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writes:I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 3 months and i have grown really close to her. She is going on this family vacation for almost 2 months and i have no idea what to do. She has just left and i already miss her. I find most of my spare time involving me thinking about her and what she is doing. I'm not worried about if she will cheat on me because i know she wouldn't do that, i am just worried about the time that she is going away. I'm scared that i am going to get depressed and won't be able to stop thinking about her. What can i do to make this time go fast? What can i do to make sure that i stop thinking about her so much?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2010): yes, but even when im doing things i can barely concentrate without thinking about her i cant stand it. I don't know what to do for 2 months without my girlfriend.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 June 2010):
 Well,that sounds easy . We don't have a love trouble here,everything is fine, - you just need to keep busy and cut the idle hours when you would think and think and think about her.
C'mon, at you age it should not be that difficult. Have you got a summer job ? What about volunteering in some organization ?
What about learning to play an instrument ? Or tring a new sport ? Building something with your hands ? Setting up your own blog ?...
The possibilities are many- you just need to make a conscious effort to get involved in something, get out and about, and stop yourself brooding for the next 2 months.
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reader, lsickle  +, writes (16 June 2010):
sounds to me like u love her so dont think there is any quick fix to get her out of your mind....and what can u do to pass the time. Do what u always do. If its work then its work if its being with friends do that. If its xbox live that will work but also this is two thousan ten information at our fingertips. Talk to her everyday as much as u need to fulfill your desire. I am married two years and when my wife and i are apart and if its more then a day then we talk on the phone thru aim text messages jesus last month my wife and i had over eight thousand and that was just between us. If it will make u feel better by doin something for her start planning out a week of fun for just the two of u so she can see how much u care when she gets back. Dont try and not think about her embrace it know that the feeling u have is love and excuse the phrase puppy love but its a wonderful thing. Dont run from it embrace it. And start doin something constructive for your relationsh like poems a song there is alot. And just think how great it will be when u see her again
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