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writes:So my girlfriend suddenly broke up with me 4 weeks ago. The weekend before we had been on a nice weekend trip, everything was fine. She had moved here from another state with her best friend (another girl) and we almost instantly started dating. When she broke up with me she said that she needed some time and space to be herself for a while, i can understand that. she had basically just had me and my condo and her best friend and my friends from the time she moved here. The last 3 weeks she has still kept in contact with me almost every day. but a few days ago, that suddenly stopped. I talked to her best friend that she moved here with and she said that she hadn't heard from her either... in 3 weeks, other than a couple of texts. My ex hasn't been answering her calls or texts. She hasn't been in contact with any of my friends either. It's like she has turned her back on everyone. She has a new job and lives with one of her coworkers and just hangs out with people from work from what i gather. She also seems to be in no hurry to get her things from my house either... picks up one or 2 things every other week. Does anyone have ANY insight as to what she MAY be thinking or doing, we are all starting to get a bit concerned about her.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (26 May 2012):
 Hmmm...could it be she met a new guy at her new job and now has a new objective in life? Unless she has some sort of bipolar disease, or suffers from depression she has either lost interest in your relationship or gained new interest in someone else's. You didn't say how long you've been together. I think you should leave her alone and painful as it will be try to move on.
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reader, Orange8 +, writes (25 May 2012):
Orange8 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way she is 29 and I am 37
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reader, Orange8 +, writes (25 May 2012):
Orange8 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer best friend told me that she has never seen her do anything like this! She's known her for years. Just really concerned about her!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (25 May 2012):
 It doesnt sound like her to have a sudden change of character; i think its difficult to say what her problem is over the internet; if she says she is ok when you message her; then its pointless to worry as she does not let you get close to find out anyway.
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