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26-29,
anonymous
writes:So about 3 weeks ago, I realized that this PAST summer I screwed everything up for me and this guy I like a lot(still). I know its WAY to late to fix anyhing, but ever since I found out I screwed it all up, it seems harder for me to get over him. I think I'm just not quite ready yet, but I don't think thats just it. Part of me wants to get over him, and part of me wants to keep liking him. He has a gf now, and I'm happy for him, but ever since he started dating her, he stopped talking to me, and now all he does is look at me a lot during lunch, and its confusing me. Ever since he started ignoring(for use of a better term), me, I started thinking, if thats what he wants, thats what he can have. But for some reason, when he looks into my eyes, and we hold for a second, I feel like somethings there, like his eyes are trying to say something to me, I feel a connection, like I did before I screwed everything up. Mainly, I want to know, I should wait till I feel like I'm ready to get over him or if I should just try my hardest to. And if there might be a connection when we catch eyes, and why he still looks at me, but won't talk, or text me anymore. I'm so confused, and I think maybe I can't get over him cause when we catch eyes, ya know. Thank you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Well you dont mention what you done to him to screw things up and you also dont mention how close you really were during the summer. However im guessing you done something that has really annoyed or hurt this guy therefore he is going to ignore you because you have caused him pain.
Im not sure why he is staring at you but i wouldnt act on looks alone because its obvious this guy has been hurt and if he is not communicating with you then he doesnt want to talk therefore i think what you need to do is stop looking at him try and ignore him and keep yourself busy so that he is out of your mind. You need to accept that you and him lost your chance and he is now with someone else.
goodluck.
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