Why is it all about him with sex?

A female age 30-35, *ummersweetie writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months.. I know its not very long, but we are already living together. He's such a great caring and affectionate guy in all areas except for when it comes to being intimate. In the beginning I had hopes that this would change thinking that he was just nervous. But now that we live together and things arnt changing im starting to feel like crap about it. He wants to have sex all the time, but I don't get off from sex so for me to always have sex with no amazing ending starts to get really old after awhile and i start to feel used and abused when no attention or effort is given to make me feel good. He wont do any fore play and he wont go down on me.. Ive told him how i feel lots of times and he still dosnt do anything so what else can I do?

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