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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm in love with them both!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been with my boyfriend for a long time now, and even before we started dating i had known him for a while. We both are deeply inlove with eachother, i would take a bullet for him as he would do the same. i could not ever cheat on my boyfriend, i've had plenty of chances but ... (344 words)

Help with an awkward situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently I met someone and got to know each other working together, she's married and she said "Im always home monday through friday". I worked her at an event and she was very touchy feely, touched my arm, back and hands throughout the day. I went to her home to drop som... (116 words)

I'm torn between my child and this job opportunity!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, i am 19 and well i just got a great job opportunity, and i have a 1 year old son who i am afraid of being apart from. Im histeracly crying over not wanting to work when i know i should be happy. Most of my time will be spent at work and i will be coming home to a ... (119 words)

Uncomfortable Cervix! Any ideas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello lovely aunts and uncles. I have something rather unusual happening regarding my reproductive organs. The last week, my vagina has been feeling more sensitive than usual when having sex, kind of like it's tighter in a squishier way but not in a muscular way. And m... (152 words)

Are there long term psychological effects of prostitution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I know a girl who has been a prostitute. I met her at a pub about 7 months ago. We started going out a bit. THen she told me. She was one for many years. She says she is out of the life now. I believe in the past is the past. But my mates tell to watch out. "Once a ho,... (114 words)

Have you ever wished your girl would ask you certain questions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I am currently dating a middle-aged man (he is 55 and I'm 34) and I would like to know how to make our conversations interesting, especially to him. For men who are in the same age bracket as him, what topics would you be interested to discuss? And have you ever ... (75 words)

I'm nervous about how my ex will react to my posting my new dating status!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys since i started uni, i started becoming very close to a guy in my course and my boyfriend was currently in new zealand for work, but i ended it with him as he wasnt the best of boyfriends we had gone through alot and played me a few times, but jack the guy on my co... (189 words)

Does love always hurt this bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - I have never had a crush before, but recently I've been thinking lot's about this guy I know. It really hurts whenever he talks to other girls. Does love always hurt this bad?... (34 words)

I believe in body language, but can't decipher his!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a big believer in body language reveals peoples true feelings. thing is i have been seeing this guy for a good few months now and he is confusing me. his body language can be distant at times then affectionate. for example when we are in bed he will brush the hair from my ... (164 words)

Is this normal, that I'm missing my parents so much? They're just on a 2 week trip!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm really bummed out and i feel ridiculously lonely. My parents have been planning a 2 week trip to Italy for the longest time and they've been so excited to go. Well they finally left this morning and the day is dragging on and on and its only been 2 hours. So... (233 words)

No sex drive since the baby arrived -- should I tell him to get his needs met elsewhere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I had a little baby girl about 9 months ago. And since then Ive had about zero sex drive. I get horny occasionally but im just not in the mood. This has put a serious strain on my relationship with my fiance. I know he has liked our mutual friend for a very long time, I ... (83 words)

Slept with someone too soon, can't trust him. What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I really messed up. After being single a year I've been seeing someone I met online. From the start he said he wanted a relationship. Actions speak louder than words though. He said we would go out and do fun things. Yet he just seems to want me to sleep over. He wanted to rush ... (134 words)

Things were going great with my MM until he separated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Have been having a relationship with my married boss for the past 4 years. It's a long story how it came about, but short version is it wasn't planned. We just got along well and he persued me first then we slept together and it went on from there. He is the first and only ... (198 words)

Is there any way to rekindle his feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys am in desperate need of advice and help. But i dont know if it can even be helped. My bf and i have been together for 3plus years and have children together. We have been through numberous bumps in the road but have resolved nearly all of it. For the first time in my ... (215 words)

Was he being over the top when he talked about my beauty? And will he still think I'm beautiful when we meet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Maybe i'm being stupid, i met this guy and he said i was the most beautiful girl he'd ever seen, he couldn't stop looking at me because he said it was hard to believe how gorgeous I was. He kept forgetting what he was talking about, or even what I was because of that reason he ... (300 words)

Is it bad if the person you're dating is the type of person who breaks the no-contact rule after a break up with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I know that past dating behavior in a person is important to look at, and if there are extreme behaviors, that sometimes you might just want to walk away (like abuse or lying or cheating). But if a person is the type to break the no-contact rule after a break up, do you think ... (377 words)

Confused about what to do, go to London and see the band or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was supposed to be going to London this weekend to go to a fan party of a band i like and go to a concert, but i'm not sure whether i should still go or not. My mum was supposed to be going with me at first, but now she can't go because of financial problems, and my boyfriend ... (478 words)

My parents want to marry me off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiiii dear cupid..i m fed up from my family behaviour..they always use to talk about marriage..i m only 18 yrs old..i want to study but my parents want me to marry a guy of there own choice..day nd night they use to talk about marriage...they deal with me like a puppet..my ... (72 words)

How can I wax myself at home? I don't want to go to a professional?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Hi everyone.i want to wax my private area at home.it has become darken due to hair removal cream.i have also used raizer but it does not work for long.i have had one try but I can,t remove around vegina lips.plz don,t say to go to profesnal.. It is imposible. Just give me a... (75 words)

I found out boyfriend has a profile and is actively seeking others. How do I approach him with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I been together a year and one night at work I was looking for a chat room to talk to people when I stumbled on a dating site where u could look and see what kind of people are on there and I saw my boyfriend on there with a profile saying single looking for a ... (92 words)

I'm still in "ex jail" How do I get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been respecting my exes no contact rule by being invisible as I can. For years I have anxiety wherever I go and whoever I go out with. I'm so stressed my ex will see me and that she will think that I moved on. I want to be a man and serve the sentence she gave me so that ... (192 words)

Should I give him an ultimatum or wait for his divorce?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age - I am in my mid 50's. My partner and I have been dating for over two years. He lives an hour from me and has joint custody of his 17 yr old daughter. We both have our own businesses so are happy not to live together at this stage. His wife is an alcoholic and the marriage ... (315 words)

I don't want to leave my husband over sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am 21, married. my husband has got a small penis n does not like giving oral or even hand job.. i really feel bad for not having an enjoyable sex life.. the only thing he does is trying to penetrate n ejaculate.. i feel embarrassed to post this as a query, but... (71 words)

Can I repair this Damaged Friendship and this Loss? would flowers help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have had a female friend for few years, over the time we had gotten closer to each other We would go out for the day every Thursday and take her Daughter with us to the Aquarium, Zoo or even the park. I am totally in love with this girl, but she is not looking for a relati... (1137 words)

My family frown on intermingling with others. So how do I, a virgin, handle my sexual desire and wish to be married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dont know what to do. I dont have a boyfriend but a big crush on this somebody. Also i am a virgin and 19. I belong to a narrow minded family where intermingling is not considered good. My sexual desire is driving me crazy. I want to get married and dont know ho... (66 words)

I'm crazy about my cousin! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My question is just like many others.. The thing is that i have a cousin whom i know is not handsome but for me he is everything. I have had a crush on him for like 4 years and i dont know if he knows. He is the shy type without any girlfriend infact he doesnot easily intermix... (171 words)

How do I develop a relationship with one girl without hurting her friend who likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - For the ladies out there, I have a few things I would like for you to clear up for me, I appreciate it. I know this does not apply to every woman but i believe it does for a majority of them. #1: If you shower a girl with gifts, she will leave you #2: Girls do not want a... (255 words)

I don't trust my boyfreind. Am I being overly suspicious?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - dear all. Please help. I don.t trust my boyfreind,as he is not open,and is secretive. Pls read the following of what.s just happened this weekend,and tell me if i.m being overly suspicious. My boyfreinds freind who lives out of town called him last week while i was with him. ... (401 words)

LDR not working and I've met someone closer. Do I end things?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im 20 yrs old,,im in this dilemma,i have been dating my guy for the past one year but it doesnt seem to work due to the long distance,we rarely meet,like twice in a year,i met this guy in the city i live,i liked him and i decided to give it a try,iv been with him for ... (67 words)

I don't think my parents will accept us. How can I change their minds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiiiii dear cupid...i m 18 yrs old indian girl and i m in love with a 21 yrs old pakistani guy..he has a blood relation in india i mean his mother is an indian..he is so nice nd such a lovely guy..bt my problem is my parents will never accept our relation..he loves me more than ... (105 words)

Bf broke up with me and I think it's all my fault!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My bf of almost 3 years broke up with me yesterday. I feel it was mostly out of the blue. I'll give you some background info. We have been dating wife we were 18 and pretty much straight away starting see eachother everday. One night we would stay at mine the... (378 words)

Why does my boyfriend like me grabbing his ass?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so, I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and the idea of anal sex has come up quite a few times now. I (being the one who suggested it) have no problem with this and he's recently discovered how much a love it when he grabs my ass. However the other day he asked me ... (98 words)

Should I help my cousin Gina?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am now a mother of 2 boys and still with my fiance. We live in a 1 bedroom duplex and I moved back to California since February of 2011. I have a female cousin name Leila who stays with me as well. It has been a month she's been staying with me. Now, I have another cousin ... (423 words)

What are your thoughts on opposite sex room mates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My long distance boyfriend wants to move in with a female roommate his age (he's never met her, he found her on craigslist). I'm trying to be cool with it, but for some reason I'm kind of having trouble with it. On the one hand I do trust him, but on the other we're long ... (87 words)

I'm worried that X is telling T all sorts of lies about me. What should I do now?

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7 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid I have started to like this boy, let's call him T. But he is friends with another girl, call her X. I've never liked X ever. She is absolutely full of herself, and is horrible to anyone she doesn't like, anyway this isn't about her. My friend accidentally gav... (155 words)

I don't know what to do, I cant get a girl!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old male. I have come to the conclusion, that I am a disease. No matter where I look, I can't get a girl. What the hell, I am really starting to get sick of this. I have tried everything. I have been using online dating sites called myyearbook and okcupid, but no, ... (280 words)

I want my dad to come to my graduation but not his wife and kids

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So first thing, I haven't spoken to my father or that side of my family for almost 8 years now, after my dad kicked me out of his house when I was 14 (I lived with my mother after that - they were divorced). I'm graduating this Saturday from college and I decided to invit... (504 words)

Was I the first guy? Did I take my girlfriend's virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - OK me and my GF are very close and she swears she gave me her virginity now I know I was her 1st bf in history and 1st kiss.etc anyways I'm worried (cus I get that way cus I'm insecure) that maybe she's lying and the reason why is this the day she and me got nude I fingered her ... (218 words)

How do I fix it, I kissed another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I messed up pretty good last night and need some advice. I've been with my gf for 7 months. I love her with all my heart. When we're together there's no where else I would rather be or with. I went out last night with some buds and got absolutely hammered. Bunch of ppl ... (285 words)

Do women like rough skinned hands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys,I would like to be consulted about this thing. Recently, I'm into workout with the technique, bar pull-ups. My palms and fingers seems very roughen, coarser with some rash and blister, totally very rough. But I really like my palm like that and also I don't feel ... (99 words)

Are my suspicions right about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About 4/5 weeks my mum met, and subsequently got into a relationship with, this guy. I just get a really weird vibe from him, as if something isn't right and he isn't who he makes out to be. He's spoken openly about his past; apparently he was an alcohol/drug fue... (253 words)

My boyfriend is with me but looking for hook ups!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am stuck. I have been with this man for 19 months with him 6 nights a week. We do a lot together. I know his family, they love me. We say I love you but I thibk I am seeing a serial dated. I have his voice mail password an when he goes out he leaves his number with women ... (172 words)

Is hanging out with his friends so important, that my boyfriend cant even call me immediately when I'm crying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid i had problem with office collegues on friday. I felt so depressed hence felt like talking to my bf. When i called him and after hearing his office, i couldnt control myself, hence kind of cried and sobbed and told my problem. I was crying so much, i couldnt ta... (141 words)

Would it be okay to ask my boyfriend who's texting him so late at night, or is it none of my business?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - sometimes really late at night (2-4 am) I can hear my boyfriend's phone go off (text message sound on an iphone). this has only happened a few times, but it makes me feel uncomfortable. would it be okay for me to ask who is texting him so late, or is it none of my business?... (58 words)

I am not sure I can do this alone! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This sint about sex or anything, more about life... Im 17 and in high school, and nexy year im getting my CNA/CMA through my school, ive wanted to do it since december, im enrolled in the college and everything, the problem is, MY friend and I were supposed to do it together, ... (120 words)

12 years of marriage, him cheating and now that I want out he wants to change!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to this guy for 12 years and we have 2 kids. He's been a reasonable dad but a selfish husband with strangers noticing and wondering how I put up with him with me having most of the load to manage my full time career and work at home while he pitches in ... (286 words)

Will girls be repulsed by my body ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and i have never had a girlfriend, all of my other friends have had girlfriends and most of them have had sex. If i get a girlfriend i am kind of afraid of sex because i am slightly fat. I am 5"4 and i weigh 10.6 stone. My BMI is 25.5 which is just overweight. The fat ... (146 words)

Boyfriend said "he's the boss of me, not me the boss of him!"

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

7 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a boyfriend we have been together for 2 and a half years hes and have recently hit some problems and we broke up for about a month, but after some talking we got back together. But yesterday he got annoyed at me for something and I felt really bad for it so ... (99 words)

Should I ask out my coworker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4271 days ago

7 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm in a predicament. She's my office girl that does all my payroll stuff, and ever since she started working with us, she has always made a habit to bug me. And knowing that she is bugging me when she had a boyfriend at the time, I'd just give it back. We seem to hav... (258 words)