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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I thought everything was going okay but he got distant and today he broke up with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I know there are a million breakup questions already posted but I'm feeling so down in the dumps. My boyfriend and I of over 2 years broke up today. He's in the Marine corps and is stationed across the country. I thought things were going well, we've talked abo... (403 words)

I still love him very much but if he doesn't want me then why the messages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I split up over a month ago. It was a mutual breakup saying we were just not working out. We loved each other a lot and have made it clear that we still love each other and that we had something very special. We decided to try the whole friend thing and that ... (211 words)

Bi and I like a guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and in high school.There is a guy in my english class that I have a crush on. I had helpped him make corrections on a Geometry Test and he told me "Thanks man, I could kiss you on he mouth." And when he did I got chills up my spine. But I think he is straight but I want ... (86 words)

Do I have a chance to be back with him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for 2 years and some months. I broke it off in october because I didn't want to be with someone who did drugs and drank, although, he was a really good student and was becoming a border patrol to support both of us while I'm a junior in high school and he a ... (218 words)

I don't want to feel like a bad person for this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi everyone ok i'm 19 and still a virgin. i talk to a girl who likes me but i don't feel the same as her and i know that we will have sex down the road if she wanted to. i get very horny and want to have sex so i then masterbate and then i feel guilty and have second thou... (202 words)

I don't understand how anyone could hang out with him let alone sleep with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm still in love with my ex, I broke up with her twice, and I still want to be with her. I want to marry her and do everything with her and for her, we still talk and hang out and decide we both have feelings for one another. We also decided to be friends while I work out this ... (340 words)

I still really love him and would love us to get back together, but I can't stand this not knowing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex who I was with 6 months ago is now back on the scene we met up and had a drink and he give me the distinct impression he wanted to get back together. We split up due to him being a work aholic. He said he's realised what a waste of space he's been and that he never meant ... (201 words)

Is it up to me to keep his morals in check?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! I am predominantly lesbian, and slept with my first man last year at the age of 27. I didn't have any sort of romantic interest in him, it was just a lust thing. Anyway, he's okay, and we became sort of friends-with-benefits - hard, because we don't live in the same city... (285 words)

Turns out my FWB was married and lying to me! He doesn't know I know. What now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have just founf out my fwb is married with children and now I feel so guilty I have ended this with him but still see him every day as we live in the same place I know what fwbs all about but I had fallen in love with him and now I feel so used and hurt how do I ... (91 words)

I'm so sad, how can I understand his decision to break up with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4328 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. We've had some issues, but nothing out of the ordinary. It was a serious relationship, and we loved each other very deeply. We had talked often about getting married, where we would like to live etc. Just a few days ago he ... (443 words)

How can I get custody of my sister?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - okay so i know this is a love advice site but ive been given great advice in the past so here it goes... so my sister who is 15 had to move to my aunts last year because my dad was going to prison, well he's out now and shes being forced to come back. My dad is an alcoholic ... (219 words)

Am I wrong to have feelings for her? I've known her my whole life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help i have a sister well fostered sister shes a couple of years older and im attacted to her like really attracted. we have kissed and touched but never slept together before but sence then i just cant open up to her i mean i know she only related to me on paper and ... (76 words)

How do I make my girlfriend more ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am in love with my girlfriend and plan to spend the rest of my life with her. I am third year in college and she is in college as well. However, this is a long distance relationship. She is still a virgin and I am not. We say I love you every night and talk ... (789 words)

Problems and worries about dry sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with this guy for about 3 months. Quite recently, we started having dry sex, with clothes on and gradually, just in undergarments. However, I'm starting to feel insecure. I did my research on Dry Sex and many sources tells me that there's a ... (225 words)

Am I stupid for letting him use me just because I miss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i had a boyfriend for about 2 years, on and off. when we were 'going out with each other' we were friends with benefits. the last time we split up we both said some really hurtful things to each other and never spoke again, i still used to see him around the area i live him ... (296 words)

How can I marry my fiance when he constantly ogles other women?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age - How can I marry my fiance when he constantly ogles other women? he swears I am ALL he wants and needs...I do not feel that way because despite all his promises to stop this disrespectful act it continues... time after time!!!!... (43 words)

Should I be worried about this girl living with us? I have a trust issue!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I'm in a bit of a tough spot right now. You see, I live with my wonderful fiance, we love each other to pieces, and we live with another roommate who happens to be my good friend. Well, things are not working out with our roommate, and she shall be moving out this... (227 words)

How do I deal with my insecurity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all I realised lately when going out with my new gf (very attractive) I get silent and awkward when she speaks to a other guys. I am a quite guy and my friends told me that they can see me becoming different (facial expressions) in these situations. What can I do to get... (64 words)

My trust in women is totally shattered because of my ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Everybody, I was with my girlfriend/fiancée for 9 years, Our relationship had ups and downs like any relationship. But overall we had a good relationship. Anyway, about a year and a half ago she fell pregnant. She said she wasn't ready for this and had an aborti... (473 words)

What are his intentions towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Something has been bodering me this while,I met a guy few months ago,he is so nice and unique,so different and special.we actually met online and we got chating.He posted his picture online,I made a wonderful comment and it really turn his head off,he went to. My own pict... (221 words)

Teacher dating an ex pupil - is this possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I don't have a clue what to do. I'm in love with my ex-teacher. He is gorgeous (in my opinion, other girls didn't find him attractive) with lovely brown eyes, is kind and always makes me smile. He taught me in my first year of A-Levels, and it was his first teaching post, ... (306 words)

A bit of innocent cuddling? Or could this lead to something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, just a quick question. I've been friends with this guy for about a year and every now and then when we're round each other's house we'll spoon/cuddle/hold hands, but never take it any further, and always go back to acting completely normal the next day. He's only ... (133 words)

I don't want kids, so how do I learn to accept being alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - After two years of being single and trying the "don't look, someone will come into your life when you least expect it" - she didn't - I tried the online dating thing. Two dates in two years. Have now been single for 4 years and totally and utterly fed up with it. I am h... (564 words)

Questions you have always wanted the answers to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my best friend and I asked this question a few months ago for a book we're writing and there was loads of feedback. But we're asking it again in the hope that we'll get more great questions. If you could have any and all of your questions about your partner/preferre... (149 words)

Isn't it too early to have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I met this guy online. We hung out 3 times so far and we had such an amazing time. We text and chat it up all the time... The 3rd time we hung out, there was so much sexual tension between us so we ended up making out and touching each others bodies. He suggested we ... (139 words)

How do I convince my mother to let me cut my hair short?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have long waist length beautiful healthy hair. But the trouble is that i dont like them at all. I want to get them cut short because i like hair better that way. My mother apparantly doesnot understand me and she does not even let me do the trimming. I dont want to become ... (88 words)

Regretting the offer for her to move to California with me if this is her 'real' personality....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have somewhat of a long backstory to my question, and honestly feel extremely immature resorting here, but I would rather the anonymity of the internet than posing these questions to a friend. Anyway - to start, I grew up in Maryland. When I was 21, I moved to Califor... (754 words)

My boyfriend is too curious about my ex and it is affecting our relationship, what can I do to stop this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4362 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met when he joined my co-ed fraternity. I rarely talk about my private life to others, so naturally I did not mention that my ex is in my fraternity. A couple months ago, he found out and was extremely hurt. He said that although I didn't lie, I wasn't being ... (504 words)

My Indian family, my Pakistani ex gf who still lives at my place, my American girlfriend who's treated like an outsider and me...its a wreck!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 21 years old, turning 22 this year. My girlfriend is 20, and turning 21 this year. We've been together for 3 years, and I want to ask her to marry me within the next week or so. Here's the problem. I'm Indian, and she's American. My parents are very conservative, y... (848 words)

I know breaking up with him was the right thing to do, but how come I wish he would fight for me and prove me wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i had just ended my 1 year realtionship yesterday. it is something i have to do. i thought it is the right thing to do.. you see, we had been arguing for a long time.. i don't blame him 100%. both at fault. i hate the arguments and feeling sorrow everyday. we had ... (191 words)

Why would my dad's girlfriend tell people that she is my mom when she knows that I don't even like her? I'm so mad at her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just need some advice on how to approach something. Mothers day my family and my bosses parents came in to eat brunch(they were at different tables though) at the restaurant I work at. After dinner they ended up chatting and the conversation just led to my dads gf saying s... (148 words)

I feel like my boyfriend is using me to get to his ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my friend D have been together for about a month at this point now. We've been friends for 4 years now, and he used to be my bestfriend; but we drifted apart when he started dating a girl that he ended up being with for about 2 years. They were on and off for awhile, ... (295 words)

My girlfriend's sister is trying to stop us being together! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have a girlfriend with a mental illnes and a drug problem. she has left me 5 times over crap and every time her sisters convinced her to either take out a restraining order on me or order of protection or call the cops. Her sister didnt grow up with her and really wants ... (256 words)

I think my friend stole my money but she wants to be friends again, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Confused about my friend? I am so confused, my money went missing and I believe my friend stole my wallet which had over $1000 because she was the only 1 who knew i had it besides my family,she was the last person i was with and she was the only 1 who knew it was in my purse ,m... (309 words)

Which guy should I choose? The one who is on and off with his ex? Or Mr nice guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need advise for this relationship to come to conclusion.. I've met this guy for almost a year when he used to be with his ex, they were having problems during the time we met. We seemed "click" and we're happy when we're together. He went to dinner and it tu... (371 words)

Am I in the wrong here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there I need to know whether I am in the wrong here?? I was seeing a guy last november and it probably lasted a few months, until he was offered a job abroad (new zealand) on a contract for a year and a half. We had been friends before for a few years. He left and I was ... (613 words)

My boyfriend wants to have sex with a shemale.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I should worry or not. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10months. He is 20 almost 21 years old. And well... My boyfriend wants to have sex with a shemale. The other day I found out that he's on craigslist looking to have sex with a shemale. He's als... (173 words)

Could someone please tell me what the heck is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so this guy and i have been best friends for quite a few of years now. (about 4 or 5) And all of our other friends think that we would make a cute couple, and that we should date. Even my band director has started asking us if we're dating yet. Whenever the subject comes up ... (283 words)

Insecure and controlling Step Mother... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4364 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need honest advice about a family matter... My parent's separated over 10 years ago and since then my dad has been remarried. However (let's call her Suzie) is extremely insecure and threatened by my mother (even though my mother left HIM and she is happy with a great ... (451 words)

Need help! Really need to get the liar back for what he did.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically it's been a long night, my boyfriend well now ex has decided to tell me that he cheated on me, obviously it has really hurt, but I need a way to get him back. I know I shouldn't sink down to his level but I'm going to do it anyway, he has hurt me too much. We were ... (99 words)

How to make my ex's new girlfriend like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here's the thing my exs girlfriend is pregnant and i want to be friends with her,i am sure that by now she is awere of the fact that i dated her boyfriend but i find her to be an intersting person that i can share great times with, so how do i make her like me and avoid ... (61 words)

Me and my ex hung out and it was awesome, only he hasn't made contact since!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so after being broken up for about four months my ex contacted me and said he missed me and wanted to hang out we did and it was awesome, but he hasn't called my question is should i make contact or wait it out?... (45 words)

Is it worth commiting for a visa?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

15 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently traveled to a European country to be with my boyfriend of a year and a half. He is both a US citizen as well as a citizen here. He was able to get a research position that will take another 3 or 4 years to finish and asked me to join him. I did not give up too ... (209 words)