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My mom found out I'm sexually active

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Question - (24 May 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My mom found out that I have sex with my bf

My bf n I are twenty years old. She is so mad I don't understand why if I'm using protection n I'm not pregnant

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012):

And why is it any of her business?

You are an adult. You don't need her permission to sleep with anyone and nor is it her right to have that information unless you choose to let her in on it.

If she has strict rules about sex in her house and you live there... fair enough, she has the right to ask you to take it elsewhere.

But you are not a child. Tell her to get over it.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, dmartin89 United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2012):

dmartin89 agony auntAre you having sex in her house? If yes then she may be angry that you are doing it without asking her permission..

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (24 May 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHave you talked to her about it? Asked her why it's so upsetting for her?

If you are being responsible and you are not being raised in a strict religious home, then I have no clue why she is so upset...

You may have to ask her.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (24 May 2012):

There is a little more to responsible sex than simply "using protection".

And like "chigirl" said - If you're living in your parents' house, you really need to observe your parents' rules.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (24 May 2012):

CindyCares agony aunt Maybe it's because of her religion . Maybe she hates your bf for some reason ( or, without any reason at all ). We really cannot know, only guess. Did you ask her ? " Mom, I am 20, and I have protected sex. Why are you so mad ? "

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (24 May 2012):

chigirl agony auntDo you still live at home? Maybe it's time to move out then. Is she religious? If so then she is angry with you because you and your boyfriend are having sex before marriage.

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A male reader, 00greena United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2012):

00greena agony auntHey,

Parents get shocked at stuff like that. Unless shes hurt she had to find out about it and you didnt tell her.

Andy

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