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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend today told me he thinks im bi-sexual, infact he says he knows im bi-sexual....am i?I do fantasize about lesbian sex, i fantasize about being with another woman alot. We watch porn and the lesbian stuff really gets me going.I had a threesome years ago with another girl and a man and found i really liked it.The thing is ive never actually had feelings for another woman, ive never thought about having a relationship with a woman. Im very feminine and intouch sexually with my boyfriend. We have a great love life and i am posstively inlove with him.He says aslong as im loyal hes ok with it- basically says just because im bi doesnt mean i have to go out and have sex with a woman.He also says that is we split tommorow for instance, he strongly believes theres a good chance id find a girlfriend rather than a boyfriend.My question is...am i bi-sexual or bi-curious?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): Wow... previous Anon poster is plainly a cynic... likely just had his heart broken and just assumes every woman is a clone of some kind.
Maybe you are, maybe you aren't. Who cares. You both have an active sex life, you both love each other and you both like the same type of porn... frankly he'd be an idiot to screw that up... I mean how often is it you find a woman who likes porn as much as her partner?
Do whatever you two want to do, but stop short of cheating. No excuses for that, no matter who it's with, or what sex they fall into.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012): "My question is...am i bi-sexual or bi-curious?"Question: "Are you female?"If the answer to this is 'yes', then the answer to your own question is, by default, 'yes' on both accounts. Fact is, the overwhelming majority of women are primarily lesbian. Even if they appear outwardly heterosexual, i.e. live with husbands or boyfriends and have children, ask any of them to give an honest answer as to what gets them hot when they look at porn, and 100% will always end up mentioning women.It's a basic truth of life that women don't find men anywhere near as attractive as the opposite way round. Accept it, accept that you're normal. Yes women do want us, but it's for babies and financial stability. Any bloke who deludes himself into thinking otherwise needs a massive reality check.
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (24 May 2012):
 You are what ever you want to be, it is not up to your boyfriend or anyone else to classify you.
You can explore what ever you wish and define yourself however you wish. If you think you are bisexual then you are if you think you are bi-curious then you are.
What ever you choose to be, you should explore everything you wish to explore.
All the best, Dataluke
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