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*r.issues21
writes:Ok so here's the shammy, well i'm not sure what to believe anymore but i'm feeling drained about the whole thing, and if i'm honest a little let down,Anyways my girlfriend has started ignoring me, and she never texts me back, or calls me, it has to be me calling her and even then she rarely answers her phone and she isn't the type of busy person either. but i'm just a little concerned really, plus alcohol doesn't make things easier between us either because when she drinks she loses herself and changes, rambles on about nonsense and does stupid stuff i never even believed she would do,such as the other night when she stole a bottle of wine from a convenience store, i was shocked, i told her it was a bad idea but she wouldn't listen, anyways she was stumbling around the house drunk, not making any sense eventually her brother called round so he helped get her to sleep it off, i called her today but barely no response, i'm not sure what to do anymore... Some of my relatives think she could be just messing me around, but i'm not too sure, what do you think i should do? any advice would be appreciated, thanks xAlso other signs in her, is she doesnt hold much of a conversation, she never approaches me for a kiss or cuddle it always has to be me making the moves...don't know if it's a contributing factor to my current situation or not though.
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reader, Mr.issues21 +, writes (28 May 2012):
Mr.issues21 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey well this question is kind of irrelevant now, since we split up the other day i know now she doesnt love me like i did her, i said to her does she really want to be in a relationship with me, or does she want to be friends, i said i wouldnt be upset whatever the answer and she just text back saying, well in that case no.... i havent heard from her since. she was a nice girl and i wanted to help her but hey, i guess not all relationships are meant to be eh? thanks for the help anyways x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): Not sure if you've done it yet, but maybe you should ask her what's going on. Maybe she's keeping stuff inside, that is bothering her and not able to tell anybody. Ask her, be patient and see what she says.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 May 2012):
 Were you present with her when she stole the wine? I couldn't have let a person steal and walk out. Even if I was on the phone I would tell that person we would break up if he continued what he was doing. Your girlfriend lost interest in life. Before you worry about your place in the relationship, her life is messed up right now and this is what you should worry about. She is not in the right mind for a romantic relationship. Wow if this is what people do when they lose interest the world is pretty sad.
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