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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He blames me for all of our relationship troubles

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well here goes it all started in march 2011 I met this truly wonderful guy well at least at that time I thought he was. we first slept together when I was 17 then by june of that year we split up I saw a dramatic change in him. he was very bad tempered and blamed me for the ... (175 words)

Would I gain more confidence having breast implants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice again with a problem that is really driving me mad. I'm a 32AA, I'm about 2cm away from being totally flat chested. I wear padded bras nearly every time I go out or my clothes look stupid and if I'm on a night out I'm completely ignored while all my fri... (251 words)

Do you just know when you have found the one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I think this is a question for people who have been in long term relationships that have lasted. How do you know when they are the one, or is their such a thing as the one or just someone special you having feelings for. i believe that their is a person out their... (100 words)

I feel sick every time I think of him!

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Love struck So there's this guy I like, and he knows I like him, in fact when I see him he touches me playfully but there's a problem: he has a girlfriend. I am completely aware that if he broke up with her to get with me then he could do the same to me, but it doesn't stop ... (128 words)

Do I take a risk and do what he is asking me to do? Or do I follow my head and my heart and not move in for a while longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd love some advice on how to approach the issue of 'progressing' in a relationship with my bf. He's nagging me to move in with him, and I don't want to yet. We've been together 20 months, and have been pretty happy the whole way through except for his sexting another ... (394 words)

I don't really believe him about the Facebook fiasco but I don't know why he would lie about it.

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, about a month ago, i asked for advice on here after i found out that my ex-boyfriend (with whom i am basically back together with now) was hiding things from me on facebook; the name of the question was, "should i not make a big deal out of what is on his f... (294 words)

Is my boyfriend controlling or just insecure?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend acts like my father... if we spend time apart, he will often ask a lot of questions. I think he worries about me more than he should, because he is insecure and because I am so much younger than him. If I go drinking without him, the ... (429 words)

I'm wondering if he will ever forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating this amazing guy for 5 months and about a month ago things started getting rough. He said work was super stressful and he didn't have any time anymore. I tried really hard to respect him and give him his space but it got to where he wouldn't even text me. ... (258 words)

I'm trying to understand if my foreign student likes me or not.

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I need advice, because I'm sort of confused at the moment. I'm a teacher, and I teach both English to non-English speakers and Russian to foreigners who come to visit our town. I have this student, a guy from Ireland who studies Russian, and I've been t... (547 words)

Has anyone else changed their mind about masturbation being dirty?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was a little younger (early/mid teens) I used to think masturbation was really dirty for girls and I swore never to do it. Now I'm 18 and my views have changed quite a bit. I don't think it's dirty anymore but I only do it rarely and I was wondering if anyone else use... (71 words)

I don't know what to say the second time I see her! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - whenever i find the girl i love i start well with introduction and talk ok,but problem is when i have to meet her again i dont have words 2say because i'm not sure what am i have to say,so i just blow up things in that way,what is it that i have to do that can make me have the ... (63 words)

B/f has asked me to leave him alone because he has thinking to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 6 months has asked me to leave him alone as he has some thinking to do? I'm not really sure what is going on with him at all. He has gone quite funny since we had a bust up a few weeks ago and I am wondering if he is trying to break up with me or trying o... (134 words)

I already have a partner but have a friend who wants a friends with benefits relationship with me

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. i need some help. I am a mother of two, in a great relationship with a guy i adore. we have been together 8 years, and the kids are from a previous relationship. so heres where my problem begins, we have a mutual friend and recently he has been there for me th... (232 words)

Husband's naught pictures upset me

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29 May 2012 (F)

age - Hello Everyone: I just got married, my age is over 50, I've been married 4 times twice to the first one. I love my husband very much. I will have to say this up front, no man is going to be perfect, "ever" BUT, I have been with him for quite a few years. The one thing th... (391 words)

Have I got a problem with commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a terrible relationship which ended years ago. It was traumatic but I thought I had moved on. Since then I've dated lots of people. I've always said "yes" to any date just to spread my net wide and make sure I don't turn into a recluse but none of them have been r... (313 words)

Should I be Jelous of my Girlfriends clients ?

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29 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girlfriend of 1yr is a cute and attractive Asian woman and is in a field of work that is 95% Male dominated. She is in business for her self and meets male clients/business owners on a regular bases. Most of the time she meets during day time hours but occasion... (316 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to be insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't usually ask advice to people I don't know, but this is the exception because I really need help on this. It's gonna be long and I'm writing this from my iPod so ya...okay so the thing is, I've been going out with this guy for two months, and since I barely moved here to ... (1685 words)

I'm tired of choosing the wrong men!

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29 May 2012 (F)

age - meet this man on a dateing site we hit it off good had 3 date ,then he im me to say his sons did not want him to date an so he ended it . but i ask him at first was he ready to moved on an he said yes an also said his sons wanted him to find someone . but there was several ... (298 words)

Can I trust my fiances denial although it seems he is caught red handed and he has a history of deceit?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I ask my question I need to provide some background information about my fiance and I. -He is not my child's biological father -We have lived together for about a year and a half -The first 6 months of our relationship ( we've been together for two years now) he lied f... (688 words)

We've been dating for 3 days and b/f already wants sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been dating since the 26th of May and he is already ready to have sex. He told me he didn't want to have sex and then leave me. He never lied to me before and we we're the best of friends before this. What should I do? I mean I really want too, but I ... (67 words)

The ultimate "one-sided relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 35 year old male and Financial consultant. My girlfriend is 25. We have a beautiful two year old daughter and have been dating and living together for the past three years. She traveled to NY three times since we began dating. Hasn't worked for over two years and show... (114 words)

I want to know how can I get back with my ex or should I even try?

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29 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex-girlfriend dumped me in september last year, before that we'd been going out for about a year and a half. She'd broken up with me once before that, but we got back together less than a week later, and we spent the time apart talking and acting the same as when we were ... (201 words)

My boyfriend's ex wife is creeping back into his life despite living with her boyfriend and he wont divorce her....

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote a couple months back...and need advice. I have been with my boyfriend for ten months. He is still married...he has been seperate from his wife for 2 and a half years...she has been living with her boyfriend for 2 and a half years... Me and my boyfriend are both 37. I ... (256 words)

Questions for women who KNOW they are attractive to men....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - You can be walking down the street (or in a store), and men would approach and ask for your name and number. Or you're at the club and they offer to buy you a drink. Pretty much wherever you are, men shower you with attention, even if you just met. And after years of ... (138 words)

I really like two women. One is available. The other isn't ready for a relationship right now. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some help! I am a single male. I was divorced ten years ago. I got out of a long term relationship two years ago. I have had time on my own and I am ready to date again. This is my problem. I have two lady friends. Both are attractive and good people and I like them ... (345 words)

We both want to get married one day, but I'm worried that if I move in with him he will become too comfortable and never marry me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, So I have this question about marriage. I have been with my bf for 2 years. We love each other and get along pretty well. We decided we wanted to move in together and are actively looking for a place together. It is all extremely excited and neither of us ca... (344 words)

Am I right to be jealous of my wife's new 'guy friend'? It goes so far that she even does his laundry!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - So, my wife and I have been married 12 yrs, and have always been admired for our relationship. About 6 months ago she started sharing her office with a single man, who quickly turned into her "guy friend". Since then, she's spent a lot of time with this person who I've only ... (169 words)

Guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I guess this is a question mostly for men, but female input would be appreciated too, especially what your partners think. Basically - guys, do you like it when your significant other makes noises in bed? I'm not talking porn star scale, but when I'm with my bf I tend to ... s... (85 words)

Should I stay in this sexless relationship?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend of 9 years and we have a 5 month old baby. We also haven't had sex since I was about 6 months pregnant making it 8-9 months total with no intimacy excluding greeting hugs and kisses. While pregnant he said he wanted to stop having sex bc he felt ... (216 words)

You'd think that after over 7 years together he would know! And the cheating thing still bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I wondered if you could share any thoughts on my situation please? My boyfreind cheating on me about three years ago (I know he did as I heard something I shouldnt have) I cannot confirm it with him as he point blank denies it but whilst I was in another room I heard him ... (249 words)

He says he doesn't mind my moans but it embarrasses me later!

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29 May 2012 (F)

- When I orgasm from having sex with my man, I cant help but moan quite loud. I know he likes it but it kind of embaresses me when I think about it afterwards. So Ive tried to stop it but I just cant. I also dig my nails into him so hard that Ive drawn blood before. He doesnt ... (70 words)

Friends with benefits or something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago I went out with friends after work and ended up hitting it off with a coworker. We went back to his place and had a few too many and one thing led to another. We talked about it the next morning when we woke up and he said he wasn't looking for anything ... (440 words)

How long is great sex?

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29 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - how long should be great sex? thank you... (9 words)

Should I believe my girlfriend when she says she 'loves me forever'? I'm worried she is still in love with her ex!

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29 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf says she loves me 'forever' LOL, not sure if i should believe it or not. Reason i ask is beacuse she just got out of a 4 year relationship, APROX 1 YEAR AGO, and we got togather about 7 months ago, she thinks her ex was just a lust relationship and that was abusive and ... (237 words)

We say 'I love you' to each other, but I've never told her I'm 'in love' with her. Should I tell her? Will this ruin things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - is it better to tell a significant other that you are 'in love' with them? Should i say this to my gf or is this best advised not to? I ask because i am in love with her, however we just say ' i love u', we have been together aprox 1 year, but im not sure if i should step it up ... (93 words)

Confused by this guy's behaviour, especially in the bedroom. Does he not fancy me? Why is he saying these things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy who does not live in my country. We have had dinner dates and I like to take my time to get to know someone and build a relationship before I go to bed. Anyway when I did go to bed with him, we did not have condom so I did not want intercourse... (253 words)

I'd love to win my ex back, but then part of me would love to move on from her once and for all. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'll start with one thing: it was a long distance relationship. We met on the Saint Valentine's day in 2011 and had some amazing time together. She's from Canada and she was amazed by Russia, and I happened to be from Russia. It was all nice until she suddenly decided to ... (904 words)

What do you think of this short story that I wrote?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanted to get a strangers opinion before i showed this to any of my friends. so what do you think? any suggestions would me most helpful. this is just a little short story i wrote. wolf My house grows dark with every passing moment of terror. I await what some believe ... (418 words)

My best friend is my ex, and to make matters more complicated I'm madly in love with her brother, who also has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a really complicated situation. I'm a 22 year old female who is madly in love with my best friend/ex-girlfriend's brother. Confused already? Me too.. I'm not a lesbian; I'm far from it. But when I was in high school, my best friend told me she had feelings for me,... (480 words)

Why do I feel guilty about moving on from my abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I will give you guys a back drop story first. i was in a relationship for about 1.5 years. This was my first intense romantic relationship. i loved this girl (i am a lesbian) with everything. no inhibitions nothing to stop me. As time passed, we became controlling of e... (267 words)

My boyfriend doesn't trust me, how can I get him to feel more secure in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about six months now, but there is an underlying problem in our relationship that I don't know how to approach. My boyfriend is kind, wonderful, so giving and supportive, but he has a hard time trusting me. He has been... (737 words)

My husband's adult son's treat him terribly, I don't know how much more of this I can put up with!

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29 May 2012 (F)

- My husband's two adult sons treat him horrible. They're spoiled and abusive. For years I've made excuses for them because their mother committed suicide the year before I met him. I feel like I've helped them work through some of their grief but they always blame their Dad for ... (461 words)

My wife is pregnant, did she cheat on me and is having someone else's baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been using the withdrawal method of birth control. If the timing works it is about 96% effective. While there were a few occasions several months ago where the timing may have been in question, this past two months, since her last period, the timing has been ... (328 words)

She only seems to want me when I'm not around, and then when I'm with her she wants space! Does she like me?

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29 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am in a somewhat complicated situation with this girl. We started off as friends, and eventually we grew closer and closer, but just as friends. A few months later, she told me that she liked me and I went along and said I liked her too. Then we'd spend time together, ... (393 words)

I'm in love with my ex's brother!

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29 May 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I fell in love with my ex boyfriend's brother. We became good friends while I was with his brother. I broke off with his brother about two years ago because he has a really difficult and selfish character. Even though it was hard for him when I left, we ended up in good terms. ... (423 words)

How can I forget about my ex and move on? How do I stop comparing myself to his new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for six months, and broke up one year ago. Although I liked him a lot, he was a horrible communicator and wasn't sweet enough. He showed his love through actions such as making me lunch or helping me out with things. But he was a little firm and slightly harsh ... (592 words)

Caught my boyfriend cheating but he claims it was just a friend, I don't know what to believe! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So i dated this guy for the longest time. About a year and 6 months. We argue a lot but we only broken up once and it was for a long period of time, we got back together but i never really had time to talk to him as much as i would like...Not only that but he begin to call ... (315 words)

My best friend and my ex got together, but he wants me back! Would it ever be the same? Should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I dated this guy for almost a year and 4 months, but right around Christmas times things got a little awful. We had never really argued but a few times in our entire relationship, and we broke up once before. Christmas time we broke up again and 2 more times after ... (513 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to send him pictures of myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my boyfriend for 4 months recently had sex and he wants it a lot now. Like he wants me to send him pictures and everything. I told him I'm not his personal playboy and he got upset. I'm a sweet girl and hate seeing him upset. But I don't want to send pictures. How do ... (63 words)

I'm very shy and worried that if my girlfriend breaks up with me I wont find anyone else! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

29 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,im 19yrs now.but i have this problem that worries me alot,many people say im handsome thats not the point,im a very shy type.this has impede my progress with dating girls,its very hard for me to stand a girl i like due to this reason. Yes i have a girlfriend and we have been ... (99 words)

I'm engaged, he is married and there is no attraction, but I enjoy our conversations! Am I wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm doing something wrong by having an intellectual conversation with another man! I'm engaged, he is married. We are former co workers who are on Facebook together. When we used to work together he came in as the assistant manager trainee and me key holder, whil... (333 words)

I'm moving back home and leaving my love behind, what should I do?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so im a foreign exchange student. and im here in the usa for one year. im coming back to my home country in a month. and i dont want to, because i met an amazing person here. i ve never ever met anybody like him. i feel so wonderful when i am with him. he gives me the best ... (151 words)

Crush on a guy at work....does he like me?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a crush (which never happens to me) on a guy at work. He looks right at me when he enters the room. Our eyes meet all the time during meetings. My friend mentioned she saw him smile after I was done presenting. I feel sparks when we make eye contact and I get this ... (113 words)

Who is responsible for kids turning into drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age - Who is responsible for kids turning out drug addicts? The parenting? The genetics? Or just luck? This situation is ruining my life,and my marriage, and I feel ,Im not responsible for this, but the society is turning against us . It is very painful and dysfunctional life to have ... (137 words)

Someone help me with talking dirty?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone help me with talking dirty? Me and my boyfriend were in an intense makeout session before and he wanted me to talk dirty to him. I didn't know what to say so I panicked an pretended that I had to go. I don't know what to say and he's a year older and way more ... (74 words)

What can I do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, loving, affectionate relationship back to life?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am twenty seven and have been with a man 22yrs my senior for three years, i feel like i'm no longer what he desires or is interested in.. We dont conversate and our sex life has nearly stopped. What can i do to bring our once vibrant funfilled, loving, affectionate ... (61 words)

How do you learn to notice guys when they are checking you out? And what should you do when they make eye contact?

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29 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to learn how to see guys checking me out or looking at me and how to handle it. When I was a teen, i wasnt really considered an attractive girl. Or at least i wasnt doing anything to look pretty. I had guy friends but didnt have a bf until much later in life when guys ... (251 words)