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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I lose contact with her? Or should I continue pursuing her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I haven't asked any help for awhile, but I am starting to have problems again. So I have a friend that is also in my English class. We started as friends and soon we started dating. We were fine for the first two weeks we started dating until other situations came ... (290 words)

I don't have a penis, am I ever going to be enough for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - When my boyfriend looks at porn, it's of transvestites. i've also found emails where he's talked to transvestites. When i ask about it he gets really upset and denies everything. i'm very hurt that he won't be open with me. He's admitted to liking to wear women's clothing, ... (101 words)

What is the average age when a man feels ready to settle down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi this is just a quick question. I was talking to a male friend recently and he mentioned an average age that men feel ready to settle down. I was just wondering what is a mans average age to settle down thanks ... (42 words)

Should I stick it out and hope that the relationship gets better, or break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. This is my first boyfriend. Everything was great for the first few years - we got on extremely well and we really did love each other. We went to the same university and everything started to go wrong, ... (262 words)

How can I deal with such a betrayal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) age 41-50 - I feel in great despair. recently a friend used me badly and lied to me a lot. my work colleagues have also seen him for his true colurs but im sure theres something wrong with me because he done such a good job of lying and deceitfulness. i have never been able to confront him ... (100 words)

How can I tell if he still has feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, my ex broke up with me 5 years ago. we had a argument after we spilt up and havent spoken since, but when ever i see them or the way they acted around me i get very mixed messages so dont no how they really feel about me. can u tell me how to tell if a ex still has feeling ... (73 words)

Is he in love with me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My bf and i were apart from eachoder but started calling me the day i finished writing my exams, and he declared his love for me that he still has feelings for me and we got back together. Lately, he's been asking me of my sis whom he saw her pics. i dont answer any question ... (106 words)

Why do I not respect myself ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - This is so embarrassing: I am in my forties, a grown up woman, an excellent mother, I have been told my son is a credit to me, I raised him on my own. My problem: I dated a cheating lying man for 5 years on and off, on and off as I wanted to end it but he kept coming back... (577 words)

My dad wont let me go back to my homeland!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Pls help! My brother and i moved from our homeland another city. My parents are seperated that's one of reason my dad(in Uk) sent us to live with his brother and wife. Since we came here iv always been doleful. I have missed my mom, friends, nd especially my bf. I wanted 2 go ... (104 words)

My ex acts odd with me , what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - what does it mean my ex broke up with me 5 years ago wanted to be friends with me but i turned her down and then we fell out and havent spoken since she acts odd around me she wont talk about it and has ago at her mate when im at the same pub as her she stares at me whe... (109 words)

He's been having problems getting hard!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my husband for 8 yeras now, and lately he's been having problems getting hard, he tried some naturals pills and some vitamis, it worked at the beggining but now is worst, sometimes even with the oral sex he doesn't get hard, sometimes I think he's cheating on ... (58 words)

How can I keep my relationship with my boyfriend exciting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i keep my relationship with my boyfriend exciting? We get along great! Weve now been together 7 years and would love to move in together but at the moment need to wait for me to finish my studies which is another 18 months ish as at the moment we cant afford it. Were ... (145 words)

I want to know is it a good sign he still wants to get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Just want some thoughts on my situation. I have been in a serious relationship with my guy for 6 months, serious meaning we both want long term and to eventually move in, etc. We are both in our 40s and had previous relationships. A month ago we talked about getting engaged ... (230 words)

Am I insecure? I don't trust my girlfriend who is a dancer!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4356 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my girlfriend for 8 months an we have a good relationship she is a dancer an has been for about six months she says she hates her job an trust me when I say so do I!!!! We have known eachother for years she has been ingaged 3 times an we have always had ... (508 words)

I really want our kids to have my last name!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I imagine this question is going to spark a lot of controversy.Me and my fiance have been talking about kids lately. Why I have no idea. But she keeps saying about the kids have her last name. but she has already said that when we get married she is going to take my last name. ... (124 words)

Since my parents argue all the time I've decided that I'll never be able to have a family of my own

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. Im from a family where parents always quarrel with one another, and there s nothing i can do about it. So ive been looking at my future alone the other day and something just came up in my mind that i cant have a family because having a family s tough (picturing my mom), ... (120 words)

Her mother has heard my wife is escorting, how should she discuss this her mother?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife has been working as an escort since 2009 and is quite satisfied with what she does. it causes no problems in our marriage. we are financially stable now and invest 75 percent of everything she makes. she pays her taxes and even lists her occupation on the irs form as ... (471 words)

Is this as bad as I think it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this as bad as i think it is? i have been on and off with a guy who is a bit older than me for 4 yrs now and there is the same cycle every couple of weeks..........he goes mental at me for sumfin silly and acts like a physco he'll threaten me and call me every name he can t... (261 words)

How do you truly know if this is the person you should spend the rest of your life with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was hoping to get advice on how do you know if the person you are with is The One!! i'm in a relationship, in fact living with my boyfriend for the past year and a bit. we have talked about the future, marriage, family etc i do love him and care for him deeply, but ther... (266 words)

Is it over? Was I wrong? Will he ever talk to me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my aquarius man have been together for two mounths now we are happy as ever when around eachother inseparable whenever theres a disagreement between us two we manage to work through it and except eachothers wishes lately i can honestly i can be a brat and i am ... (418 words)

Wondering if this is normal for a vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Well recently I am curious to know whats normal about vaginas. I've been checked for STD's and i'm all clear. But my vagina is redish colour and if I touch around the hole it can be quite tender. I find sex uncomfortable-but I put that down to I don't have it very often li... (179 words)

I ended it, so why do I feel sad that he's moved on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - On another note, Im a junior righ now. I had an ex bf who I dated for 2 years and 3 months. We broke up this school year. He's a freshmen in college. I broke up with him because he did drugs and drank, plus, I was starting to fall for another guy that was my age and in fear of ... (300 words)

How does a man feel when he's in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

16 May 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I know this might sound weird but How does a man feel when he's in love or when he really loves a girl and how he feela he's willing to do ?!! I know it sounds stupid but me as a girl I know how girls feel about a guy when they really love him and what they're willing to do and ... (128 words)

Why hasn't he told his parents, his friends, anyone about our wedding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I'm getting married in 5 months, my bf proposed a few months ago. It was an out of the blue proposal, we never discussed marriage and I'd never forced him into proposing at all. I love him so much and he sure loves me back a lot. We're both real excited about the ... (140 words)

I have this urge to kiss him! Do I make a move or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I am hoping you can help me figure out what to do here with this little, er, problem. So i have this male friend and we're very close. The only problem is lately i have this urge to kiss him. I haven't done anything about it but the feelings are getting str... (164 words)

What is happening here? Is my landlord attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I recently started renting and my landlord seems a nice guy..polite in the way he talks and treats everyone around him. My house is not completed so from time to time we communicate on the plans for the day. He keeps calling me dear..but I thought it was just his ... (166 words)

Did he love me when he was with me? What should I do to forget this cheating? Should I take revenge? Exactly what I must do to forget my first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I don’t even know in what situation I am going through now. My name is Beloved (fake name) The year of 2011 was a great year for me for both in good and bad terms. Firstly when I say in good terms, it means I found a guy (25) of my dreams in the month of February ... (684 words)

Have I made the right decision to leave my cheating husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 6 yrs and for the rest of the six yrs my husband has never be faithful. He had atleast 7 affairs just in one yr - dont ask me how he does it but yrs to an extend he was dating 4 other women at a go. He has never just once shown any sympathy towards ... (219 words)

Worried about messing things up with my date, how do I get past these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4361 days ago

16 May 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I have a date coming up next weekend I like the guy he seems like a really nice person and he's good looking but I'm so worried and nervous as I'm a single mum to a 3 year old girl and have been alone with her since she was born. I always attract the wrong sort of men but I ... (85 words)

How to come out from exta marital affair

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've an extra marital affair from last 6months. I'm emotionally connected with him but I don't understand does he really loves me or he is only after physical relationship? He doesn't have a kid nd completed 6yrs. Of his marriage. I have a adopted daughter.Me nd my husband r ... (98 words)

Should I still date him even though he is going to have a kid and a lot of drama?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so here is my story. About a month ago I met a guy who wasn't my type, and is 9 years older than me. He is 28 and i'm 19 almost 20. Despite me not thinking anything would happen between us we had good conversation. A coffee date turned into dinner, which turned into a 1 ... (435 words)

Why do I keep going back to my B/f even though he treats me like dirt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid my bf of 2 years is emotionally abusing me, always ignoring me, treats me like shit, never apologize and always finding one reason to another to stop spending time with me. Its been very long since we even talked for more than 5 mts. I know i need to leave hi... (119 words)

We like each other but we'll be 10 hours apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is real complicated. This guy and I found out we both liked each other a couple of days ago, but the problem is, we will soon be 10+ hours of flight apart. We've hung out together on a few dates, held hands, kissed, cuddled. But the problem is, we kind of left things open ... (175 words)

LDR with not much support and Low communication

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4361 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I like a girl which I met at the Superdome in Leyte, Phils. Currently, I live in Iloilo City... We are far from each other.... And I really really want to make something between us... Even though... We just met a month ago and we dont have much exposure to ourselves...... (190 words)

She's a beautiful woman but very demanding and I'm confused and disillusioned

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age - I am in a relationship with a "now"divorced woman of 52 yrs.We regularly have discussions,and Im told repeatedly...Im shouting at her/raising my voice,but she has 50%hearing loss in both ears,she wont wear aids....she feels like because she pays most things...rent etc...I have ... (156 words)

How often should I call this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - There's this girl i met through my bro. She's his friend's sister. she's cool, beautiful, brilliant, has vision, we have a lot of things in common. I've been talking to her for a while and all of a sudden i started developing feelings for her. We went on a walk recently and she ... (100 words)

How do I talk to a shy foreign exchange student?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone! I just wanted your opinion on something. Like if I am going about this the right way? I believe I posted a few posts about this months ago. But just to recap. There is this very shy, very quiet Vietnamese boy that goes to my school. I like him, but it has been ... (604 words)

I'm sure I have many faults in this too, but it seems that I'm the only one who's making an effort to make this marriage work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having trouble with my marriage... My husband has been down in the dumps lately. He's not happy and neither am I. I don't exactly know where the problem lies, but there are a few issues with his job that seem the most likely. See, his job takes him away from home for go... (466 words)

Worried I'm losing my best friend....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I feel like me and my best friend is falling apart and slowly drifting away. I'm a guy and my bestfriend is a girl. It's really hard talking with her as a bestfriend especially when I have no experience of talking to a girl from a bestfriend point of view. We use to talk a lot ... (197 words)

My husband can't say no to door to door salesmen and its driving me crazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

- I am so frustrated w/my spouse. We don't agree with how to handle door-to-door salesmen. I prefer not to answer the door. It spares their feelings, and keeps them from wasting my time. My husband on the other hand cannot resist answering the door, and then he gets trapped for... (753 words)

Should I ask if he is still interested in dating me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey. So theres this guy that has a huge crush on me. Hes one of my best guyfriends. He asked me out a week or two ago and i declined because i didnt like him like that. Now that ive talked to him more and had one-on-one time with him, hes starting to grow on me! I can tell he ... (88 words)

Why does my boyfriend never compliment me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My significant other tells me that he loves me from time to time, but he almost never compliments me. It always seems like a chore for him to do. I told already that it bothers me when he doesn't tell me nice things every once in a while but about 2 years have passed and he ... (96 words)

My mom is dating a 33 year old guy, who's closer in age to me than her! Its so embarrassing!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My mom who is 49 years old is now dating a guy who is 33 years old and I don't know how to feel about the whole situation. I mean he's closer in age to me than her, she's never done anything like this before so I don't know whats going on. She has dated a few men in the past ... (207 words)

Do you think by my family knowing we had affair it will help with the guilt I have?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I had an affair with the father of the child I was a nanny for. After doing this for 18 month the guilt became to much and even though I love him I told him we had to end things because he was married. He left his wife and filed for divorce so we could be together and as much ... (237 words)

Why did I have to cry in this dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4354 days ago

16 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have an unusual issue that I think is linked between a rather strange dream I had. Here's background on it: 6 months ago, I got dumped, in the most ruthless way possible. (By Instant Messenger + the dumper was LYING to me, and actually KNEW I trusted her with... (226 words)

My parents favor my sister over me and I'm really frustrated with their attitude

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi DearCupid, I'd like your opinion on this. I am 20 and my sister is 16. We both live at home with our parents. I work full time, she has a part time job. My parents have spent hundreds of dollars on her for clothes, sports events, parties, shoes, etc. This is not because t... (269 words)

My boyfriend died of an overdose and I don't think I'll ever be able to move on

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - a month and a half ago my boyfriend died.. we got into a fight the night he died..after we got off the phone i put a block on thinking he would hav someone call me the next day to take it off so we can talk.. his sister called and said he was dead he was found by a shed from an ... (303 words)

Is this abuse or just a bad temper?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell if your being emoitionly and verbely abused by your partner? my bfs bestfriend wich is now also my bestfriend asked me how do i put up with the abuse but i dint know i was? My boyfriend does call me names some times and yells at me alot and swears at me if i ... (168 words)

Found that my husband had a membership on a tranny dating site

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for 12 years married for 7. In that time we have had a few problems and have split twice for short periods of time for stupid petty things, the last time being Oct 11 but i was thrilled that we got back together on new years day.I thought things were ... (270 words)

He never calls ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf for the past few months is avoiding me too much. He never calls even if i call he says he is busy or hanging out with friends and cuts the call. Its been very long since we talked or hanged out for long. I miss him a lot, i tried talking to him about this ... (113 words)

I feel like I'm to blame for making him unhappy and drink!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4360 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help,I have recently been dumped by my boyfriend of over 2 years,I loved him so much and stood by him( has he is a alcoholic(I dint know til a few month after we got serious)but I stood by him when other people didn't! He abused me verbally and accused of everything and ... (237 words)

Am I being insensitive? Does Facebook really mean that much to people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4361 days ago

16 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I a bit of a corner here. I will give you a bit of background so you know what's goin on. First started going out with my boyfriend 4 years ago. Back then his brother was a laugh, you could chat to him an he was really open and friendly at one point openlt addmiting... (671 words)