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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm attracted to her don't know if she's open to dating women. How do I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm bisexual and have a huge crush on a mutual friend who is a female. I've seen her around before because we do have friends in common but I've never actually spoken to her before. Basically, she doesn't know I exist which at this point is a very good thing because I'm ... (240 words)

Was it such a big deal that I lied to my b/f's mom about a job interview?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. Just recently I was supposed to go to an interview for a retail department store, but I cancelled it because I was too lazy.. : Anyways my boyfriend's mom asked me how it went and instead of telling her the truth, I ... (169 words)

I'm 15 and want to have a baby even though I'm not ready

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 15 and I feel like I want to have a baby even though I know I'm not ready financially. Why do I feel like this? How can I push the thought away? I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now and we have talked about having kids but not until we have a house, and are ... (87 words)

I'm in love with my fiance but dreaming of my ex?

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30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep dreaming of my ex, in a very sexual way, but I'm engaged! He was my first love, and we dated...7 years ago, we're still friends (we only talk once in a blue moon though), and I have absolutely no feelings for him other than friendship! I'm also engaged to the love of my ... (83 words)

Why does he say my name all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) I really like this boy and I started talking to him. We don't talk a lot, but sometimes we do. The first time we talked he said my name a lot. I asked him to sign my yearbook. He was like "sure (my name)" "will you sign mine (my name)" "here you go (my name)". T... (204 words)

When do I tell my new boyfriend I am a bankrupt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i was married in 2007 divorced in 2009 my husband fleeced me, tricked me into putting everything in my name - including his business which i hadnt realised was failing, a business load for 25 grand etc and the mortgage - as soon as i split up with him because of his ... (328 words)

I like my third cousin but am not sure how that news would affect her!

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30 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I like my 3rd cousin but im afraid on what she would think if I told her because we have known each other for a long time since we were kids and it might get wierd between us and the rest of the family what should I do ? ... (49 words)

How can I stop feeling nervous around my teacher which I fancy?

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30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I fancy my citizenship teacher. He is very fit, and is mainly a PE teacher at my school. He is around 23- 24yrs old and very tanned. Every girl in the school fancies him, except a few of my friends. We are the only girls he teachers in school (separate PE classes). To start ... (246 words)

Does this online man like me or is it about sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am chatting to this man on a dating website we seem to get on quite well he says he is attracted to me because of my looks and my personality, he says he wants to get to know me more and more. He says he would like to kiss and cuddle me and he likes my personality very ... (147 words)

I'm pregnant, b/f on other side of the world and I'm worried he's seeing his ex!

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30 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys...i am desperate... I am with my boyfriend for a year now and we love eachother alot although we had problems in the start as he had a girlfriend when we met and had to break up with her. Well we fell so deeply in love that 2 months ago he gave me a ring and we deci... (402 words)

My friends are always having fall outs or are so close they ignore everyone else!

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30 May 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, my friends are always having fall outs and I was just wondering if there is anyway to try and get them to stay friends without forcing them apart?? The other problem is that when they aren't falling out they act as if they are best friends and ignore everyone else! What ... (83 words)

I cheated on my LDR g/f, am ready to end things but how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating the same girl for three years, but we recently broke up to give each other distance. We still talk everyday and act like a couple, yet I made out with a new girl I met the other day.it was a one time thing and I feel absolutely horrible. Should I feel this ... (96 words)

My ex and I keep arguing and then making up with sex. Would this work in a marriage?

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30 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Am been for this relationship for more than 3 years,..but recently, after having sex, I always find one way or the other to have a misunderstanding with her , or she having a mis understanding with me., we quarrel for up to 1 week, then we make up again., I don't know why this ... (88 words)

Ex is coming in and out of my life. How do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so im needing some advice my ex of four months came back into the picture saying how much he missed me. We hung out for a few weeks and things were going great i didn't bring up the past just went with the flow. Now he.isn't taking my calls and i don't understand what is ... (82 words)

Do I love my best friend or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've broken up with my bf a few months ago because I felt that I didn't love him as much as he deserved. Even though we didn't ever fight or there were no other problems... And strangely I haven't felt very sad after it either. Now the problem is that my female best friend h... (304 words)

I care more for boyfriend's friend than for the boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4346 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, my problem is i have been dating with my guy for a year, but i liked his friend too. As the relationship with my guy went on, he cheated on me a number of times then my love for him decreased each time i found out because i nolonger trusted him, instead i grew ... (140 words)

Girl won't be with me because of her moms beliefs! - HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a very bad a frustrating situation. I was married to a girl who left me for another guy and was living with him before we even got an official divorce. It took me a long time but I am finally over that now and have met the absolute girl of my dreams and we have hung ... (318 words)

She said she didn't have a Facebook page and lo and behold, I find pictures of her with another guy! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I dont have a huge problem persay with this,more rather I want some opinions on the matter. Ive been seeing this girl for about a week now,weve been talking for over a month now and things seem to be going well. Last Saturday we went on a date and the topic of Faceboo... (260 words)

When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anything like that. He was ve... (161 words)

Would you date a woman/person who is separated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I am especially interested in MEN'S opinions but this question is open to everyone: Would you date a woman who is separated if you liked her or would her separated status stop you from asking her out or considering her for a long term relationship? If yo... (202 words)

Is a marriage between two alcoholics more likely to survive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2397 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age - Can a marriage survive if both husband and wife are alcoholics. I continue to read that chances of a marriage to a substance abuser of any kind most likely will not last but, if both of them are alcoholics that possess the same characteristics, would the chances of survival ... (84 words)

Is he just waiting for someone better to come along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months long distance. Only see him about once a month. He did at one point want me to move with him but then after a few arguments he decided against it. He says he still loves me, but he never texts or calls anymore. He only wants to talk ... (91 words)

Got pregnant without intercourse -- can I still call myself a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello,am 22yrs old,a female and av always wanted to keep my virginity for the right guy.wen I was 18,I was in a relationship and wen we are making out,he normally uses his penis to rub my vagina,in one of dose occassions!he ejaculated on my vagina and I didn't see any problem ... (164 words)

In a very roundabout way - was this an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my current bf is 19. We've been together 1 month (have known each other longer) and are about to move onto having sex together for the first time. (Skip this next part to actually get to the question, I'm sorry, I'm rambling!) Anyway, I read somewhere that it's a g... (437 words)

Are his comments about losing weight unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know if I am over-reacting to this situation. My fiance are a happy couple, mostly. We've been together a couple of years now, and I feel that he accepts me for who I am and all my flaws. Except one. I have a hormonal condition that makes me put on weight super eas... (269 words)

Was I just a random hook-up for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, the situation is: I met this guy 6 months ago at college and we became part of the same friend group. We saw each other almost every day and went out together at night several times a week. About two months ago on a night out we ended up making out but I didnt let it go any ... (274 words)

Ladies, What do you think of my poem?

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30 May 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm really interested in getting your opinion(s) on this poem. It's for a lady who I am really close to , but we are not officially a couple. I already wrote her a love letter and she keeps bringing up the fact that she reads it again and again. I'm confident she will melt, but ... (239 words)

So much promise. And now nothing? How do I handle my online friend? was he ever genuine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been chatting with a guy online and via web com and mobile almost everyday for a month. The guy got so much into me and he swore and made me believe him that we have future this and that. He wanted to come to see me to the UK as he lives in other Europe city but I vo... (442 words)

Worried that the webcam session might have been recorded?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4347 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, Could use some advice..... I engaged in a webcam chat on msn. Met the girl in a chatbox. The girl was in lingerie. Was fun so I stripped to my boxers. But when I refused to pull my boxers down she ended the chat and went offline. Maybe it wasn't her on cam but a recor... (91 words)

Subtle ways needed. Is there a way of bringing him round to my wish for slow lovemaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very happy in my relationship. My partner and I enjoy our time together and have regular sex. But the problem is, it's always hard, fast sex, if you know what I mean! It's good and he drives me wild but sometimes I just want to 'make love' as cheesy as it sounds, like slo... (161 words)

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this one friend who I met in colle... (411 words)

How do I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, everyone. I have a few important questions: should I break up with my boyfriend? if so, then how i do let him know my decision? if he handles it badly, how do i handle him? if i handle the break up badly, how do i handle myself? if i shouldn't break up with him, how do i ... (394 words)

How do you create a long lasting relationship with a woman? Do you have to be a 'bad boy'? Or are there some women out there who like the good guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - How do you make a woman fall in love with you? Yes i know iv heard it all before ''you cant' - ' you cant help who u fall in love with '' etc, but generally speaking, i have found that women who are hurt/abused not necessarily physically, but more emotionally, tend to fall for ... (241 words)

Am I right to be upset with my boyfriend for masturbating 3 times a week when we only have sex once or twice a week?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for a guy to masterbate 3 times a week even tho he has a girlfriend? And say your having sex once maybe twice a week. Does the girlfriend have a right to upset with him? ... (38 words)

I'm bleeding again even though I've had my period this month! What is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am constantly having something wrong with me. this time,,, today I started bleeding but I have already had my period this month, the bleeding only lasted the day and it was very very dark(almost black) and very thick. not a slimy thick but an almost dry sort of blood. i... (98 words)

Younger colleague who has a girlfriend asked me to a football game and wants me to meet his family! What is he doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age - I am friends with a much younger man at work we have never dated i heard he has a girlfriend. he asked me to a football game 5 months from now and wants me to meet his family what does it mean? what is he doing? ... (46 words)

Do guys my age automatically expect sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! So, I'm 18 and I'm getting ready to head off to college soon. Like most kids (I guess some would consider me a "young adult"?) my age, I've been pondering the possibilities of what the future might bring. This includes relationships and sex. I'm not in a relationship ... (284 words)

My friend likes the guy I'm dating and told me not to get with him, so how do I tell her that we are together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Last month I ran into a guy I went to high school with that I have not seen in ten years. We exchanged phone numbers an have been seeing each other ever since. We have a lot in common and I have never been happier. My problem is that a week before I ran into him my girlfriend ... (222 words)

Bleeding after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What maybe the problem when after making love you experience spots of blood on your pants....i mean me and my boyfriend having been havin sex and evrything was just great until last month when we had sex when i got @ home i was bleeding as like if i were on my periods,it took ... (93 words)

Should I give her some time or what? How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend was ignoring me a couple weeks ago for a couple weeks cause she thought I was hiding things from her and was on my phone a lot. Well we got back together last week and spent like 3 days with her total last week. She said she was really sorry for ignoring me and ... (288 words)

He sent a text saying 'sweet dreams to the sexy one'. What would you make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, My boyfriend and i always txt each other good nite and it's usually cute and personal,but last nite he texts nite nite sweet dreams he always says those words first, but then he added, to the sexy one. Maybe i'm being silly but that to me didn't sound caring or person... (100 words)

I want Steve to be MY best friend, not his

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

30 May 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm an 18 yr old male and really good friends with this kid steve. I really want him to be a close friend of mine, and be each others absolute best friends. However theres a problem, hes already best friends with another kid who I dont particularly care for. Steve is all o... (239 words)

Terrible relationship with my mother!

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30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 16 years old and I really hate my mother. Me and her constantly argue and she makes me feel like shit. I am the baby of the family and have triplet girl sisters who are 24 and a brother thats 36. My parents are both 57. Me and my mother really don't get along. Like i hate ... (483 words)

If he doesn't reply does it mean he's ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4349 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy i like, he hasn't replied to my email of meeting up. He checks his email every day, as its connected to his phone so he has ignored me. does this mean hes rejecting me?... (44 words)

I want to escape my abusive, drug addicted brother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't take it anymore, I hate coming home.. My brother is a drug attict, thief and a liar. All he ever does is hurt me. He steals my money, takes my things, does drug deals infront of me. Im only 16, i shouldnt have seen any of this. i see his siringes to shoot the heroin, ... (329 words)

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

30 May 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have known eachother for years. We finally started a relationship that was almost 2 years now. I took a break I wanted it. It didn't feel like a break at all. We were still sleeping together. He wasn't giving me space. So I started to ignore him. it went on ... (589 words)