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writes:I am horrible at flirting with guys,I'm shy and I feel extremely self concious.For instance,I think there is this guy that likes me. He stares at me a lot, comes stand by my side out of the blue, and we joke around a lot. But what specially makes me nervous is the eye contact. For example, when we're talking in a group of people he'll catch my eye and smile or wink at me! I immediatly look away because I feel really embarassed and self concious, even though I would really like to look back at him for a few more seconds. I'm a naturally smiling person, so I do manage to crack one most of the time. Other times I'll talk to him in a more or less normal way (probably red in the face, but I can't really help that) Any idea how I can improve the eye thingie?
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reader, curious1987  +, writes (26 May 2012):
 It sounds like he likes u too. the joking, coming to talk to u, going outta his way to talk to u :-). If u can't get his number of him or ur friends, maybe try asking him to lunch as friends. It will be one on one time answer nite as nerve racking as dinner. continue with the light arm touching or leg if sitting. when u want make eye contact wait till heblooks at u, and then look down or away and slowly look up again and smile at him. keep doing this a few times in the night. and if u thik he likes u, u can always let him know how u feel one say when yius are joking. when he tells a joke laugh and touch his arm longer then usual and smile at him while doing it. :-) good luck and let us know if it works out hun.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2012): I don't have his phone number and he's not much on FB (neither am I). I did touch his arm the other day :) what else can I do?
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reader, curious1987 +, writes (25 May 2012):
Do ypu have his phone number? Maybe you could send him a msg or fb him that like him? I get nervous around guys that i like too. im normaly flirty but if i really like someone i can't talk them or look at them . so if you win know if he likes you, flirt over fb or text that watch i do. Then it will get easier when you see him face to face. Also. you culd try just lightly touching his arm when you talk to him just for a sec. also a sign of flirting good luck. And let me know how it works out.Xx
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