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Married lover wants me back into his life after everything he's put me through!

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Question - (27 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2011)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *naciah writes:

I was dating a married man who never told me that he is a

A pastor as well, we were so much in love

I got pregnant with his child but then he begged me to

Terminate the pregnancy as I was not planning to have a child

With him I terminated the pregnancy,after the termination I lost

Interest in him and I told him that we separate our ways,he never

Agreed wit me on that he kept on calling and coming to see me.after a while

He came took me by suprise telling me that I ws right we need to stop seeing

Each other,well it was then hard for me to accept his decission yet I was

First to decide that then when he kept coming I realise that I ws still in love

With him and never wanted him to go. to deal with d fact He was breaking up wth

me was hard but then I accepted it ,now the problem is he

He want me back into his life again saying that its hard for him to forget me

I still love him bt I'm scared to get back with him.

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A female reader, anaciah South Africa +, writes (28 January 2011):

anaciah is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Hi, I'm Anna. I would love to say thank you very much for all the answers you've been sending me, they were really so helpful to me. Keep on doing it guys. Help those ladies who are stil stuck in their unhealthy relationships. God bless you guys.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011):

You have got him out your life, don't let him back in, it's not you he can't forget it's the sex.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (27 January 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntHere's my take: you enjoy wasting your precious time on this earth, you enjoy hurting another woman, you enjoy hanging out with some low-life "pastor", and finally you love the pain of a broken heart. Does that sound about right?

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A male reader, Kilcardy United States +, writes (27 January 2011):

First Rule of Dating: Don't Date Married Men!

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A female reader, PatientlyWaiting1 United States +, writes (27 January 2011):

You got away. That is great. Stay away. Period. He is selfish. Find someone of your own...I beg you. You were strong enough to walk away. Please just stay away it will ruin your life.

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