetheart, we've had a pretty rough past. shes cheated on me a few times, no physical cheating but talking sexually... (168 words)

Is it bad that a boyfriend asks her girlfriend to cook?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I have a girlfriend of 2 years and 5 months and you see, she has a friend who has a boyfriend. Well I use to have a crush on her and now that I see her with him...it gets me jealous. I mean she let's me be 'Me' compared to my girlfriend. I can say jokes that ... (250 words)

I cant imagine life without my girlfriend yet I'm unable to forget my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we are very much in love however, for the past 2 years I have found myself feeling slightly depressed over my previous relationship. I still love my ex, I think about her constantly and if I ever pass her in the street ... (132 words)

This guy is trying to destroy my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello people I have a really big problem that has been stressing me out lately. My girlfriend has recently gotten a job but all of her friends are guys and I am ok with that but the real problem is that every single one of them tries to have her even though the know she is ... (291 words)

My married man said I cant have no one else but him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with a married man for going on 8 months now and it seems that we go well together, meaning the relationship between us just keeps going, we dont seem to have any problems, yeah sometimes i get mad at him when i cant be with him but he seems to always make it up to ... (229 words)

We didn't have sex but were messing around and now I feel disgusted

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend have been daiting for about 6 months we havent had sex yet but we started having oral sex he would only do it to me but today things went a lil farther i gave hima hand job and he put me in different positions but i felt alot of pain. we dint have sex but ... (124 words)

Am I jealous or insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

24 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I jealous or insecure. I was visiting my bf. As I was busy preparing breakfast, my sixth senses told me to look outside of the window as I was watching I saw my bf passing something to this woman. When he came inside the house I asked him what was it and he told me that the ... (111 words)