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I've been corresponding with a well known porn star

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Question - (24 May 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2012)
A male Saudi Arabia age 36-40, *rancedRhythmEar writes:

Hey all!

I've been in touch with a rather well-known porn star as of late via email. She heard one of my latest mixes I posted on twitter, emailed my friend about how to get in touch with me, and she told me she really liked what I did so she offered to send me voiceovers for my next mix which I put in for her.

I sent her the link and said thank you take care but she remains in touch and cannot figure out why. When we first started emailing, I told her I would be in the usa soon and be in atlanta (she lives in florida). Im not looking to get into any relationship with her or even have any online "fling" as I have not developed the confidence yet but she seems to remain in touch.

I've declined almost all of her questions about me but have sent her a few pics of myself and have made her laugh. Ive also not complimented her in anyway yet she compliments me rather nicely.

It's a nice refreshing change of pace to "meet" someone new like this but I dont see why she would remain in contact when she just offered to do the one thing for me.

Any ideas?

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (25 May 2012):

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TrancedRhythmEar agony auntThanks all for ur input. Well appreciated. Ill be careful n remain in touch. Shes taking the mix n dancing to it at an event in vegas with her ladies then sending me a link. Ill look forward.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (25 May 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntHere are the potential options:

She's trying to network and her staff are managing her communications.

She's not actually a porn star but is pretending to be and has been waiting for a guy like you and messages guys like you to enhance her chances of being with this type of guy.

She's a lonely porn star.

She isn't who she says she is. She's faking it.

She's massively in love with you and wants to have your babies.

She's gathering data and will be posting things somewhere else mocking you.

She's hoping to be famous and is hoping that you will make that happen.

Be cautious. All your posts and emails may be on some network hidden to the public. Check out 419 eater via google.

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A female reader, BettyBoup United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2012):

BettyBoup agony auntI'm not really sure what you want to know?? Why she remains in touch? Well obviously she ins interested in what you do, sounds like it some kind of music? So perhaps she is a bit of a fan.

You say you do not want a fling/relationship/whatever with her and you are curious why this well know porn star is continuing to contact you? I'd say you are flattered because of her porn star status. Well, I don't mean to be harsh..., but I wonder, why are you flattered..? She is just a woman. Don't place her on a pedestal because of her job. Why wouldn't this woman be interested in you? Is it not possible she could find you interesting because of what you do? Maybe she could fancy you, or maybe she is just interested in you for you work. Only she knows that. Do you want us to confirm that this incredible high status piece of a**, this pinacle of desirable female, is clearly lusting after you so that you can plump out your ploomage? Again, not trying to be harsh, just trying to get to the bottom of your purpose for this question.

Well, I can't guarantee she is lusting after you, and I don't really agree that a pron star, well known or not, is the pinacle of desirable female, but then, I'm not male, and I'm not you. If this lady's compliments and conversations make you feel good, just enjoy it! Go with it. You may or may not want/be able to have a fling/relationship with her. Anything is possible if you want it to be. If it makes you feel good to know a porn star might have the hots for you, good for you! Make the most of it. Tell all of your friends and plump out those feathers :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012):

Just be careful, everything could be fake and trying to lure you into a bad situation. Be very careful.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012):

I wish I could tell you that she is interested in you, but I can't....

You are amoung many she is saying nice things to and making you feel special...it's all leading to something...she does this to make money, she's not taking the time to email with you because she is truly interested. These kind of women are usually very damaged and have very little real emotional connection to people, if any at all.

If you are looking for romance and love, set your sights on a real person, in real life that you can get to know, see, touch, feel... not someone who has shown you pictures of herself that may or may not even be her (people set up fake sites of porn stars and various beautiful women all the time).

Good luck and sorry to burst your bubble...move on before you get in any deeper.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada + , writes (24 May 2012):

Ciar agony auntMy first idea is this question is a thinly disguised bragging session.

My second idea is that the woman, no doubt, has countless men hitting on her. You are one of the few she doesn't have to keep at bay which, for her, is a refreshing change.

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A male reader, 00greena United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2012):

00greena agony auntLucky guy. Go for it she obviously likes you. Girls are pretty easy to tell if they like you. Compliments are a big indicator of interest

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