Should I pursue this girl?

A male age 30-35, *ombrematto writes:

I met a girl whilst on a school trip in Italy, she was Smart lovely and made my smile. I fell for her. The problem is she is two school years older than me, and she is soon departing to Uni, in October time. I asked if she would to grab a coffee, intially approaching her as a friend to try and build a relationship and get to know her. She guessed that I did like her and she told me that she would like to get the coffee, but if we did have a relationship, I wouldn't see her. I understood her positition and apoligised. We haven't talk too much since then because I get nervous around her. The reason being that I really like her and I would make our relationship work. I will commit to it. I haven't told her all of my feelings to her. What should I do? Go after her and lay out all of my feelings? Or just give up and realise that I'm not going to get her? Any advice will be appreciated. Can you reply asap please. The sooner the better.

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